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If You Continue To Chase Him, You’ll Only Be Hurting Yourself

Have you ever chased someone who doesn’t care for you or doesn’t love you enough? Well, most of us have and it surely didn’t end well.

When you chase someone, it’s rather difficult to balance how much power you’re actually giving to the other person.

You never know how the other person will reciprocate.

You might end up chasing a person who isn’t ready to give you the love that you crave.

Don’t get me wrong. It’s not bad that you take the initiative when you know you like a man and he likes you, but what if it does more harm than good to you?

Let’s get this straight: There’s a significant difference between chasing someone and fighting for someone.

You should never humiliate yourself to the point where all of your dignity is gone.

You have to be honest with yourself and accept the fact that you’ve chased this man for a long time and he hasn’t chased you back.

Don’t give pieces of your soul to someone who doesn’t appreciate you and won’t chase you back.

DONE! If You Continue To Chase Him, You'll Only Be Hurting Yourself

You won’t get anything in return for the effort you’re putting in.

You can’t just wait for him to realize how deeply you care for him and expect that he’ll chase you.

You’re only hurting yourself by doing that.

Why waste your time on a guy who is incapable of loving you the way you deserve? You’re wasting your time on the wrong guy.

The bitter truth is that the more you chase him, the more power you’re giving him.

Don’t settle for “maybes” and half-truths.

He’s not putting much effort into your relationship and you know that, but still, you’re letting him get away with it.

Why? You shouldn’t settle for a guy who makes you miserable and desperate for love.

You’re chasing an imaginary dream and investing your precious time into something that doesn’t exist.

You’re accepting something that’s making you question if you’re even lovable because you’re afraid that you might not be strong enough to move forward with your life alone and on your own terms.

Don’t do that – you’ll be only hurting yourself.

DONE! If You Continue To Chase Him, You'll Only Be Hurting Yourself

Wake up from this dream and see that he’s doing everything he can to escape you.

To escape from a person who’s giving him her love on a silver platter.

There’s no point in chasing a man who expects to do less and receive more.

You’ll never get the results you hope for, no matter how hard you try. You can’t make someone love you and that’s a fact.

You’ll only lose yourself if you continue to chase him. You change because a man wants you to change. You’re not doing it on your own terms.

And it’ll only bring you more harm than good, trust me.

And the more you chase him, the more you put yourself in a vulnerable spot.

DONE! If You Continue To Chase Him, You'll Only Be Hurting Yourself

When you chase him, you’re giving him permission to behave however he wants to, and that means he can ghost you – avoid you.

He knows he can do that because you’ll forgive him no matter what.

But the sad truth is the more you allow him to get away with these things, the more he starts to realize that he’s your greatest weakness.

And he’s sure to exploit that.

The more you chase this guy, the more you’ll settle for less.

You have different views of what true love really means. So, why should you settle for such a guy?

And even if you meet another man, you might be thinking that this kind of behavior is acceptable and you’ll be only hurting yourself.

Don’t chase him, let him chase you!

DONE! If You Continue To Chase Him, You'll Only Be Hurting Yourself

The more you chase him, the lazier he’s going to get.

He won’t make any date plans or send you a good morning text first. He won’t bother to chase you back.

Eventually, he’s going to leave all the hard work for you. And for what? For you to feel sad and unhappy?

Don’t chase him, you’ll be only hurting yourself.

The more you chase him, the more you’re going to resent yourself.

Maybe you’re happy right now, but trust me, one day you’ll see what you’ve become and you won’t be glad that you changed for a man who doesn’t appreciate you.

You’ll be frustrated by the fact he manipulated you into thinking you were the one who needed to change instead of him.

That’s why you shouldn’t chase him, because you’ll be only hurting yourself.

DONE! If You Continue To Chase Him, You'll Only Be Hurting Yourself

The more you chase him, the more bitter and possessive you’ll become with each passing day.

You’ll see all those friends whose partners make an effort to show how much they love them and you’ll ask yourself why your boyfriend doesn’t do the same.

Why don’t you deserve to be treated like they are? You shouldn’t feel that way by a guy who doesn’t see you’re worthy of being loved.

If you chase him, you’ll start to question your own worth and that can make you feel sorrowful and pessimistic.

Eventually, you’ll start wondering why you aren’t enough for this guy and why he’s running away from you.

You’ll question your own intentions because you’ll think you’re doing something wrong and that’s why he’s pulling away from you.

But know this: You’re beautiful and worthy of experiencing true love.

DONE! If You Continue To Chase Him, You'll Only Be Hurting Yourself

And if he was the right one, then you shouldn’t have had to chase him in the first place. He simply doesn’t care.

Don’t chase him! You’ll lose your self-love and self-respect.

And the more you chase him, the more you lie to yourself that you’re living the dream. Eventually, you’ll start thinking that you don’t deserve more.

But you deserve to have a happy and fulfilling relationship. Don’t chase him, you’ll only be hurting yourself.

If You Continue To Chase Him, You'll Only Be Hurting Yourself

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