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60+ Happy Birthday Messages To Surprise Your Ex Boyfriend

60+ Happy Birthday Messages To Surprise Your Ex Boyfriend

Let me guess, you woke up this morning and you noticed that the date seemed familiar. Then you remembered. It’s his birthday. But should you even write to him, and if yes what? It’s your lucky day because I have more than 60 “happy birthday” messages that you can send to your ex-boyfriend.

If you’re unsure whether you should send it or not, I advise you to listen to your heart. Your friends and family might be against it. But that’s only because they care about you and want you to think carefully. If your heart is telling you that you should wish him a happy birthday, then it’s okay to listen to it.

However, I understand that’s easier said than done. That’s why I made three different categories of messages for you. I hope you’ll find something that fits your situation well. I hope you’re ready to check them out because I don’t want to keep you waiting anymore.

Emotional birthday wishes for your ex-boyfriend

60+ Happy Birthday Messages To Surprise Your Ex Boyfriend

Okay, the first category I have for you is “emotional birthday wishes for your ex-boyfriend”. Here you’ll find messages that sound friendly and honest. If you choose one of them he’ll know that you’re mature and you probably moved on from your relationship.

It’s also good to use one of these if you broke up, but you stayed really good friends. They are written in a way that prevents any awkward situations from occurring. Check them out and see for yourself. I hope you’ll enjoy them.

1) I know we went our separate ways, but one thing stayed the same. I still care about your well-being and success. So here I am to wish you all the best! Happy birthday, my dear ex-boyfriend!

2) Sometimes I think about you and all the beautiful moments we shared together. It’s sad that we didn’t make it work, but I’m thankful to still have you in my life. You’re one of my best friends and a person who knows me better than anyone else. Happy birthday!

3) You were, you are, and you will always be one of the most important people in my life. Today is your birthday, I pray for your health, success, happiness, and peace. Happy birthday to the loveliest ex-boyfriend I could have ever asked for!

4) Once upon a time, we used to celebrate our birthdays together. It was always that one restaurant you really liked. Now, everything’s different. We haven’t seen each other for such a long time. I hope that I’ll see you again one day. Until then I wish you a very happy birthday, my ex-boyfriend!

5) The distance was too strong and it destroyed our relationship. But it will never destroy the friendship we have now. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Happy birthday to the most amazing ex-boyfriend in the whole world!

6) We weren’t meant to be. But there’s still something special about us. It’s a fact that we were able to continue the most beautiful form of relationship. And it’s called friendship. Happy birthday, ex-boyfriend!

7) Today is a special day for you, but also for me. Because you’re a person I used to love once. I hope you enjoy it and celebrate your birthday the way you want to. Happy birthday and I wish you all the best.

8) Today I woke up and looked at the date. I immediately remembered that someone special was born on this day. Even though we aren’t together anymore, I still wish you all the best. Happy birthday and I hope you’re doing well!

9) This is not what I wanted, but here we are. On different sides of the world, living different lives. I still think about you every day, but today is a special occasion. So I wanted to text you and tell you that I wish you all the best in life. Happy birthday, my dear old love.

10) Hey, I know you probably didn’t expect to get a message from me. But I will never miss your birthday! No matter what happened between the two of us, we still share some pretty great memories. May your special day turn out to be the best one of your life!

11) The sad fact is that we don’t love each other anymore. However, I still and I will always have a special spot in my heart that is reserved just for you. I’m here to wish a happy birthday to a great man and a fantastic lover! I hope you’re doing well.

12) We can pretend that we accidentally missed each other’s birthdays. But I don’t want to do it. This day will always be special and I wanted you to know it. Happy birthday, ex-boyfriend, I wish you all the best in the whole world!

13) When you left I lost all my dreams and hopes. But I realized that true love is not about being the only one who tries hard. It’s about finding the right moment to let go and realizing whether you’re meant to be or not. I hope that I’ll get that answer this year. Happy birthday, ex-boyfriend!

14) Our relationship felt like a long ride on a rollercoaster. And the only thing I can say is that I’m glad we parted our ways at the right time. Because otherwise, we would have lost our friendship too. Happy birthday, ex.

15) I’m glad we managed to go our separate ways at the right time. That helped us keep the beautiful memories we made together and even our friendship. May you have an awesome birthday celebration ex-bf!

16) It seems that we weren’t a perfect couple after all. I hope you will find the amazing girl you always looked for. I wish you a colorful and happy life! Happy birthday, have fun!

17) On this day, years ago, a special person was born. It’s someone who taught me a lot about my life and I’ll forever be thankful for that. Even though we weren’t meant to be, you’ll always have a special place in my heart. Happy birthday to my ex-boyfriend!

18) I was really confused about whether I should send this message or not. But people say that we should listen to our hearts. And my heart told me to wish you a happy birthday. I hope you’re doing well and enjoying your life.

