You can’t say that you haven’t faced a toxic person in your life and you don’t know what it means to be in a relationship with a person like that. Most of us have had the unpleasant experience of dating someone who left us wounded and scared that we’d lose faith in love.
More often than not, those kinds of relationships are doomed to fail.
You see, when you find yourself in a situation where the guy is taking you for granted over and over again and gives you empty promises, you hope that the love you have for him will make him change. But the truth is, those types of men never do.
They just continue with their old habits and continue breaking you apart until there’s nothing left of your love.
The thing about that kind of a man is this: If he shows how little he cares, you better believe that it’s true!
There has to be a certain level of self-respect to walk away from him and anything that makes you question your self-worth. You don’t need to settle for a relationship in which you’re constantly doubting whether or not the man actually cares about you at all.
Guys like that don’t have the courage and strength to tell you that they don’t want you anymore. They’re simply cowards who are waiting for you to make a mistake so they use it as an excuse to leave you forever.
Their only tactic is to shift the blame onto you, so they don’t feel guilty when they betray you. It’s their goal to make you believe that you’re the one who doesn’t know how to love someone.
But keep in mind, you control your own life and make your own decisions.
Make it easier on him by ending it yourself and distancing yourself from a man who’s only there for you when he needs his ego boosted.
I understand that it’s difficult for you to hear this, but it’s better to hear the bitter truth than being deluded by a lie.
Stop making excuses for him, going out of your way to show him how much you love him. If he shows how little he cares for you, then you need to believe him!
He’s a wimp for putting you through this, but it doesn’t mean that you have to settle for him.
If you see him slowly slipping away, don’t try to pull him toward you by chasing him. He’ll just disappear even faster.
Guys like him don’t know how to verbalize what they’re feeling and you can’t expect him to tell you the truth straight to your face. Instead, he’ll take the easy route and just run away from you.
But don’t run after him – it’s not his wish to be chased by you and it shouldn’t be yours either. You deserve much more than he’s giving you right now, trust me.
Why would you want someone who doesn’t think that you’re enough for him and who never puts his heart on a sleeve for you?
Don’t fall for his pitiful mind games and let him manipulate you into staying with him. You know that he’s keeping you near when it suits him, only to disappear whenever you need something in return, right?
And guess what? Everybody around you knows that except you. Your family probably sees it and your friends too.
They aren’t saying anything to you because they’re secretly hoping that you’ll come to your senses by yourself. They don’t want to be the bearer of bad knows.
And to be honest, you’re sick and tired of being used by guys who don’t know what they want from life. You’re emotionally drained and you can’t take it anymore.
You’re so used to giving yourself to other people that you’ve forgotten what it’s like to be genuinely loved by someone.
For the love of God, don’t let your need for love overshadow the awful treatment you’re receiving from him.
Remember, the more you’re willing to condone his bad behavior, the more he’ll keep using you to satisfy his needs.
It’s one thing to hope that he’ll change his ways because of you, but it’s another to keep being in a relationship with him after countless ways he’s proven to you how little respect he has for you.
The love you give needs to be reciprocated. That’s the only way you can build a strong future with someone. A healthy relationship consists of mutual respect, support, and being there whenever you need each other.
Every time you make an excuse for him, just remember how many broken promises he’s made and how much you’re sacrificing right now.
Listen to your gut, despite what your heart is telling you.
You’ll know when you meet the right one because he’ll show you what was wrong with your exes and why your previous relationships failed.
And with this guy, it’s not like that.
That’s why you must leave him before you get used to being treated like a drop in the bucket. Before you start thinking that what you have is normal for a relationship and settling for it.
You know what you’re capable of giving to a man and the right one will appreciate you for that. Leave this narcissistic manipulator before he totally breaks you.
If he shows how little he cares for you, you better believe that it’s true!
You don’t need a guy like that in your life. No one does.
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