Have you ever wondered why this girl is so different from the rest you’ve dated?
You see, being with a girl who’s used to being on her own isn’t like anything you’ve experienced before. Truth be told, she doesn’t share her love with anyone she meets. And she doesn’t think like other girls either.
This girl has seen it all and experienced a lot of challenges in her life. And all she’s been through, she went through by herself.
While other girls might be scared to be single, this woman has learned how to enjoy her single life. She’s isn’t afraid to take any chances and lives her life to the fullest. She knows her happiness doesn’t depend on having a man by her side.
The only way she’ll ever give a man a chance is if she sees that he’s worthy of her. And that’s because she knows what she can bring to the table and will never settle for anything less than she deserves.
Dating a girl like this will prove to be the best decision you’ll ever make, but it’s also a challenge at the same time. And the reason is that she loves differently.
1. She’ll need her freedom
One thing to keep in mind when dating a woman who’s used to being on her own is that you can’t be obsessed with her. You can’t bombard her with dozens of messages and calls every day and expect to have her by your side.
Remember that she’s been on her own for quite some time and you need to respect her space. Crowding her and putting too much pressure on her will only drive her away from you. And being in a relationship will be too big of a change for her.
Always give her some time and space to do the things she loved doing when she was alone. Clingy and immature boys won’t have a shot at her as she’ll quickly walk away from them.
And when she tells you that you need to respect her freedom, don’t come at her asking if something is wrong or if you’ve made a mistake. Keep calm and be patient.
2. She’ll need some time to get used to you
Don’t think that this girl will immediately climb out of her comfort zone. She’s used to being on her own. It’s a huge step for her to even give you a chance to impress her.
At first, she may be a bit reserved and let you do all the planning, but after a while, she’ll get used to spending time with you.
On top of that, replying to your texts instantly will prove to be a challenge for her. There will be times where she’ll read your message and mentally reply yet forget to send an actual answer. Those are rare situations where her brain is completely absent but only because she isn’t used to being in a relationship.
3. She’ll emphasize her independence
This girl is proud that she’s in a position where she doesn’t need anyone to feel fulfilled and happy. She’ll want to prove to you that she doesn’t need you that much and that she can handle everything life throws at her.
Her independence is something no one can take from her. She’ll always be the last girl standing. Also, she’ll show you that she can function perfectly by being alone and that she doesn’t owe you anything.
Believe me, she has no intention of hurting your masculinity in any way. She knows that it’s only natural for a man to prove himself to a woman he likes, and you’ll have plenty of opportunities to do that. She just needs her independence to be happy and satisfied.
4. She isn’t insecure about herself
At first, you may think that she’s arrogant or presumptuous, but that’s not true at all. While it’s true she doesn’t care what you think about her makeup or how she dresses, that’s only because she loves herself the way she is.
You’ll never see her acting all insecure. She’s well aware of her worth and isn’t affected by other people’s opinions at all.
And even if someone judges her or tells her that she’s overconfident, she won’t take that to heart. Keep in mind that you’re dating a woman who believes and loves herself fully, which isn’t easy to find nowadays.
5. She isn’t scared of you leaving her
This is a woman who’s used to being on her own, so she won’t be scared of you leaving her ever. But if she falls for you, then you better believe that she’ll love you with all of her heart.
However, don’t expect that she’ll put up with you if she ever sees that you’re mistreating her. Also, she’ll never change or try to be someone else just to satisfy you.
On top of that, she isn’t the kind of woman who’ll chase after you if you ever do leave her. She’ll never beg you to stay. She’ll still think about you, but that’s all. You have to bear in mind that she was on her own for the most part of her life and isn’t afraid to be alone again.
But, there’s one thing that she does hate and will avoid at any cost, and that’s being in a toxic relationship.
6. She’ll try to hide her weaknesses
A woman who’s used to being on her own will try to hide her flaws from everyone – not just you. She’ll embrace her imperfections and won’t feel uncomfortable having them, but she’ll want to conceal them from you.
Truthfully, she wants you to see her as a whole being and as someone who can overcome anything. It’ll take her some time before she realizes that she can trust you completely.
Don’t worry, you’ll get to see every part of her, but you need to be patient and not push her.