19) Our relationship may be dead, but our friendship will always be alive. You’re one of the most important people in my whole life. And I wish you all the best. Happy birthday, I hope you’ll stay that happy forever.

20) I know that this message might surprise you. But, I have no hard feelings toward you. I always only wanted what was best for you. And I’m here to wish you the happiest birthday ever. I hope we’ll grab a cup of coffee again one day. Until then, I wish you all the best.

Sassy “happy birthday” wishes to surprise your ex

60+ Happy Birthday Messages To Surprise Your Ex Boyfriend

This second category is for all the sassy queens out there. If he did you wrong and you want some kind of polite revenge. Then you’re at the right place. These next birthday wishes will definitely surprise your ex-boyfriend.

I’m not saying that you should destroy his day. But a little reminder of how he treated you will definitely make him look back at your relationship. And he’ll realize he messed up badly. Are you ready for your little revenge? I bet you are!

1) Let me tell you something. Falling in love with you was the most beautiful thing that happened to me. Or at least that’s what I thought. Then I realized that breaking up with you, was actually the best thing. Still, I’m a better person, so I’m here to wish you a happy birthday and pray for your success!

2) I wish you the happiest birthday ever. Even though I’m not sure how that could happen considering that you lost the best thing that ever happened to you. Me. Anyway, have fun!

3) Happy birthday to the person who’s neither my friend nor enemy. It’s someone who used to be my everything and now is my nothing. Wish you all the best!

4) Being ex-lovers is so weird, right? I’m still confused about whether I should wish you a happy birthday or not! But I’ll do it because you didn’t. One more thing you failed to do. Happy birthday, ex!

5) I know you’re shocked to see a “happy birthday” message from me. If I didn’t wish you all the best on this day, it would mean that I’m still angry with you! But why would I be mad at a stranger?

6) Now that you’re a year older I hope you’re a bit more mature too. Happy birthday, ex, I wish you all the best. Even though you already missed your chance to keep the girl who really cared about you.

7) I’ve forgotten a lot of things about our relationship, but I still haven’t forgotten your birthday. So here I am. I wish you lots of happiness, success, money, health, and everything you need and want. Happy birthday to you, my dear ex-boyfriend.

8) I would say I wish you all the best, but you already lost the best one. So I wish you to come as close to it as you can. Happy birthday!

9) Happy birthday ex! I’m sorry I don’t have a gift this year. But I assumed that your new girlfriend wouldn’t approve of the idea of her significant other getting gifts from his ex.

10) Happy birthday ex-boyfriend! You used to have great taste but it seems like things have changed from the moment we broke up.

11) Happy birthday! May your cake be as sweet as your ex (A.K.A. me).

12) Happy birthday to a guy who used to complete me and make me whole until I realized that he wasn’t the man he was pretending to be. I hope you stopped doing that. If not, then it’s my wish for your birthday.

13) Cheers to another one! Hopefully, this year you’ll finally grow as a person and stop acting all immature.

14) Happy birthday ex! Your looks are starting to fade so I guess you’ll have to start impressing girls with your intelligence (if that’s even possible).

15) Birthdays will come and go, but your bad and careless attitude will never go away. Happy birthday to my immature ex-boyfriend!

16) TBH, I didn’t plan to send you a message today. But after I saw you with your new girl, I just wanted to thank you. But wait, for what? Thank you for proving to me that karma is real. Happy birthday, have a great day!

17) Happy birthday, ex! God has gifted you another year; make sure not to make the same mistakes again. Wish you all the best!

18) I know you’re surprised to see a message from me. I’m just here to prove to you that not all exes are bad. Happy birthday, and have a good one!

19) You’re probably wondering how is it possible that a year has already passed. You know how they say, time flies when your life is falling apart. Enjoy!

20) Hey, it’s your birthday today! Try not to waste this day like you wasted my time. I wish you all the best in the world, though!

21) I was planning to send you a long happy birthday message. But when I saw our old conversation it helped me stop acting crazy. Anyways, I still wish you a good one!

22) I heard it’s your big day today, so I wanted to be a bigger person and wish you a happy birthday. I hope you’re doing well; enjoy your day!

23) I hope you’ll have a great day today. God knows we didn’t have any when we were dating. Happy birthday, ex-boyfriend!

24) I heard you told your friends I’m still mad at you. That’s why I wanted to send you this message. Happy birthday and I wish you all the best in the world. Trust me, honey, you’re not that important for me to stay mad at you for ages. Enjoy the rest of your life!

25) I almost forgot your birthday because you didn’t post anything. But then again, hiding things was always your specialty. Have a good one!

