Recovering from a toxic relationship can be a really painful experience. You give your all to a person, thinking that he’s the one for eternity.
Then your world comes crashing down when he disappoints you and hurts you with his words and actions.
Your faith in love gets shaken and you feel as if you’re not worthy of being loved by another guy.
Your perception changes about what love truly stand for and you believe you won’t fall in love again.
You feel as if you have left a part of you – a part that’s broken and depressed – and no matter how much you want to feel happy and joyful again, you simply can’t.
You hate that you still have feelings for the guy who broke your heart, but you don’t know how to recover from your toxic relationship.
Your insecurities kick in, you feel extremely vulnerable and damaged, and you decide not to get into a new relationship any time soon.
You blame yourself for everything bad that happened because, at this moment, you can’t think straight.
You’re at the point of your life where you still don’t blame him for what he’s done to you because you think you could’ve done something differently to make things work.
Girl, you need to get those thoughts out of your head. You shouldn’t blame yourself because the relationship was already doomed from the start.
You’re not unworthy of love; he is.
He’s the bad guy in this story, not you. Don’t feel guilty for loving someone unlovable and unworthy of your time and effort.
I know you’ll need some time to heal and to sort things out, but as you know, time heals wounds and yours will heal too.
It’s important that you learn to love yourself first and give yourself a second chance to experience love.
And trust me, you’ll do that after you realize there’s still life after a toxic relationship.
That’s when you’ll know you’re ready to give love another shot.
You’ll be able to start a new chapter of your life with a man who’s going to fulfill your every need.
Have faith in God and He will provide. It might be scary at first, but once you let go of that fear, you’ll feel excited and your heart might even skip a beat.
The only thing that you’ll talk about will be this guy and how awesome and stunning he truly is, which is exciting and scary at the same time.
Exciting because you know how much you endured in your previous toxic relationship and this guy will be like a breath of fresh air.
Finally, you’ll see how great it can be to have a stunning guy by your side.
And you won’t hesitate to take a leap of faith since you’ll have someone beside you who’ll lend you a hand if you need it.
On the other hand, it might be scary to you because you’ve gotten used to all the bad things that happened, so you’ll question his every intention, thinking he’s pretending to be someone he’s not.
However, once time heals wounds, you’ll be completely immersed in that fairy-tale of yours and feel happy again.
You might think he’s too good to be true and start to overthink everything.
And that’s understandable – you’ve caught your ex in lies so often that you’ve become paranoid.
And I know you’re expecting him to drop the mask and reveal who he really is, but he won’t do that because he’ll be real with you the entire time.
He won’t give you any reason not to trust him. But the truth is, it isn’t him you don’t trust, it’s everyone that’s been a part of your past.
Once he comes into your life, you’ll see what it means to love someone unconditionally and without any hesitation.
All of your dreams will come true with him. You’ll finally be happy and content.
Those quirks and flaws that you have, he’ll embrace them because those things make you special and unique.
You won’t have to ask him what’s wrong because you’ll know what’s happening inside his head at all times.
He’ll be straightforward with you and you won’t have to beg for his attention because you’ll be the only person for him.
Those negative emotions that bottled up in you will be long gone when you meet this guy.
Instead, you’ll feel like you’re the happiest woman alive, and those around you will feel your positive energy too.
When you meet the right guy, you’ll realize why it didn’t work with others. All of a sudden, it’ll all become crystal clear.
After spending so much time in misery and depression, you’ll feel alive again with this guy.
A real man will show you that love shouldn’t be so hard and he’ll love you with such ease that you’ll think he’s overreacting, but he’s not.
Love for him comes as naturally as breathing, and he’ll show you that.
Suddenly, all the puzzle pieces will fall into place and you won’t question his love for you ever again.
You’ll feel peace within and that’s the most valuable lesson that you can learn when you feel loved.
He’ll always listen and try to understand your point of view. Hurting you will be an enigma to him.
He won’t be able to comprehend how someone could’ve hurt you because you’re simply gorgeous and stunning to him.
He’ll sacrifice his happiness for you to feel happy again. He’ll prioritize you no matter what.
And the best part is: He won’t ever leave you, ever again. He’ll stay by your side till death do you part!