Certain dating myths are definitely not true and one of them is that playing hard to get will get you the attention that you desperately need. However, only those men who have really matured know that they’ll lose a good woman if they do that.
By neglecting and ignoring a woman he likes, a man may think that she’ll be more drawn to him but the truth is that it’ll only create a countereffect. He’ll give the exact opposite impression of the one he actually wants to have on her.
In today’s dating world, a man may treat his lady poorly because he thinks if he makes her feel bad about herself, she’ll chase him even harder. After all, he thinks she craves his approval and validation.
Their manipulative ways are just that – manipulative and nothing else. Many men think that this way, they’ll reach their goal and that’s to sweep that woman off her feet but they couldn’t be more wrong.
However, the difference between a real woman and an inexperienced one is that a real woman would never fall for that manipulative behavior. She won’t ever let any man treat her like that because she knows she deserves better.
That’s why you’ll lose her in a heartbeat if you think that those mind games will work on her.
A real woman knows exactly what she wants and how to get it. If you try your manipulative games on her, she won’t hesitate to leave you in a second.
She knows that her happiness doesn’t depend on a man. She’s perfectly fine on her own and she lives a very fulfilling life without you.
A strong woman will never beg, chase or force. She has a lot on her plate and she’ll immediately walk away from you if you try and manipulate her.
She knows that no one should be begging or forcing love. You can’t make someone love you.
On the other hand, if you treat her right, with love, respect, and understanding, she’ll reciprocate and you’ll have a strong and happy woman by your side for the rest of your life.
Don’t play any mind games with her and think that by neglecting her, you’ll have her attention. Love doesn’t work that way.
She’ll leave you and you’ll lose her for good. You can’t have her attention only when it suits you.
Being manipulative or dishonest won’t get you anywhere and you’ll only push her further away from you.
You also can’t think that your time is more valuable than hers because it’s not. You’re both equally important and the only thing that matters is how you treat each other.
She has to be your one and only choice. Put her at the top of your priority list and she’ll reciprocate tenfold.
She knows that when you truly love someone, you don’t hide your feelings from them or from anyone.
You show the world that when you genuinely love a woman, you shower her with affection and attention. You prove to her that she belongs by your side every day for the rest of your life.
It’s not just enough that you say those three little words, “I love you.” You have to back them up with your actions.
Don’t treat her badly or with disrespect, as you’ll make her feel horrible about herself and her insecurities will start to kick in. Her confidence will be shaken and she’ll quickly leave you to recover on her own.
True love takes commitment. It takes both people to be fully devoted and to trust each other in order to have a successful and long-lasting relationship.
Honesty, respect, and transparency are the pillars of a healthy relationship. Always respect her precious time and she’ll do the same for you.
Don’t make her think that you’ve forgotten about her. Send a quick text message reminding her that you always have her back and that you love her.
Tell her that you can’t wait to see her and when you do meet, give her a long, warm hug and a gentle kiss on the cheek.
She won’t miss you if you ghost her for a couple of days. She won’t even date a guy like that.
If you treat her right, she’ll miss you even when she’s at work or on a girls’ night out. She’ll text you saying that she’d rather be with you than with them and she’ll send you a video message when your song comes on.
She’ll miss you when you’re miles apart and when she’s asleep. And after she’s had a rough day, she’ll go running back to you to comfort her.
Maybe you’re just unable to see it but you already have her attention. It’s up to you what you’re going to do about it.
Will she regret giving it to you? Or will you reciprocate?
She’s strong enough to put up with your bad behavior for a short while but once she’s had enough, she’ll gladly walk away from you.
Don’t ever forget that one of the pillars of a successful and healthy relationship is honesty. If you don’t confess your feelings to her, don’t expect that she’ll tell you hers.
A real woman is an open book. She isn’t afraid of letting you know that she loves you but you need to be honest too.
You’ll have her utmost attention but if you don’t treat her the proper way, she’ll turn her back on you in an instant. She can live without you, believe me.
She’s perfectly capable on her own. She doesn’t need a Prince Charming or a knight in shining armor to come and rescue her.
She’s a strong woman who knows what she wants and how to get it. She can reach her goals and dreams on her own so know that you don’t have to rescue her.
All she wants is a man who’s ready to commit to her. Someone who’ll treat her with respect and someone who’ll love her the same way she does.
It’s now or never so tell her that you love her. By neglecting her, you’re teaching her how to live without you, which won’t get you anywhere.
Love her with all of your heart and she’ll be yours forever!