It’s difficult to find reasons to be happy once your heart has been shattered.
Your perception of the world changes, and the bright colors of life become black and white.
Everything that you once held dear becomes meaningless and you don’t think that tomorrow can bring you anything positive.
Your bad side, the one which holds all of your negative emotions, comes out and you doubt everything and everyone around you.
You lose trust even in those people who were by your side when everything was gray and gloomy.
And who can blame you for that? No one.
Your heart was left broken, and it’s difficult to open yourself up again to anyone.
It’s even hard to trust those who gave you the support you needed in those moments.
Yes, they treated you well and they didn’t do anything wrong, but still, you have this tiny voice inside of your head telling you to question their intentions, and it’s hard to get rid of it.
You start to believe that everyone around you is wearing a mask, and you wait for them to show you their true self.
Your only thought is that they’re going to hurt you, so you patiently wait for them to show you their dark side.
That said, you can’t let the weight of your past ruin your gentle heart. You can’t form relationships with other people by assuming that they don’t mean you well.
Those awful experiences you had need to stay in the past and you shouldn’t let them govern your future actions.
One bad experience doesn’t mean you won’t find your happily ever after.
Those toxic people who tried to ruin your life are long gone. You got rid of them.
Now you shouldn’t think that every other person you meet or the ones you already know are going to behave the exact same way as the toxic ones did.
Give yourself some time and space to heal.
Sometimes it’s better to be alone than to surround yourself with people who don’t have your best interests at heart.
While it might be good for you to learn from your past, you shouldn’t hold on to it, because you have to move on with your life.
Your past taught you some valuable lessons, but you have to learn to live in the present and not let the weight of your past ruin your gentle heart.
Why is it important to let go of the past? Well, you can’t hide yourself away forever.
At some point, you have to gather enough courage to open up your heart and throw away the key.
You deserve to be happy and you certainly deserve to know how unconditional love feels.
You’re a good person who’ll eventually become a superwoman.
You deserve to have a big smile on your face and be able to find happiness within yourself every day.
Don’t worry, you’ll find someone who will never hurt you the way you’ve been hurt in your past.
If you release your past struggles, mistakes, and fears, you’ll create space for something new to happen to you in the present and the future.
You have to make room for someone new to appear in your love life, especially if you’ve been heartbroken before.
I know it’s difficult to do that when your heart is filled with sadness, but eventually, someone new will come to sweep you off your feet, someone who’ll replace those emotions with feelings of happiness and joy.
Such a man will bring back colors into your life that have faded within you over time.
In a sea of boys, you’ll find a man; you just have to let go of the past because otherwise, it’ll ruin your gentle heart.
If you let go of the weight of your past, you’ll certainly become stronger.
I know, it’s a hard task to complete. It requires you to leave your comfort zone, but nevertheless, you’ll succeed in it and you’ll thrive.
That’s why you see all those people fail. They don’t succeed because they don’t have the courage to step out of their comfort zone and they choose to maintain the status quo.
But you shouldn’t do that. You shouldn’t make excuses for yourself, but rather embrace the process of transforming yourself into a superwoman.
Choosing to let go of your baggage will certainly make you stronger and you’ll have more faith in yourself.
You’ll have the will and the strength to tackle the problems at hand and you’ll definitely grow as a person.
Every time a new challenge arises, you’ll know how to overcome it because you already did so in the past.
Remember, your past has shaped you into the beautiful and unique individual that you are today.
You have to realize that letting go of your past is just the first great step to appreciating and creating your own story.
No one is perfect and every one of us carries certain baggage within us.
The past gives us an opportunity to learn from it and change ourselves to be better.
That’s why you have to forgive yourself for all the mistakes you made and the struggles you had, so that you can create space in your heart for all the beautiful things that will come your way in the future.
The world has so many beautiful things to offer and you should use that negative energy that’s bottled up within you to work on your goals and dreams that’ll make you happy.
Holding on to the past can mean your downfall, and it’ll certainly ruin your gentle heart.
Keep in mind that you can’t change the past.
You shouldn’t spend your nights thinking about what you could’ve done differently and what might’ve happened if you had made a different decision.
You can’t go back and change it. You made that decision based on who you were at that time, so don’t let the weight of your past ruin your gentle heart.
When you think about it, it won’t be easy to get back into the dating world.
The fears you have will hold you back and with every new connection you establish, you’ll assume the worst.
But don’t let those emotions win. Just because one guy didn’t love you, it doesn’t mean you’re unlovable.
You’re not going to spend the rest of your life alone, unless that’s something you wish for.
The thought of having a new relationship might be scary to you now, but no one is pushing you to find someone new already.
You can set your own pace, so give yourself some time to heal. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable and secure.
Don’t choose to close off your heart based on one bad experience.
Once you find someone who’s ready to give you his attention and affection, take that leap. Don’t let the weight of your past ruin your gentle heart.
Every single one of us has been through some hardships and everyone deals with them in their own way.
The thing that connects us is that we have to move on despite experiencing heartbreak in our lives.
No one is going to think less of you after learning what you’ve gone through. Your past shouldn’t define who you are.
The ultimate goal is to bounce back and learn from it and that’s when you’ll find out your true strength.
And trust me, once you forgive yourself and accept your past, you’ll finally find your peace.
It’ll allow you to clean your soul of negative emotions and you’ll finally move on.
If you hold on to grudges, you’re actually digging your own grave and filling it with negative energy.
Letting go of the weight of your past will give you that peace of mind to move forward and not let your gentle heart be broken ever again.