High-value dating for women these days seems like a big step towards a direction we’re trying to run away from. On a daily basis, I hear women say that they’re seeing this guy but it’s not official. These women get confused because they don’t value themselves or their time.
It’s sad to see that happen and know that it shouldn’t be that way. Things should be better than that – your dating life should be valuable in that increases your femininity, not ask of you to change your values for it.
So let’s see what you can do in order to learn how to date like a high-value woman and stay feminine through it all.
1. Stop neglecting your femininity
Femininity isn’t a set term. Femininity can be whatever you want it to be.
But one thing’s for sure: Being feminine means that you take care of yourself! You should never stop taking care of yourself.
What does that mean for you? Do you need to have a morning and night routine that’ll let you relax and start or end your day well?
Your femininity will always be the most obvious when you take care of your hygiene and dress in a way that makes you feel confident. Your femininity is about your confidence and what you need in order to achieve it.
Women lose that when they try to impress a guy. We try to become a part of their world and in so doing, we completely brush aside our own need to feel taken care of.
2. Learn to say “no”
Saying “no” is such a powerful tool in the dating world. You don’t need to agree to everything just so you’re not alone. We tend to be scared that someone may not choose us so we say “yes” even though we don’t want to.
Because of that, your needs are never met.
So don’t be afraid to disagree at times and to say “no” when you genuinely don’t want to do something.
For example, if he wants to go out to a place where you don’t feel comfortable, don’t just agree because you’re scared of his reaction. You have a right to avoid situations that make you feel anxious.
3. Don’t hold your intelligence back
You’re such an amazing woman, with a brain that’s so astonishingly beautiful! You should never play dumb just so a man may find you attractive. Look at how brilliant you are!
If a man says something that makes him sound misinformed, correct him on it. If he says something that shows just how ignorant he is, don’t stay silent out of fear of angering him.
Show your intelligence, have your facts ready, and say what you think! You put so much effort into your education, don’t let it all go to waste just because you feel like you should be more submissive in the presence of a man.
That’s definitely not what a high-value woman would do while dating.
4. Develop class
To have class means to have manners that’ll help you feel more in control. When you’re not classy enough to control the situation you’re in, a man will most likely try to throw you under the bus.
That’s not the case when you make a point of developing class. Sit calmly and listen to what he has to say, and you’ll always know how to give him an appropriate response.
This also means that you’ll show him how to treat you right from the very beginning.
You’ll help him understand how he has to act around you. He’ll open up doors for you, he’ll help you get out of the car, he’ll let you order first and so on.
These things will help you feel valued and cherished, but you can’t really have this when you’re without class and manners.
5. Learn to forgive
Forgiveness – the ability to let go of bad experiences from your past. Your past shouldn’t define who you are today nor should those demons continue to haunt you. You can do so much better than that!
This doesn’t mean that you should forget the people who wronged you.
You have a right to set a boundary that you won’t talk to the people who hurt you, but when you forgive, it makes your heart lighter. You’ll be able to let love come in again.
It’ll be easier to move on through life. High-value dating isn’t possible when you tell every man you meet about that ex who broke your heart. That’s just not something a confident woman should do.
6. Stick to what you want
What do you want from a relationship? Have you ever made a list of things that are deal-breakers?
For example, you want a serious and exclusive relationship. You want something long-term with a man who knows how to be consistent. You devalue yourself every single time you settle for less than that.
If you want a serious relationship and someone tells you that they’re not ready for that, you should walk away from them. You shouldn’t stick around just to see if he’ll change his mind. That’s not what you’re looking for.
Stick to what you want and don’t negotiate your wants and needs.
7. Don’t wait for a man to pick you
The most common issue we see is that girls are competing for the attention of men. In high-value dating, that’s not something that a woman does. She’s the one who picks the man, it’s never the other way around.
How many men are currently in your DMs trying to catch your attention? You can’t tell me that you don’t have a host of men waiting on you.
You’re the one who has the power to pick the one you want the most! Don’t ignore your own value and become desperate for a man.
You’re the one who should pick the man you want – the man who’ll treat you the best. Never compete with other women for a spot next to men, always let them compete for your attention.
That’s how you’ll know that you’ve gotten the right man for yourself.