Think aloud
Thinking about whether or not he likes you or if he finds you attractive can prove to be a challenging task.
Despite this, there are sure-fire signs he finds you irresistible that could help you land the man of your dreams.
We have all been there, counting flower petals and saying He loves me… He loves me not…
Why? Because men are sometimes difficult to read. They are masters at hiding their feelings, but don’t you worry.
The subtle signs that I will list here will serve the purpose to land the one.
Women get caught up in their own ideas and miss out on the clear signs that happen every time they see their potential partner.
Every time you are on a date and he is close to you, you can read in his body language and in the little things he does that he finds you irresistible.
You might be thinking, “Why won’t he say his feelings outright and we can skip all of this business of figuring out whether he likes me or not and start a relationship?”
Not every guy will have the self-confidence and self-esteem of Brad Pitt.
Some guys are just shy and they need that push from you to express their emotions toward you.
So, you need to put in the effort and look for obvious signs he finds you irresistible.
Believe me, mutual attraction is very important. Mutual attraction leads to a romantic relationship and if there is none, then your relationship is doomed.
Sexual attraction and chemistry are things that cannot be planned.
I know that an emotional connection is important, but physical attractiveness is also a must for a successful relationship.
It is a good sign that the relationship is heading in the right direction.
Don’t be discouraged if he doesn’t pick up on the subtle signs or even the big signs that you like him.
A man’s brain is wired differently and he might not be as perceptive as you.
Women are more prone to investigating and observing potential behavioral and body language cues than men. They are more intuitive.
However, you can make yourself look more attractive.
Your potential partner might be attracted to the following womanly traits and may finally make the first move.
So, how can you be more irresistible than you are right now?
Well, first, men like women who value the little things.
Men love women who are down-to-earth despite having big dreams and making an effort to make them come true.
A woman who values the importance of family, love, and friendship as well as the little things is a woman who is instantly more attractive to a guy than a woman who doesn’t.
Falling in love with a woman who is humble and grounded is more satisfying.
A girl who loves to go for a walk and eats snacks on the first date is the clear textbook definition of a down-to-earth girl.
Guess what? Men dig that.
They will find her more irresistible because those types of women are honest and practical and men want to settle down with someone like that.
Men will find you more attractive and irresistible if you have confidence.
I know that you have heard it a million times, and the reason for this is that it is true.
Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, we are in the middle of a dozen things, so we forget about being confident.
If you feel secure in your own skin, trust me, you will become more attractive to men.
Physical appearance doesn’t mean a thing if you don’t have confidence.
You can have the perfect body and put on your nicest dress, but only when you are happy and satisfied with yourself is when a man will fall for you.
Embracing and rocking your femininity is a big deal for men because a confident man will enjoy the presence of such a lady and you don’t need a dating coach to tell you that.
Another trait that men find irresistible is when a girl is open-minded.
A woman who is ready to explore other areas, who is not set in her ways, and who doesn’t judge or condemn is an attractive woman.
Life should be adventurous and fun. Learning about new cultures and broadening your horizon transcends physical attraction.
Also, if you are caring and nurturing, it definitely means that men will be more attracted to you.
Why? Because men find women more attractive if they show empathy and are kind.
It shows that you can take care of yourself and others even when life hits you hard.
Men like when women are skilled listeners and if they can make them feel comfortable.
By creating a safe and secure environment, he can finally show his emotional and sensitive side, and not feel vulnerable.
It is also important how you treat others, and not just him.
Men like when women treat others with respect and dignity and when they are polite to others.
Be careful on the first date. You can also show with your body language that you are caring and polite.
Show your beautiful smile and you will appear more friendly and charming to others.
Being passionate about the things you love will make you more attractive.
If you talk about your career goals or ideals with passion, the man you are trying to land will be more attracted to you.
You may be passionate about your new hobby or running and as long as he sees that excitement and dedication in the way you speak about it, he will be more attracted to you.
Never hold back on what you love.
Men love to try new things, and if you show him a fresh perspective on something, he will find you irresistible; that is scientifically proven.
Your physical appearance also plays a significant role and one that I find fascinating is hair.
Men love to see wonderful hair on a woman, meaning they will find those women more attractive than others.
Men don’t find it attractive when a woman has greasy hair, uses too much product, or even if her hair is dyed in an unnatural color.
