All of us sometimes overthink. Well, it is something that can make you feel like there is no way to turn your mind off no matter what you tell yourself. We keep trying and trying to stop it, but everything is in vain. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl who constantly overthinks? Or what if you are the girl who constantly overthinks about everything? What can that overthinking cause? Maybe everything will go wrong, or maybe everything will be fine.
Like a girl who overthinks, I need to tell you that I know exactly how you feel. You are totally okay, but maybe we are the problem for those who love us. So, I am writing for those who are in love with the girl who overthinks. I hope this will help you. First of all, when you are with a girl who overthinks, you should always make sure she knows how you truly feel about her.
And second, be patient. It is really hard for her to open up because she is scared that something may go wrong. Be patient, because for her, talking about her feelings is really scary. She is afraid that you may hurt her. All she needs is someone who will be there for her and someone who will understand who she is.
Loving her can be a struggle at times. So you have to figure out all that things that scare her and all things that make her happy. It will take time to understand who she really is. Sometimes, loving her will be scary. But be patient, because loving her is something wonderful. She needs someone who will love her just the way she is. And there is no doubt that she will love you just the way you are.
Never, ever lie to her. Because lying will only make problems. So don’t lie, because she will found out about it later on. She would rather hear the truth, no matter what that truth is. Keep telling her the things you love about her because she wants to know that you notice all things, the big and the little ones. Every day tell her that she is beautiful and that you love the little quirks that she has.
Sometimes her mind is playing with her, so don’t be mad when she asks you pointless questions. She just wants to hear how you feel. If something is bothering her, and she asks you about it, don’t be mad. She can’t help that it bothers her. Everything she tells you, she tells you for a reason. She is honest about everything. And whatever is bothering her, she will ask.
Her mind is constantly playing tricks, so it is not just hard for you. It is much more difficult for her to deal with all those feelings on a daily basis. You need to be full of certainty, and you have to be more explicit than usual.
Be there for her. She needs support, so your actions would do much more than your words. Have that on your mind. When bedtime comes, just put yourself in her shoes. Her fears are something that are part of her. Never ignore her and her fears because for her they are real. Maybe they are funny and ridiculous, but for her they are real. She needs you to fight her inner demons. So help her with her daily onslaught of negativity.
When you love a girl who overthinks, it can be a challenge. But every relationship is a challenge, so don’t give up on her. Be yourself and love her. Don’t try to change her. Sometimes she will drive you crazy, but that is just her. Whenever she drives you crazy, remember that she will stay loyal to you for eternity.
And she will love you, she will love you for everything. Because you are there for her, because you are her support. You are her home. Her safe place. So don’t give up on her. She needs you, and I know that you need her.