You’ve been barking up the wrong tree if you’ve been thinking that this is a girl who’ll settle. If she’s only your backup plan, she’ll have an exit plan and you can be sure about it.
She’s not going to be your option when she knows that she deserves to be someone’s priority. You’re not going to get to use her as a rebound girl to get back at your ex.
She’s not going to let you treat her as the last option when you run out of any others. You won’t get to call her only when no one else is willing to pick up the phone.
She’s not going to wait in line with other girls in your life to wait for you to choose her.
This girl is not the kind who will stare at her phone all day because you promised that you’d call. She’s not going to wait for you to pick her up and then fall asleep in her favorite dress because you left her hanging.
She’s not the type of girl who will beg you to make some time for her or believe that you’re too busy. She’s not going to settle for late-night texts and calls when you just need someone to be around you.
This is not a person you can spend some time with and never call again. She’ll see right through you and you won’t get the chance to make that call in the first place.
If she’s your backup plan, she’ll have an exit plan.
She deserves someone who’ll always choose her, not someone who’ll treat her like a plan B. It’s not her job to make real men out of immature boys.
She has no time for those who can’t make up their mind and behave properly.
Not all women want to change you; some see that you aren’t willing to change. Fixing you is not their responsibility so they won’t even bother to try.
This is not the kind of girl who’ll give you countless second chances. When you don’t treat her right, she’ll just walk away and find someone who will.
She’s not going to justify your bad behavior or let you treat her however you see fit.
With this girl, you only get one shot and if she’s your backup plan, she’ll have an exit plan.
Don’t expect this girl to blindly trust your empty promises after you blow your one shot with her. When you miss an opportunity with a girl like her, you won’t get her back just because you want to crawl back into her life.
When you miss your chance with her, you’re not going to get another one. She knows what she wants and what she deserves.
This is not the kind of woman who will play games with you, so don’t waste her time. If you can’t figure out what you want, find someone else to help you with that.
She wants a real man who’ll choose her and never stop choosing her.
She’s not one of those girls you’re used to, who’ll put all their energy into decoding your mixed signals. She won’t tolerate being the only one in the relationship who actually puts effort into making it work.
If you’re looking for a one-sided relationship, feel free to look elsewhere. This girl knows her worth and she doesn’t need a man to feel good about herself.
She’s especially not going to tolerate a man who makes her feel bad. If you want a woman like her by your side, you’ll have to man up.
She has been through a lot and she worked hard to be who she is today. No matter how much you mean to her, she won’t let you diminish her.
Maybe you think that she’s too old-fashioned but it’s not that. She just doesn’t want anything temporary because she knows what she wants in life.
Meaningless relationships don’t interest her and she needs a real man by her side. She wants someone who comes into her life with the intention of staying a permanent part of it.
The crumbs of your affection aren’t enough for this woman; she wants you to give her all of your love or none of it. Half-hearted love is not enough for her and never will be, so don’t waste her time if you just want to hook up.
She’s not going to beg for your attention or love and she’s not going to chase you. If you don’t think that she deserves to be a part of your life, find someone who does.
The truth is, you probably don’t deserve her and if you’re just a boy, you shouldn’t even search for a strong woman. A strong woman deserves a real man who knows exactly what she wants and doesn’t give up until she gets it.
Don’t worry about her because she doesn’t mind staying single until she finds the right man. She can be perfectly fine on her own and doesn’t need a man to feel fulfilled.
Why would she even waste her life on the wrong man who never wanted to stay a part of it? When she sees the signs she’s an option, not a priority, she’ll turn around and walk away.
Regardless of how hard walking away from a relationship can be, staying unhappy is worse.
If she’s only your backup plan, she’ll have an exit plan. It’s not an almost relationship if she’s your plan B, it’s simply not a relationship at all.
Maybe you think that she’s asking for a lot but she just wants true love. Doesn’t she deserve a man who’ll put as much effort into the relationship as she does?
She wants a man who’ll recognize her worth and appreciate her for the sacrifices she makes.
She wants a man who’ll always put her first, make compromises, and do everything it takes to keep her around. Men like that are out there, even if you’re not aware of it because you’re not one of them.
Those who want to play games are on every corner but the right men are right around the corner too.
If you’re not the right man for her, don’t pretend that you are, and instead, walk away… If she’s only your backup plan, she’ll have an exit plan anyway.
This girl is waiting for someone, so don’t block the traffic by playing with her. Someone will see her as the woman he’s been looking for his entire life, so be man enough to let him find her.