I know that it might sound stupid, but it is true.
Several scientific studies have proven that the first thing that a man notices on a woman is her hair.
And also, most men prefer when a woman lets her hair down.
Now that you have read about some traits and qualities that men like, let’s jump to the signs he finds you irresistible.
You may think men are easy to read, but you would be wrong. The guy you like might like you, but you may not even be aware of it.
You know you are gorgeous and great, inside and out. Now is not the time to have to wonder whether he is really into you or not.
These signs will tell you not only that he wants to be with you, but that he finds you irresistible.
Signs he finds you irresistible:
1. Affection
Initiating affection is one of the signs of attraction.
With a guy who is really attracted to you and finds you irresistible, it won’t be a problem for him to show his feelings toward you no matter where you are.
Whether you are in a public space or somewhere private, he won’t be able to keep his hands off you.
Men are emotional creatures, despite the macho image they want to preserve.
Whether you are shopping or watching a movie together, a guy who finds you irresistible will always reach out to hold your hand or initiate a hug.
You create an aura of security that he feels great around.
Physical contact is important to men, so they will initiate it whenever it is possible, though it might feel like he is ‘invading’ your personal space.
He knows that you are aware of his feelings, but the beauty of it is that he doesn’t care; he will still shower you with attention and affection because you are irresistible to him.
You don’t need a relationship expert to tell you that this is a telltale sign that he is flirting with you because he finds you irresistible.
2. Closeness
As I mentioned before, some guys are just shy or nervous when they are close to a woman they like or when they see a beautiful woman.
Men, like women, have this innate fear of rejection, so instead of gathering strength and telling you he is attracted to you, a man will slowly approach you.
He does that so he can feel whether it is safe to proceed.
After he realizes it is safe, he might lean in when you speak, which is a natural reaction to get closer to someone we like, and we pull away from those we don’t.
Especially if it is the first time you meet this guy, a good indication that he finds you irresistible is when he finds excuses to get close to you.
He might pretend like he didn’t hear you and move closer so you can repeat what you said.
That is a textbook example of an excuse a man makes if he finds you irresistible.
3. Eye contact
One of the most obvious signs that most women ignore or might not be aware of is eye contact.Â
This body language sign gives off so much information that it might seal the deal if you notice it.
If he finds you irresistible, he won’t be able to look away from you.
You will catch him staring at you, he will have his eyes all over you, because he is attracted to you.
He might even make eye contact during your walk or drive back home.
He will grasp every opportunity he can to stare deeply into your eyes and show you he wants you and no one else.
The intensity of the stare separates a guy who is just being friendly and a guy who is attracted to you.
Men express their feelings differently. Body language clues play a pivotal role when they want to show if you are irresistible to them.
You might catch him staring at you from across a room or smile at you while he is talking to a group of people.
Or if the guy is shy and lacks confidence, he might glance at you for a couple of seconds before turning away quickly, so you don’t catch him looking at you.
Believe me, eye contact and attraction are inseparable but if he avoids doing it when you talk to him and starts shifting his gaze around the room, then he is not interested in you and wants to get the heck out.
4. Smiling
Everyone likes a person who has a great sense of humor and if the person you like does, then you have hit the jackpot.
One of the biggest signs he finds you irresistible is if he has a gigantic smile on his face.
He won’t be able to hide his emotions because smiling will blow his cover and show you his genuine feelings.
He might try to keep it cool, but he is simply mesmerized and hypnotized by you that he can’t keep it together.
The way he expresses how gorgeous you are is through smiling – a lot.
A genuine smile is very tough to imitate.
Maybe his cheekbones rise and he blushes, which is when you know that he enjoys spending time with you and is truly happy with you.
Guys are nervous around a beautiful woman. However, if you make him laugh, he will feel comfortable and happy and you will be irresistible to him.
He can’t stop smiling if he finds you irresistible, and that is a hard fact.
5. Relationship status
When a guy is interested in you, he might find clever or not so clever ways to find out whether you have a boyfriend.
This is an obvious sign that he is attracted to you.
He might ask questions such as, “How come a beautiful woman like you is single?” or, “Have you come here alone or with friends?”
Those men who are bold and have enough confidence in themselves will try to find out information about your love life from you or your friends.
