“Our souls already know each other, don’t they?” he whispered. “It’s our bodies that are new.” – Karen Ross
It’s our own decision whether we want to believe in soulmates or not. They have always been a mystery.
Is our soul really connected to someone else’s? Is there a secret string that connects us with someone else?
Could there actually be a higher power that brings us together with a special someone?
No one can know that, but some of us feel that special connection and it’s really like all the stories describe.
The sparks are flying and you feel fulfilled like there was something missing before they came along.
If there is any doubt in your mind about whether your partner is your soulmate or not, you need to look out for these signs.
1. You weren’t looking for something serious
You were free as a bird, you weren’t looking to be tied down, and you didn’t want to settle.
He came out of nowhere and swept you off your feet!
You can’t even remember if you’d ever loved someone this much before. It all happened so fast that it’s still taking your breath away.
Your relationship happened so naturally and the bond was instant. You started talking and going out and the relationship just happened naturally.
Usually, you have to weigh up the pros and cons of being with someone, but he really made you feel like you were safe from the very beginning.
2. You don’t overthink your relationship
Usually, relationships need tons of work and effort, but you and your partner seem to figure things out as you go.
You don’t fight too often and even if you do, you don’t stay mad too long.
Neither of you has to overthink about where you stand in your relationship because things just seem to flow in all the right directions.
Relationships don’t usually let you have a moment’s peace.
Your brain constantly tries to figure things out in advance so you’re prepared for everything. But with him, everything seems so easy.
3. You can talk about anything and everything
There is not an inch of worry about whether or not you can talk to your partner about something, because you know that they’re here to listen.
He will try his best to understand where you’re coming from and he’ll try to keep an open mind, no matter what the topic is.
This is very rare. Even though we often try to find someone who will listen to us, they always end up judging.
You don’t have to freak out when it comes to your soulmate. They are an extension of yourself.
Your soulmate will try to understand you no matter the topic and he will be extremely trustworthy.
Your secrets are safe with them, because all those nights spent talking mean just as much to them as they do to you.
4. He’s turning you into a better version of yourself
The changes are obvious. All of your friends and family members are telling you how much you’re glowing. You seem happier to everyone around you.
You have started to notice these changes too. You’re becoming more passionate, more loving, more caring.
Before you met him, empathizing with people was very hard for you, but now you see everyone’s point of view.
5. You love yourself by loving him
Quite often, we tend to lose ourself in a relationship, but loving him is the easiest thing ever.
You love yourself more than ever. Your insecurities seem so minor that you are even starting to adore them.
He makes you see how beautiful you are and supports all of your wishes and dreams.
A relationship like this doesn’t just happen out of the blue. The connection must have been there before you two had even met.
He loves every curve of your body and you love him for loving you.
6. You can’t pinpoint imperfections about him
You believe that there is absolutely nothing he has to change about himself.
There are things you talked about improving in your relationship, but he seems just perfect.
You love his hair, his voice, the way he smells, and the way he talks to you like you’re the only person in the world.
There is nothing you want him to change about himself. Not his appearance, not his personality, nothing. You love him for who he is.
7. You take turns being strong
Life doesn’t treat us kindly and it can be a hell of a ride sometimes, but with our soulmate, it always looks like a scene from a movie.
You two take turns being strong because sometimes one of you needs more affection and more support than the other.
This happens by instinct. It’s not a distinct way of clarifying things, it’s more the fact that you two simply know when and how to cheer each other up.
8. You know that the connection will last forever even if he doesn’t
It’s weird. You want him to be happy even without you. You want him to experience life and love fully, even if you aren’t by his side.
If he chose to leave, you’d be sad and heartbroken, but he has the full right to choose a life without you and you’d be fine with it.
That’s how much you love him. You want him to be happy, even if it doesn’t include you!
Connections like these are extremely rare and you can’t find a way to explain it.
You just know that whatever happens, even if you lose him, even if he decides to move on, your connection will forever stay.
Soulmates are very rare. In a world this big, with billions of people, what are the chances that we will find our soulmate?
If you truly do believe that you have found your soulmate, that you have found ‘the one’, you should never give up on them.
Your soul is connected to theirs and it will stay like that for all eternity. Don’t forget that.