You went through a lot in your past relationship. Maybe your ex even abused you or he was simply a manipulative narcissist.
Perhaps he even cheated on you, never loved you enough, or couldn’t appreciate you.
Whatever the situation was in your case and even if he didn’t do these things, you were in a relationship with the wrong man.
However, you thought that he was the right person for you.
You loved him more than you loved yourself but he was a toxic person who only took advantage of you and your love for him.
He betrayed you and broke your heart because you completely trusted him.
You even had plans for the future with him but he crushed all your hopes and dreams in the end.
You were never enough for him, no matter how hard you tried. Nothing you did was ever enough for your ex.
He never chose you, and no matter how much you prioritized him, he always considered you as just an option.
You let him see the real you and gave him your heart, but he broke it and couldn’t love you for who you were.
He never even thought about the consequences. There was nothing you weren’t willing to give him, but he gave you nothing in return.
All these things turned you into a mess, and you even questioned your own judgment.
He treated you badly and it scarred your soul. So, now, you just keep thinking that those scars won’t ever heal and that you’ll stay broken forever.
I know how it feels and that your whole world came crashing down, but it’s not the worst thing that could have happened.
Not everything in life can go according to plan.
We often realize that the person we loved wasn’t the person we thought they were.
We imagined them as perfect because of our love, but they only pretended.
Once a person shows their real face, you realize that they never truly were the person you loved.
You loved someone who never really existed because they were just wearing a mask.
It left you broken-hearted, but you have to realize that things like that happen in life.
Just because you had a failed relationship doesn’t mean that you have a failed life. Your heart is broken but it doesn’t mean that you’ll stay broken forever.
You are now thinking that you’ll never be able to recover from that unhealthy relationship, but that’s not true.
We have all had similar experiences and we all survived, no matter how hard it was.
You lost faith in people and you don’t think that you will ever find love again, but that isn’t true either.
I know how falling in love again seems scary after your heart has been broken.
The thought of starting a new relationship terrifies you and you don’t want to let anyone hurt you ever again.
You think that you’ll maybe survive this heartbreak but you won’t be able to survive something like that happening again.
Therefore, you are even willing to be alone forever just to prevent it from happening again.
Your heart has experienced terrible pain and you just want to protect it in the future.
You don’t want to give anyone an opportunity to cause you this much pain again.
But how can you keep your heart safe? You think that you can only do that if you completely give up on love.
I know that you think that if you act heartless, no one will ever be able to toy with your heart again.
You also think that you had your chance for happiness and it’s over now.
Things didn’t work out with your ex, so why would anything be different with someone else?
You keep telling yourself that men are all the same and that another boyfriend would treat you just as badly as your ex did.
Well, I have to tell you the truth. Men are not all the same.
If you let yourself keep thinking that, you won’t get to see how wrong you are. Your ex will win and you will stay miserable because of him. You don’t have to!
Don’t let him change you, and don’t let your past relationship define you.
He is a part of your past, you’re hurting in the present because of him, but you can’t let him influence your future!
Will you really let fear and bitterness guide you through life? Is that who you want to be?
Do you want to forever stay a prisoner of the bad ways your ex treated you?
Just because you are afraid, it doesn’t mean you are weak. It’s perfectly natural to have that reaction to all the disappointment and pain you felt.
Letting a new person into your life won’t be so easy and I understand that.
Of course, you shouldn’t even rush into something new just to prove that you are over your ex.
I’m just saying that you shouldn’t give up on love just because you gave your heart to the wrong person.
Don’t lose a chance to be truly happy just because you were in a relationship with someone who couldn’t make you happy.
All the relationships you had that didn’t work out are just there to teach you a lesson.
This is your opportunity to find someone you are truly meant to be with.
Everything in life happens for a reason and you will have your happily ever after.
I know that you don’t believe me now, but a man who’ll spend the rest of his life with you will come along.
He will show you what it really means to be loved and he will help you heal your scars.
When you find him, you’ll realize that you were wrong when you thought that men were all the same.
You will see that you were foolish to ever think about giving up on love.
Trust me, true love exists, and when you find it, you will see that everything that led you to it was worth it.
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