However, it doesn’t matter the way he finds out whether you are single or not; the thing is, he has his eye on you because he is attracted to you.
6. Compliments
There are two sides to the coin with this. One is that a guy who compliments you all the time wants to get some action in the bedroom.
The other side is a guy who is genuine about his intentions and compliments you because of the attraction that he feels.
Maybe he compliments you about your looks or some decision that you have made.
It doesn’t really matter which, as you should definitely enjoy it, and that’s that.
You are a gorgeous and intelligent woman, so why would he not be attracted to you? He knows that you enjoy being told how perfect you are.
Don’t focus too much on the compliments he gives you about your looks.
Yes, they are a good sign that you are irresistible but focus on the compliments about how smart and funny you actually are, as they are far more meaningful than those about your looks.
It is important that he cherishes what’s inside and not just outside.
Be prepared, because if he finds you irresistible, he won’t be shy to compliment you.
7. Fidgeting
You know, guys can get nervous too. If a man finds you attractive, he might not know what to do with his arms or legs when he talks to you.
If you notice he acts all weird and starts twitching around you or he taps his feet, those are telltale signs he finds you irresistible.
He will have a hard time consciously hiding his feelings.
His body language will tell you more than he could ever do with his words and this especially applies if you are meeting each other for the first time.Â
Fidgeting is a way of releasing your tension.
Maybe he touches his hair a few times or fixes his shirt, which might be his ways of trying to shake off the nervous energy he has when he sees you.
Even a confident man will experience this if he is attracted to you.
8. Almost jealousy
Guys are very protective or ‘territorial’, some might say.
He doesn’t want anybody to get close to you or even interact with you if he finds you irresistible.
His jealousy kicks in every time he sees you talking to somebody else.
I know that being overprotective and overly jealous is a big turn-off but if a guy is attracted to you, he’ll know how to control his behavior.
He is a man after all, and he knows what men think; that is why he is being protective of you because he doesn’t want to lose you.
He might even notice if other guys check you out. It is like he possesses a sixth sense and knows when the threat is real.
Don’t worry. A guy who respects you will know how to handle the situation. He’ll make it known to the other guy that you are off-limits.
9. Behavior
You need to know that men are very self-aware.
Sometimes they will tense up if they are around a beautiful woman they like because they don’t want to sound stupid or say the wrong things.
He changes his behavior so he doesn’t lose his chance to be with you.
Sometimes guys like to play it safe so he’ll do nice things for you if he has the opportunity. Maybe he will open the door for you or help you to open a bottle.
He does additional things because he is attracted to you. Those things never disappear as long as he has feelings for you and he wants to be your only one.
10. Personal life
A man who finds you irresistible will ask a lot of questions about your personal life.
He will try to keep the conversation going by asking you about your hobbies, adventures, or times when you have embarrassed yourself.
Showing interest in your life means that he finds you attractive and wants to know whether the two of you are compatible.
If he wasn’t attracted, believe me, he wouldn’t ask, he would just ignore you.
It doesn’t matter whether he texts via a dating app or in person, he will make the effort to keep talking.
The goal is to be on the same page with you; otherwise, a guy might ask you questions just to get you into the bedroom.
You should always be honest and tell him your intentions.
You can prevent having to experience another heartbreak by telling him what you expect from him and what your intentions are.
11. Impression
As I said before, men are very self-aware. If he sees you coming toward him, he might try to fix himself up, like straightening his tie or his jacket.
Just as you spend a lot of time with your make-up trying to impress him, he also wants to impress you with his physical appearance.
It is scientifically proven that in the first couple of seconds of meeting someone, you already know whether you are attracted to them or not.
He is aware of that, so he tries looking his best for you. And it is a good sign he finds you irresistible already because he is making the extra effort.
Final Thoughts
If you look closely at his body language and his behavior, there are lots of signs he finds you irresistible.
You should not be too focused on them, though, as that might mean you are not enjoying the time you are spending with the guy you are dating.
Sometimes it is best to listen to your gut feeling and just enjoy the moment.
It is obvious when a guy likes you. There is no need for further investigation when you already know he has fallen for you.
These signs just become a way for you to verify your feelings, and that’s it.
It is now up to you to make it last. Don’t rush and most importantly, be happy with your decision.
