How about we stop playing games? How about you realize that women are not obligated to wait for a man?
Not now, not ever. Me included. I won’t wait for you.
When we first started talking, I could see how interested you were in making me feel special.
You were so adamant to conquer my heart that you actually made me believe you cared.
I say this like you don’t care about me at all, because a man who cared wouldn’t make me wait for him.
Once I got to know you better, it felt like you were slipping through my fingertips the more I fell for you.
I know that I never made myself seem clingy.
There wasn’t a moment when I started thinking I was the issue, because you have always known where you stood with me.
You know that I appreciate you and that I have genuine feelings for you.
If you think that I am less desirable for admitting this, then I don’t even want you anymore.
Feelings, vulnerability, and commitment are beautiful things. I know I am brave for telling you this.
I am brave and strong for caring. You are a coward for hiding.
Only cowards are afraid of their feelings and only little kids play games with other people.
You can’t expect me to continue torturing myself with questions and possible answers.
I can’t see what’s inside your heart and I am not able to read your mind. You have to be open and honest with me.
Do you want me? Do you want this? No, I don’t want to hear excuses. Either you do or you don’t.
Why would I wait for you? Why would I wait for a man who can’t make up his mind?
When you truly care about someone, you know right away.
I know maybe better than anyone else how confusing feelings can be.
However, I have never questioned whether I cared about someone or if I loved them.
You know right away whether you do or don’t, because the way you’re drawn to someone says it all.
The way your heart jumps when you see them or the way you feel appreciated and safe. All the signs are right there.
Do you care about me? Don’t think too long about the answer. Do you? If your answer is, “I don’t know,” then I don’t think I can wait for you any longer.
You see, I like you, you’re cute, but not enough to make me wait any longer.
My mother taught me that no man is cute enough to make me wait for him.
She always told me that a man who thinks I am worthy of his attention and love will not hesitate to make me his.
If you want me, tell me right now. Not tomorrow. Not next week. Right now.
I won’t hold it against you if you say you don’t want to commit to me.
Feelings can’t be forced. I can’t force you to care about me the way I care about you.
I can’t force you to appreciate my presence in your life, nor make you miss me when I’m gone.
That is not my responsibility. All I can do is show you what you will miss when I’m gone.
You will miss a person who was always there when you called. You will miss a gorgeous woman who knew how to treat you right.
However, when I leave, it will be your fault. I will leave because you weren’t able to make up your mind or commit to me.
I won’t hold it against you if you say you don’t want me anymore.
Your opinions and your feelings are valid, so I will appreciate your honesty.
You see, I will make you feel understood and validated, but you won’t do the same for me.
You’re making me wait. You’re making me believe that it’s my fault that I deserve to be treated this way.
I have stopped pretending that I don’t know my worth.
Boy, do I know my worth. I played nicely as long as I thought you were worth my time and attention.
Now I know that you were just keeping me around because it was convenient.
I deserve so much better than you are ready to offer me, because I am done with this almost relationship.
It has always been nothing more than an almost. You have to make a choice.
Yes, I will pressure you into making a decision right now.
Say it. Tell me if you believe I deserve to be treated like a queen and whether you’ll be the one to treat me like that. Yes, right now.
My mother didn’t raise a weakling who doesn’t know how to stand up for herself. So this is me standing up for myself and demanding an explanation.
Do you want to be with me? Do you want this commitment? If not, there is someone out there who will love me and appreciate me like you never could.
I don’t deserve excuses.
You heard that right. You can’t find an excuse good enough to make me believe that waiting for you is an option anymore.
I don’t deserve your excuses any longer, as I have always been straightforward with you.
If you tell me that you’re still hurt from your previous relationship, it doesn’t mean I will hurt you.
If you tell me that you’re not sure about me, remember that I given you enough reasons to trust me. These are just lame excuses.
I will not put my life on hold for a man.
I have worked so hard on myself ever since I can remember.
My happiness has always been my first priority and you could have been part of that. I could have treated you so well.
Because of the fact that I have worked so hard to make my life this beautiful, I won’t let you make me miserable.
I won’t put my life on hold for anyone, especially not a man who isn’t able to make a simple decision.
You should know that my work, my friends, and my family are more important to me than waiting around for you.
I am really not that desperate for male attention.
The love I feel for myself is enough to keep me going; you would have just been a part of that.
If you believe that you are entitled to me and that you can play these games with me, dude, you are mistaken.
If you’re not able to make up your mind, we can’t see each other anymore.
I can imagine the way your eyes are going to widen at this statement, but what else do you expect me to do? Sit around and wait for you?
This is taking you by surprise, I’m sure. However, I’m not sitting around and waiting for your calls if you’re not giving me an honest answer.
I’m asking you one more time: Do you want me or not?
You will never have me if you don’t want me right now. Not because I don’t care about you anymore, but because I care about myself more.
I care about myself enough to know that I deserve someone who will be honest with me.
I deserve someone who won’t make me wait.
Are you that person? Are you the man of my dreams who I have been waiting for to treat me right? You can be if you are willing to choose me right now.
I will love you and treat you so well, but I also want the same treatment in return.
If you give me one more excuse, I am out the door. So tell me. What’s it going to be?
Because If you don’t want me right now, you won’t have me in the future either.