When you look back at your failed relationship, tell me, how many times did you fall for that one unattainable man? The one who was bound to break your heart, but still you decided to give it a shot?
I know you’ve been falling for those charming and handsome guys that sweep into your life, shower you with beautiful compliments, and take you out to awesome places – then suddenly disappear into thin air after a couple of weeks of dating.
You wish you could just peek into their minds and finally know what they’re thinking.
Is that one unreachable man only thinking about you? Does he know when you wake up in the morning, your eyes change colors? Does he notice how the sun shines over your beautiful fair face in the morning?
You wonder why that one unreachable man feels so close in one moment, yet once you give yourself to him, he suddenly becomes so distant. Is he battling his emotions or is he just deceiving you?
So many questions, but so few answers.
That’s what happens when you find yourself captivated by that one unreachable man.
You think that there’s no one like him and put him at the center of your universe.
You believe that he’s the one who ignites your feelings and with him, you feel as alive as you can be.
But he’s also the only one that can bring you down.
Every time he leaves you in the middle of the night, your eyes fill with tears, waiting for him to show up in the morning.
You wait for that good morning text that he promised he would send to you.
But it never comes.
The morning and sunshine bring only sadness and sorrow into your life and you wonder how long the pain will last because your soul can’t take it anymore.
And even though you’re battling your own emotions, you know that when you’re with him, time flies by so fast and your heart beats so loudly that he can hear it.
It seems as you’re living a perfect and beautiful life that ends too soon every time the sun comes up. And when he’s not with you, the hours feel like days, and days turn into weeks.
But he doesn’t feel the same way about you.
Time doesn’t pass by to him as it does to you.
He doesn’t care that you’re sitting alone in your apartment waiting for him to come back and make you feel alive once again.
This unreachable guy doesn’t know that every time he forgets to send you a text message, he’s hurting you and making you feel less worthy of him.
He doesn’t want to make time for you. He’s not in a rush to see you. He prioritizes everything and everyone above you. And that hurts.
The thing is, he’ll come running back to you once you realize that he’s the one who needs to chase you.
He’ll send you that good morning and good night text once you stop calling him. He’ll beg for your time when you stop making time for him.
And he’ll definitely crave your presence once you say to yourself that you don’t want to see him anymore.
You have to make him miss you by walking away from him. That’s the only way you’re going to save yourself from another heartbreak.
Once you find yourself captivated by that one unreachable man, it’s hard to find a way out.
But if he feels you’re slipping through his fingers, that’s when he’ll start chasing after you.
Emotionally unreachable men love the thrill of the chase. And once they catch you, they lose interest in you as if you’re an outdated gadget.
That’s why you shouldn’t allow him to catch you, because he doesn’t want to stay by your side.
He’s only a part-time lover – one who tells lies and half-truths so he can quickly move on from you and find his next bedwarmer.
You don’t need to settle for a man who’s only there for you when it’s convenient for him.
The only time he calls you and texts you is when he needs a woman’s touch and feels lonely at night.
You deserve better!
You’re a gorgeous woman who deserves so much more in her life. You have to walk away from him.
You deserve a guy who isn’t afraid to commit to you and your relationship. Someone who’ll back up his words with actions.
You have to give yourself some credit and say enough is enough. Don’t settle for his lies and deceptions.
Stop thinking that you’re asking for too much. You’re not!
All you’re asking for is the kind of love that’ll elevate your mind and soul.
Someone who’ll make you feel like you’re a superwoman and who’ll put you above anyone and anything else.
You deserve so much more than what he’s giving. And you’ll get your dream of experiencing beautiful, unconditional love. But not with him.
You have to walk away if you find yourself captivated by that one unreachable man. Let go of him and search for your happiness elsewhere.
First, recognize your inner beauty and start finding happiness within yourself.
When you do this, God will send you a man who’ll recognize your worth.
Don’t stay somewhere where you’re not appreciated.
Don’t waste your time on a guy who’s never going to show you his true emotions because he’s afraid of them.
Someone whose one foot is out of the door at all times.
Don’t chase someone who’s emotionally unreachable. Preserve your heart for that one guy who’ll give you his everything.
A man who’ll know not to play mind games with you, but be open and honest. A man who’ll make you feel like you’re not alone in this world.
One day you’re going to meet the one who feels like home – one you know you can trust and who’ll stay with you until sunrise.