Sometimes, taking a step back and looking at modern dating can make you feel like there’s no more true love. Everyone seems to be looking for something fast and temporary… but a real man will always choose a long-term relationship over a short-term fling.
Maybe you even feel like every man you’ve dated so far was terrified of commitment and not interested in something serious. While you hope for everlasting love and growing old with someone, everyone seems to be thinking that they only live once, not aware of how long that truly is and how important it is to make it count.
Naturally, seeing all those immature boys playing games makes you lose your faith in love. You just start thinking that you’re some hopeless romantic and that there’s no happy ending.
Perhaps you even think that you’re an old-fashioned dreamer who keeps searching for romance that only exists in books and movies.
I’m here to tell you that that’s not true! A real man will always choose a lasting relationship over some fling.
You just haven’t met the right man yet and, believe me, there are real men out there. Not all of them are clueless about life or live for today without thinking about tomorrow – some actually do think about the future and hope to have the same one you think about.
A real man will always choose a long-lasting, serious relationship over a fling because he wants real love too. And he knows that real love is not all fun-and-games and instant gratification.
To him, real intimacy is always more valuable than a meaningless physical connection. He’s searching for a deep emotional connection and someone he can be truly intimate with.
A real man will not chase you just for the sake of chasing. He needs something meaningful. He wants to catch you and never let go.
Even if you’ve lost all hope that soulmates exist, know that there are men out there who are looking for their soulmates. They want real women who can be their partners in all aspects of their lives.
Because soulmates become a team.
A real man wants his other half – one who completes him and joins him on his journey through life. He needs a woman that looks in the same direction he does and sees what’s on the horizon, not just what’s in front of her.
When he finds such a strong woman, he puts all his strength into keeping her safe in his arms and making her smile.
Her power and independence don’t intimidate him because he’s looking for a partner in crime, not a victim. He’d never diminish her worth, he’d make her become more aware of it.
A real man will always choose a proper relationship over a brief fling because he wants someone by his side in the long run. He doesn’t want to waste his time on games like so many other men do.
He wants something real he can hold on to for good. A man like that is even proud that his woman chose him, because he knows that she could’ve chosen someone else.
He’s not searching for a lover, he’s searching for a life companion and best friend in the woman he loves.
A real man wants a long-term relationship, not a temporary fling, and he won’t easily give up. He’d never throw it all away just because something else seems exciting purely because it’s new.
He takes risks for the woman he loves, he doesn’t gamble with her love. Real men know the difference between carnal instincts and genuine affection.
When they feel something genuine, they fight to preserve and maintain it.
Real men don’t think women are perfect and can’t be easily tricked into thinking so just because they see someone attractive. They’re not the kind of men who’d be willing to replace you as soon as another pretty woman walks into their lives.
He’ll see your inner beauty and everything that’s unique about you. He won’t just toss it aside after a while because he knows how valuable it is – how valuable your love is.
He’ll appreciate all the little things you do for him and the sacrifices you make. He would never trade you for any other woman or anything else in the world.
You’ll be his world until you create one together. A real man treats his woman tenderly and with care.
He’d never take you for granted because he knows that someone can take you from him if he does. Even if you don’t see yourself as desirable, he sees you that way.
His desire is to keep you a part of his life for as long as possible – preferably forever. This is because he knows how lucky he is to have someone like you.
A real man doesn’t abuse a woman, he makes her feel safe.
And he knows that the honeymoon stage doesn’t last forever, but that true love does.
And he knows that a relationship takes continuous effort to work.
He’ll keep putting in the effort it takes, even when it’s hard to do so, because you’ll mean that much to him. He won’t want to see you go and will do all in his power to show you what love is really about.
Don’t give up on love because you might not have really experienced it if you weren’t with the right man. And he will become a part of your life as long as you make room for him.
Don’t let anyone else block the way because he wants to find a woman who’s single and ready to love forever.
A real man will always choose a long-term relationship over a short-term fling because he knows his other half would, if only she knew he existed.
As long as you give him the opportunity to find you, he will, and you’ll get to have your happy ending. Only a real man will love you like this.