Are you ready to start a journey of manifesting your soulmate?
Are you ready to find your Prince Charming and finally let your dreams come true?
Imagine a beautiful house with colorful flowers in the garden. You open the gate and you go in, and instantly it feels that all burdens are left behind you.
You take your key out of your bag and put it into the door’s lock. Seconds later, you’re saying, “Honey, I’m home!”
Then, this amazing man who simply radiates kindness and care comes out of the living room and hugs you. And it’s not only that you’re home because of the physical space you’re currently in.
You are home because of the feeling. The one standing in front of you feels like home.
How would that make you feel? Happy? Satisfied?
Are you already smiling while reading these words? Does a feeling of warmth come over you by imagining this in your head?
If your whole life you’ve been struggling to find your soulmate, you probably think that it’s time to pull your life together and make some changes.
Maybe you’ve heard of the power of manifestation and you just want to try it. There’s nothing to lose, right?
Well, you’re right. There isn’t.
You can only gain what you want if you are willing to try this technique. All you need are a positive attitude and a strong will to manifest the soulmate you’ve always wanted.
How to manifest your soulmate?
Manifesting your soulmate is not about running around, chasing guys, and hoping that one of them will be the right one for you. Instead, it is about attracting their soul closer to yours by the use of some important steps.
So, if you want to learn more about manifesting your soulmate, buckle up and get ready to change your life for the better.
1. Figure out what you want your future to look like
When you wish for something, you need to know what it is exactly that you want.
In that way only, the universe can help you make your wishes come true.
Maybe you want a serious, stable relationship or you want to get married and have kids as soon as possible.
Whatever it is, if you want to manifest your soulmate, you need to be aware of your wishes, desires, and needs.
Actually, you need to identify every detail you want to have in the future.
One of the best ways is to write down how you want your ideal relationship to look.
Imagine that you’re meeting your soulmate.
You tell him your name, he tells you his, and what happens next?
Where do you want your relationship to go from there? What do you want to feel?
How do you picture what your relationship will look like? Will you take things slow?
EVERYTHING is important when you want to manifest your soulmate as what you wish, you will get. That is why you need to know your desires.
Do you want your soulmate to make you laugh? Is he supportive and committed?
Does he respect you? How does he show love?
Is he caring? Can you trust him?
Think about all of these details. This step is about putting your imagination on paper and writing down everything you expect from your partner.
Think about the ways he will make you feel, the amount of love he will give you, and all of the values that he may teach you.
By doing this, you will be able to fully understand what you really want.
It’s okay to have it all somewhere in your head.
But sometimes you can forget what you want, which makes it harder for the universe to fulfill your wishes.
Once you have it all in front of you, it will be easier even for you to grasp what you want.
This is step one for manifesting your soulmate – everything begins from here!
2. Say goodbye to the past
It is a well-known fact that you can’t move on until you let go of the past. It may even sound like a cliche by now, but it is still the truth.
So, if you want to manifest your soulmate, you should begin with healing from the past.
Make yourself believe that your past experiences only helped you become the person you are.
Previous partners were not right for you and that’s why those relationships failed.
It also means that they shouldn’t interfere with your present as you have nothing to look for in there.
You need to leave them in the past and forget about them.
Don’t expect that you will manifest your soulmate while constantly thinking and checking up on your ex-boyfriend. That won’t work and you know it.
Instead, be clear with yourself and realize that the universe will never send you a person who is right for you until you cut all the ties with those who weren’t cut out for you.
So, remove them from your life completely.
Throw away all of the things he left at your place that you’re keeping in that hidden drawer.
He won’t come back for them, and you shouldn’t want him to come.
Free your environment from bad energy and then clear your mind. Realize that he wasn’t the one and with a positive attitude walk toward the future.
This is a big step in your journey to successfully manifesting your soulmate.
3. Write down the things you love about yourself
Manifesting your soulmate is not only about wishing for the right person to walk into your life.
It is also about realizing that you are the right person too.
You are valuable and worthy of love, and you need to understand that as soon as possible.
So, before you start the process of waiting, grab a piece of paper and a pen, and write down everything you love about yourself.
