If you have ever been in love with someone, you know how hard it gets when that person changes.
I’d rather be alone than with someone who makes me miserable and you should too.
A relationship can feel like a roller coaster sometimes.
There are a lot of ups and downs, but with the right person, eventually everything settles down and you make it work.
That said, it’s hard to be with someone who shows their true self after some time, and then makes you feel miserable in the relationship.
Don’t get me wrong, a relationship can and should be a beautiful experience, but what do you do when a person makes you feel awful and sad?
Do you stay with them and try to make things work? Or do you walk away from them?
As I said, you’ll hit some bumps in the road, but a partner who understands how much sacrifice it takes to make it work will put in the effort and try to understand you.
On the other hand, if he doesn’t take a step back and confess when he’s wrong, then it’s probably for the best to be single.
Choosing to be single doesn’t mean you’re not worth loving.
It means choosing to be yourself rather than in a relationship in which being your true self is forbidden.
For some people, being in a relationship is the ultimate goal. Being lonely gives them anxiety and they fear being on their own.
I’d rather be alone than with someone who makes me miserable and you should too.
I get it, it’s comforting having someone next to you when you get in bed at night.
You always have someone to talk to, even when you’re bored or lonely.
But what if the other person doesn’t fulfill you, doesn’t appreciate you?
Are you willing to compromise just so you can say that you have somebody next to you?
Well, my advice to you is to never overlook your partner’s flaws just because you want to avoid the desperation of being alone.
You might think that single life is scary in times like these. It’s never been easier to connect with other people, so why would you feel that way?
If you’re afraid of being lonely, the best thing for you to do is surround yourself with the right people, people who care about you, and you won’t feel that way ever again.
Although a relationship with the right man is great, when you’re single, the only person you need to please is yourself.
Your mind will be clearer when you’re single because there’s no ‘why or what went wrong’.
You don’t need to break your head over it.
You can live the life you want and trust me, putting your needs first is the most loving thing you can do for yourself.
If you’re been in a relationship with the wrong man, you know how exhausting it is to constantly please someone.
It drains you of your energy and eventually, you burn out.
Why would you even stay in a relationship that makes you unhappy?
You have to learn to be happy on your own. In order to find a person who’ll make you happy, you first have to find happiness in yourself.
I’d rather be alone than with someone who makes me miserable and you should too.
Just let go of a guy who doesn’t cherish who you are and make room for a guy who’ll know your worth.
Everyone who has experienced heartbreak once in their life knows how hard it is to shut yourself down inside and lament over the loss of your loved one.
Choose to be single because you’ll have control over your emotions. You can manage your own situations and you can decide whom to let into your life.
When you control your own emotions, you become a pillar of support, not just to yourself but to others as well.
Single life brings you freedom. A feeling that is a true rarity and an asset.
Believe me, not everyone has it. A wrong relationship can cage you in, it can deter you from being at your best and never realize your true potential.
When you’re single, you control your own happiness, and that means you control what you eat and when you want to eat it, you make your own schedule, and you hang out with your friends when you feel like it.
No one can take that freedom from you.
That freedom you experience when you’re single will help you figure out what you want from a relationship.
Being miserable in a relationship means you have to cope with negative emotions. Not just yours, but also those of your partner.
I’d rather be alone than with someone who makes me miserable and you should too.
Once you decide to be single, some reflection can really help you sort things out and determine what it is that you’re looking for in a relationship.
We change as life changes, that’s inevitable. You can’t just assume you know what you want.
It takes time to learn from your mistakes.
Today’s technology gives you many opportunities for dating and to explore what sorts of characteristics you find attractive or unattractive in a partner.
It’s always better to be single than taken for granted.
Every relationship seems perfect at the beginning.
You’re dating a guy you like, he buys you flowers, takes you out on dates, and so on, but later on, if he isn’t the right one for you, he might start neglecting you and taking you for granted.
No one deserves to be treated like that, especially not a girl. You shouldn’t feel unworthy and broken all the time.
Genuine love is the thing you’re looking for and you deserve to find it!
If your partner can’t appreciate you, then he isn’t entitled to your love or time.
Learn how to fall in love with yourself before letting someone enter your life.
You deserve to find a partner who’s capable of accepting and loving you just as you are.
Remember, the most valuable relationship that you can have is the one with yourself. That’s the relationship in which you have to invest the most.
Learn how to love yourself first and let go of the people who are not ready to be there for you in the long run.
Experiencing genuine love means they bring out the best in you, and don’t stress you out.
I’d always rather be alone than with someone who makes me miserable and I believe that you should too.
Don’t be scared to be selfish for once. You have to be that if you want to attain growth.
Stay true to yourself and remember, the right person will come. It’s just not their time yet.
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