If You Aren’t Interested In Me Now, You Won’t Ever Have Me

I’m not going to beat around the bush when it comes to who I am and what it’s like to date me. The point is, if you aren’t interested in me now, you won’t ever have me.

I’m actually a good catch. I treat others with respect and expect the same in return. When I care about someone, I give them all of my love, whether they’re my partner or my friend.

If you want me to be with you, you need to recognize my value and appreciate me for the girl I am. I’ll make it worth it for you, but if you instead expect me to hang on while you decide whether you want me or don’t, it’s not going to happen.

I’m done waiting for others and I have no intention of wasting my time ever again. If you aren’t interested in me now, you’re not going to ever have me, and that’s it.

I don’t have the energy or time for those who have second thoughts about being with me. If you do, please just walk away and find someone who doesn’t mind waiting for you to make up your mind.

As for me, I need a person who knows what they want, just like I do. I need a man who goes after what he wants before time runs out.

Either you want me in your life, or you don’t, it’s simple as that. Anything else is just playing games, which we’re too old for anyway.

I’m not going to settle for someone who isn’t sure about me and can’t even decide what kind of relationship we have. I don’t have any energy left in me for wondering whether a guy is too shy or just wants to strings me along.

Instead, I need a man who knows what he wants when he sees it and acts on it. Not in a few days or weeks from now, but right now.

If you aren’t interested in me now, you won’t ever have me because I’m done with the waiting game. Either you’re with me, or you’re just a stranger passing through my life.

I value my time too much to settle for “maybe” or “one day.” Do you honestly expect me to just sit around and wait while you think about whether you’ll eventually want me in your life?

Sorry to burst your bubble, but that’s not going to happen.

I love my life, and I’m not going to put it on hold for someone who isn’t sure about me. I’m not going to pause everything just because a guy can’t figure out what he wants.

I’m not going to wait for someone who clearly sees me as an option, because I have options. I may get lonely sometimes, but I’m not that desperate.

I don’t have time for silly games. When you like someone you know it right away. It takes time to build a relationship, but you know whether you want one or not.

Don’t put me on hold and then later try to win my heart when you eventually decide you want it. You’re simply keeping me waiting, and I get that you’re not going to make your move.

Even if you are interested, I’m not wasting any more of my time.

You can go ahead and remove one option from your list and keep weighing the other ones for as long as you want. I don’t have any intention of staying on that list since I’m clearly not a priority.

After all, when you have feelings for someone, there’s no doubt about it, you just know. You can’t be unsure about how you feel about me if your feelings are genuine.

Either you want me in your life or you don’t. If you aren’t interested in me now, you’ll never have me.

Don’t think that you’ll be able to ring me up one day and say that you wish I was still a part of your life. When it’s done, it’s done.

You’ve missed your train. If you wanted to be with me, you would have.

When you fall for someone, you don’t wonder whether you should give them a call or not. You go after them and do all it takes to win them over because you just know.

I’m not going to be your backup plan in case your other options don’t work out. You’re not interested in me, and that’s that.

I’ll decide for you because I’m tired of waiting for you to make up your mind about me. You’ll regret not fighting for me while you still had the chance.

And don’t you dare change your mind later. If you come knocking after all this, you better know that I’m not going to be available, whether I’m with someone or not.

Don’t show up later to tell me that you were waiting for the perfect timing and weren’t in a good place at the time. I honestly won’t care.

You’ll only be able to blame yourself since you had a chance and you blew it.

If you valued me at all, you wouldn’t keep me waiting while you reconsider your other choices. I can’t believe I even waited for a minute since you’re not worth a second of my time.

If you’re scared of commitment or whatever, that’s your problem, not mine. I don’t care about your reasons because I have better things to do than wait for you.

You’re not even that cute, and now that I think about it, I’m not sure what I even saw in you. You were just blocking my view, and now I see I get to choose too.

And I don’t choose you because you weren’t confident enough in your feelings for me to choose me right away. I choose myself over you, so don’t come knocking when all your other choices bail on you.