Don’t be shy and don’t give me those words “I don’t have anything to offer.” If you get what you reflect, then you’ll get nothing with that attitude.
Instead, take things slow, and day by day, write down something you love about yourself.
“I know how to love,” “I am kind,” or “I am supportive.”
You can also write down the things you are good at, such as “I’m a great cook,” “I know how to change a light bulb,” or “I’m great at repairing things around the house.”
Even though it may sound weird to you, those are all your qualities and it’s time to be proud of everything you are and all you’re capable of doing.
It took you your whole life to achieve these things, so you shouldn’t ignore them.
This technique will make you appreciate everything you are, no matter how trivial it all seems to you.
4. Write down the things you can give to a relationship
Once you write down everything you love about yourself, you should start with writing down everything you can give to a relationship.
By doing this, you will be aware of what you can give, which in turn will manifest your soulmate with the same qualities.
“I will be a supportive partner,” “I will make my partner comfortable around me,” or “I will make him openly communicate with me.”
Now is the perfect time to write down everything you can give to a relationship and to your soulmate.
What you give, you will get. (Keep that in mind while you are making a list. It will help you identify what areas of your life need some change).
Feel free to list some of the best qualities you have to offer as this is your time to realize just how valuable you are.
5. Work on yourself
Now that you know what you have to offer, you’re also able to realize what things you are missing.
And after that, you’ll be able to work on yourself and change for the better.
Before manifesting your soulmate, you need to do some things that will help you become the best version of yourself.
You don’t want to manifest him while you’re not yet ready to be in a relationship with him.
And in order to be ready, you need to make a move.
Maybe you want to change your behavior because you’d never want your soulmate to act the way you do in certain situations.
Let’s say that you are bad-tempered and it doesn’t take much for you to lose your cool and react angrily.
You’d never want your partner to act that way so you need to change it yourself.
Or maybe your mind is filled with negative thoughts about yourself and you don’t want your soulmate to go through the same problems.
The only thing you can do is change your own thoughts before manifesting your soulmate.
Your relationship will always be a reflection of you and so will your partner.
So, if some things are not up to your standards and you don’t like them, then start with taking steps of change.
6. Love yourself and all you are
When you love yourself, others will follow your lead. It may sound overly simple, but things work this way.
You should never want to attract love because you’re lonely. Seeking love out of desperation could never make you happy in the long-term.
If you’re lonely and manifesting your soulmate, the only thing you’ll get is someone as lonely as you are.
The two of you will never be truly happy as something would always be missing.
So, before even trying to attract someone, learn to love yourself.
I know you’ve heard this phrase a million times, but I need you to hear it once more.
When you learn to love yourself and treat yourself properly, you can be sure that your partner will do the same thing.
It also means that you’ll never settle for less than you deserve as you are okay with being on your own till the right one appears in your life.
You need to accept everything you have to offer in order for other people to accept it too.
So, instead of nervously waiting for your soulmate, in the meantime, do something for yourself.
Explore your own mind, think about ways you could make yourself a priority, and finally, do something about it.
You are the most important character in your life. No one can love you as hard as you can love yourself.
Also, you could never mean more to someone you just recently met than you already mean to yourself. YOU NEED YOU!
So, be there for yourself, be kind toward yourself, and learn the ways to love every piece of yourself – inside and out.
All of that makes you the amazing person you are and the sooner you realize, that the better off you’ll be.
When you can honestly say “I love the person I am,” that’s when you will be able to manifest your soulmate who will love you the same way as you love yourself.
7. Open your mind to new opportunities
If you want to manifest your soulmate, you need to be open to different opportunities.
Maybe your soulmate will appear from a door you would never expect him to knock on, and that is alright.
You just need to be prepared for everything that life can bring to you, without setting limitations around yourself.
Don’t build a wall and then be sad that no one is approaching you.
Limitations are keeping you away from getting what you want.
So, if you want things to change and if you want to manifest your soulmate, be open to new opportunities.
Your soulmate might be your good friend you’ve been hanging out with for years. You might meet him online or at work.
You never know where he will appear from, and that’s the main point I want you to be aware of.
