I’ll give you two stories. It’s up to you to decide which one you like better.
Based on your choice, I want you to make a change in your life. These stories can teach you a valuable lesson, but only if you let them.
Story number one
Sleepless nights spent thinking about a man who broke your heart. He tore it into pieces, and you can’t remember how it used to feel before.
You feel pain every time you think of him, and you have no idea how to get those thoughts out of your head.
He was nice in the beginning but as time passed, his behavior changed, and first, he started playing with your feelings.
Maybe because he knew that you loved him and that you would do anything for him.
Then, he started taking you for granted.
Every time you fought, he was the one to leave first; he would simply walk away in the middle of the discussion.
Why? Because he knew that you would go running back to him. He saw it in your eyes.
You dedicated your whole being to him, and he used that to his advantage.
He started to lose interest in you, and instead of loving you harder, he started to hurt you harder.
You begged him to change; to again be the man he used to be at the beginning of your relationship, but he never listened to your words.
He didn’t care about your feelings anymore.
Once he broke your heart, he was gone forever. He left you all alone and you felt as if your world had completely fallen apart.
He crushed you into pieces, and now, he has the title of the first heartbreak you had in your life.
When you think of him, you remember the pain you went through.
You remember how you hated yourself because you thought that you were responsible for his poor behavior.
You couldn’t admit the truth that he was toxic from the start and that he only used you to inflate his ego.
He played with your emotions because he saw in you a weak girl who only needed to be loved.
He knew that you could never speak up and walk away from him.
For love, you would suffer through everything, because that’s what they taught you.
“You fight for love!” right? But they never taught you that you aren’t supposed to fight for the wrong one.
What he gave you wasn’t love. It wasn’t even close to it!
Story number two
Sometime later, you meet a nice guy. He looks like he knows how to treat a woman right.
You kind of like him but you’re afraid that he’ll end up being the same as the guy who broke your heart.
Maybe he’s pretending to be nice and as soon as you admit to him that you like him, he might be gone.
But he continues to make you feel safe and he keeps taking care of you, no matter what you put him through.
At one point, you admit your fear to him. You tell him about the guy who broke your heart into pieces and how after him, you’re afraid of love.
And what does he do? No, he doesn’t run away, he sticks by your side and makes sure to show you that he’s here to stay.
He shows you that he wants to fix your heart and help you become the person you were before. Happy, bubbly, and ready to live your life to the fullest.
He’s real with you and has no intention of playing with your feelings.
Even when you start doubting him, he proves to you over and over again that he’s here to stay.
He wants to fix your heart and help you move on with your life.
And when you ask him why he’s doing all of this for you, he looks you in the eyes and tells you that he loves you.
He fell for you the moment he met you, and he can’t afford to live a life without you.
You make his life better, so that’s why he wants to make yours better as well.
He wants to be there for you. Whenever you need him, he’ll come running because you deserve someone who’ll be real with you.
You deserve to have someone who’s going to be your biggest support. The one who’ll hold your hand and never let go of it.
He tells you that he loves you all the time and it’s not only about those words.
It’s also about his actions that prove it.
He makes an effort for you and makes sure to show you that he’ll always be there for you. In the middle of the day and in the middle of the night.
When you come to think of it, he’s actually been doing everything he can to help you heal your heart. I guess that he’s not a liar.
Now that you’ve read these two stories, I want you to think about them.
The chances are that you had a guy who broke your heart. He not only broke it but he most probably crushed it into pieces.
He also made you question every guy who came after him. You were afraid that everyone would turn out like him.
Because of that, you were afraid to let anyone in. You kept pushing guys away, treating both the good ones and the bad ones the same way.
While doing that, it’s possible that you ran away from that special guy – the one who could fix your heart and make it the way it was before.
You probably met him, but you were too afraid to let him in. Your trauma from the past didn’t let him pass through the door to your heart.
When you think about it, don’t you see that you’re giving too much power to the guy who broke your heart? You let him creep into your present and your future just because he hurt you in the past.
I know that you felt pain back then, but do you really want to feel pain now?
Do you want to feel stuck when you could move on with your life and finally find happiness?
The actions of the guy who broke your heart should be kept in the past.
Make some room for the one who’ll come to fix and heal all those parts of you that need to be fixed and healed.
Once you do that, you’ll be amazed at the amount of happiness you’ll finally be able to feel.
The one who hurt you did too much damage. He had too much control over you.
You don’t want to let him control your life even more by losing the one who can fix you because of bad people from the past.
He was your lesson and nothing else.