Happy birthday wishes to the ex-boyfriend you miss

60+ Happy Birthday Messages To Surprise Your Ex Boyfriend

And this final category is full of birthday wishes you can send if you miss your ex-boyfriend. Use them if you want him to know exactly how you feel. I know it’s sometimes difficult to express yourself, and that’s exactly why I decided to help you write this message. I believe you’ll find the one that fits well.

1) I know you’re probably surprised to see my name on your screen. But I am just a woman with a broken heart who is and always will be in love with her first love. So I’m here to wish him a happy birthday. I truly wish you all the best in the world! I hope we’ll meet again one day.

2) There was something beautiful about us. It’s the fact that we made so many unique memories together. For the sake of good old times, is there a chance for us to grab a cup of coffee again? I would really like to wish you a happy birthday in person too!

3) I thought I’ll never send you a message again. But today I miss you a bit more than I do every other day. Today, you’ll celebrate your birthday with some other people and I won’t be there to hug you and tell you how amazing you are. So I’m sending this message to wish you all the best. Happy birthday!

4) Yes, it’s true. We haven’t seen each other for ages, and we haven’t even talked after our breakup. But I don’t have any hard feelings for you. In fact, I miss the life we had together. And I miss spending these events without you. Happy birthday, my dear old love!

5) Even though I know we will probably never be together again, I still feel the same way every time I hear your name. I wish you the happiest birthday ever. And I hope that one day, I’ll get to say it in person again.

6) It’s been months since we broke up, but I have to admit something. I still can’t and I don’t think I’ll ever forget the times when you made me feel like a princess. Today, on your birthday, I wish that one day, you’ll give me a chance to treat you like a prince again. Happy birthday, my dear ex-boyfriend!

7) One thing is for sure, we can’t predict how long we are going to stay with someone. But what we can do is make sure to create ever-lasting beautiful memories with that person. And we did that pretty well. Happy birthday, my dear old ex! I wish you all the best.

8) When I think about you I still see the same person. The one who took my heart, but then broke it into millions of pieces. Even though it happened, I don’t hate you. In fact, I miss the good times we spent together. Many happy returns of the day to my ex-bf!

9) Sometimes, I lay in bed and I think about you. That’s when I wish that we could be together again. However, I hope that everything that happens happens for the good reason. Maybe I’ll figure out the reason behind our break-up one day. Happy birthday, ex-boyfriend!

10) You’re not the only boyfriend I had but the moments we spent together are still the most special and precious ones. Sometimes when I go to bed, I think about them until I fall asleep. On your birthday, I wish you success, peace, and love. And many more beautiful memories like ours.

11) Not a single day passes when I don’t think about you and what we had. How can I forget those moments when you taught me what real love looked like? Happy birthday to you, my ex-boyfriend! I hope you’re happy. But I also hope you still think about me sometimes.

12) Your birthday is not just your special day. It’s one of the most significant days of my life as well. Your birthday reminds me that there was once a person, born on this day, who loved me more than anyone else before. Happy birthday old love!

13) If I knew that the previous birthday would be the last one we would spend together, I would’ve made something much better for you. I still miss you and I always will. I hope you found your peace and you’re finally happy again. Happy birthday, ex-boyfriend!

14) I don’t think I will ever experience the kind of love we had. I just want to tell you that life is not that great anymore but I am learning to cope. Today is your big day and I wish you a happy birthday! I hope you’re doing better than me.

15) People come and go. It’s a known fact. But did you know that you’re the only one who stayed in my heart? I know that I’ll never have you again but I just can’t stop missing you. Happy birthday to one of the most important people in my life.

16) Dear ex-boyfriend, although you were the one who took my heart and broke it, you were truly the best thing that ever happened to me. For your birthday I wish that someone else gets to enjoy the same love. Happy birthday!

17) The roses that I gave you faded a long time ago. But my love for you never did. Today there is a long distance between us and new roses won’t be able to reach you. So I’m writing this message instead. Happy birthday, my dear ex-boyfriend.

18) I know we gave up on our relationship, but let’s not give up on our friendship. On your birthday, I promise that I’ll always be there for you. You can call me whenever you want and I’ll pick up the phone. Happy birthday to my old love.

19) Today is your special day. I hope that one day we’ll celebrate it together again. Until then, I wanted to wish you the happiest birthday ever. I only want what’s best for you. I hope you’re doing well and you still think about me sometimes.

20) You’re my favorite ex-boyfriend. I don’t regret anything except for the fact that I couldn’t make you stay longer. I really miss everything we had together. Since I can’t call you, I’m sending this message to tell you that I wish you an amazing birthday. I hope you’ll stay happy, healthy, and successful!

And we’ve reached the end. It was a fun ride, wasn’t it? We visited three different stations and I hope you found the one you liked the most. And before we go our separate ways, I just want to tell you that you know what’s best for you. And if you want to send him something, you should definitely do it! Good luck!

60+ Happy Birthday Messages To Surprise Your Ex Boyfriend