The universe can decide to show you your soulmate today, tomorrow, or in a year’s time, and it can be literally anyone.
Just because of that, you need to open your mind to new opportunities.
If your friends invite you to go out with them, say “yes” even though you are tired from work.
Maybe you always go to the same coffee shop. This morning make a change and try something new.
These new experiences can lead you to some great things that you are still not expecting to happen.
But the universe knows that is best for you so you should trust it.
Instead of patiently waiting in your little world, explore horizons and try new things in life. You never know what the future is holding for you!
8. List everything you’re thankful for
Sometimes, a bit of a positive attitude can result in amazing things.
It shifts your mindset and makes you realize that you should be grateful for everything you already have.
To achieve that, write down all of the things you are thankful for. From your supportive family, amazing friends, to the random people who shared some acts of kindness with you.
We pay too much attention to what we want to get from a life that sometimes we don’t even realize that we already have most of those things.
We all chase love but don’t realize that we are already loved and that we should be grateful for it.
So, instead of focusing too much on the future and all of the wishes you want to have come true, think about your present and all you have right now.
Be grateful for all of the experiences you’ve gone through and all of those that are waiting for you.
Piece by piece, they reshape you and turn you into the person you are destined to be.
Be thankful that you are healthy and don’t struggle through life. After that, learn to be thankful for your soulmate who will appear in your future.
Unless you appreciate everything that the universe already has and still is giving to you, you might end up a bit short-handed with your wishes staying unfulfilled.
9. Make space for your soulmate
It sounds weird, but if you want to manifest your soulmate, you need to have an appropriate space for him.
Both in your heart and mind, as well as in your surroundings.
First of all, clear your mind from all of the negative thoughts. Then fill it with a positive attitude and a true will that a manifestation will happen.
Also, you need to get rid of all of the thoughts about your previous partners.
In general, clear your thoughts from everything that can prevent you from getting what you wish for.
Then, look at your surroundings. Does it look like it’s suitable for you and your soulmate? If not, then make some changes.
You can free one of the drawers in your closet. It might sound crazy, but it calls your soulmate into your life through a manifestation.
It shows that you are ready to welcome your soulmate into your life and the universe will then do the rest of the job.
Everything is about a strong belief that you will attract what you radiate. And when your belief is honest, other people notice it.
So clear up some space in your life, mind, and heart, and you will be amazed at what can happen after that.
10. Have patience
Now that you have done all of the things mentioned above, you need to take one final step: Wait.
You have a vision of what you want, you know what you can give, you have opened your mind to new opportunities, and you have made some changes in your behavior.
You even took the step of doing something you usually wouldn’t in order to broaden your experiences.
Now, the only thing that is left is to wait and be patient.
Your soulmate won’t get attracted to you faster if you run around and chase every other guy that may seem like a match.
Stop looking around and thinking “Is he the one? Or maybe him…”
This behavior only puts pressure on you and makes it harder for you to cope with all the thoughts that enter your mind.
By doing this, negative thoughts may start to develop and once again you will find yourself in a situation where you don’t believe that you can manifest your soulmate.
So, instead of going there, have patience and let the universe do its thing.
You have done your part of the deal and chasing around, overthinking about why nothing is happening, won’t help you.
Be positive, continue loving yourself, and be grateful for everything that is happening around you.
While you are doing that, at some point, your soulmate will appear out of nowhere and you will be glad that you listened to your gut.
To wrap things up…
Manifesting your soulmate works only if you truly believe in yourself and everything you have to offer.
Otherwise, you are stuck in a time and place where no one will be attracted to you.
Raise your energy and let it correspond with your soulmate’s. Whatever you expect from him, you need to offer the same.
Doing nothing to improve yourself and thinking that someone will magically appear and teach you how to love will get you nowhere.
Instead, take the road of self-love first and then you will see how the new doors start to open.
Many opportunities will surround you, and finally, it will all result in manifesting your soulmate who will be everything you wanted.
P.S. It can only happen if you are looking for your soulmate in order to make your life better.
P.P.S. Also, don’t forget to give everything you want to get. You need to radiate light if you don’t want to get darkness in return!