You don’t deserve to hear a word from me since you’re well aware of your deeds. You know what you did to me the moment you laid your hands on a taken man. But still, I need to free all these emotions that have been bottling up inside of me.
Even though you think you’re the winner, I guarantee you that in a year’s time, you won’t be laughing anymore. He cheated on me but you must know you’re next.
I’m sure you think you’ll be able to keep him by your side forever but you need to know that this man is a cheater. If you hadn’t been the one to welcome him into your arms, someone else would have and he wouldn’t have minded in the slightest.
I assume that you think he fell in love with you specifically. Instead, he simply needed someone to accept his cheating behavior.
He didn’t care who that person was, as long as they served the purpose. And I guess that’s exactly what you did. You served your purpose with him and brought a dose of excitement into his boring life.
It’s obvious that he didn’t feel good about himself and he needed to boost his ego by cheating on me. He needed to feel special and wanted, since my love for him wasn’t enough. So, he chose you.
He picked you to be the one with whom he would spend his nights in bed while lying to me that he was on a business trip. He sneaked into your apartment while making the excuse that he was too busy to go out with me those other nights.
And since I loved him deeply, I never even suspected the words that came out of his mouth. I couldn’t have even imagined that the man who was my only priority could make me only a number in his life.
The blame is on me since I hadn’t noticed all of the red flags that were right under my nose but that’s a whole other story. What I’m trying to say right now is that you shouldn’t get your hopes up.
Don’t think that you’ve won this game now that you have him all to yourself. The only reason that happened was that I finally found out about the things he was doing behind my back.
He never had the courage to leave me and commit himself to you. And he wouldn’t have ever done that if I hadn’t been the one who ended things first.
That’s why he went running into your arms, as he didn’t have anyone else to support him. You were the only person who could look him in the eye without utterly despising him.
I guess the reason for that is that the two of you are the same. Both are capable of doing terrible things to others even though you know the pain you’re causing.
He cheated on me even though he was aware of the mistake he was making but he loved the thrill and couldn’t make himself stop. He wasn’t even capable of leaving me first and then doing whatever he wanted with his life.
On the other hand, you agreed to be the other woman, even though you knew how wrong it was. You knew the whole time how terrible you would feel if you were in my position. But you ignored the last of your morals you had left in you and agreed to ruin a relationship without even thinking about how that would hurt me.
Right now, you probably feel like you’re on top of the world. You finally have my cheating partner all for yourself and you think you’ve succeeded.
I guess you’re already imagining the great life you’ll have in the future. You’re already making plans for the two of you as you’re sure he could never bail on you.
You’re not assuming that in a year’s time, he won’t be next to you anymore. But he’ll find himself another girl, one like you who doesn’t care about being a second choice.
He’ll then use her to give himself that ego boost and to again experience how it feels to be the one who sleeps with more than one woman at the same time. Because that’s the only thing he cares about, the only emotion he wants to feel over and over again.
He’ll cheat on you next, I’m sure of that. He’ll simply keep moving from one woman to another, without caring about the pain he’s leaving behind.
That’s the kind of person he is. He doesn’t care about anyone except for himself. He doesn’t mind ruining the lives of others as long as he’s the one who’s happy.
To him, you’re just a temporary station. You’re just a woman who served a purpose and who he’ll leave the moment he gets bored.
At that point, you’ll probably feel the same way I feel now. You’ll write this same letter and send it to the one who steals your partner.
But the truth is that she wouldn’t be the one to steal him from you the same way you didn’t steal him from him. She would simply accept his wrongdoings and decide to be his partner in crime. The same you did when you met him.
He did choose you, I’ll admit that. He chose you to be his mistress but that’s all there is. In the same way, he’ll choose someone after you. And the next one and the next one…
He’ll keep cheating on every woman he meets until he finally feels good about himself. That’s what other women are to him – they simply make him feel like he’s worthy of attention, even though deep down, he doesn’t think that’s true.
So, even though you feel proud of yourself as he decided to be with you instead of me, I must warn you that the tables will turn. Sooner or later, you’ll be the one he cheats on and you won’t even know what’s going on.
Then, you’ll cry your eyes out the same way I did and you’ll blame yourself for everything he put you through. You’ll hate him but it’ll be too late. The damage will already be done and there won’t be much to do about it.
You’ll have to accept the fact that from someone he chose, you became someone who’s now been cheated on. In a matter of seconds, your world will change and you’ll blindly observe it, at first unaware of the reality that’s in front of you.