A girl with a soft heart yet anxious mind isn’t like the rest of the girls you’ve met in your life. She’s a one-in-a-million gisrl.
Maybe you’re one of the lucky few who’s had the chance to meet her.
A girl that has an emotional heart is a girl who is wonderful, honest, and pure. However, sometimes she’s afraid to let other people know that.
She only sees good in people and truly believes that everyone is capable of goodness. She’s also caring and loving, and she wants everyone to know that, but there is one thing that keeps her from doing that: her anxious mind.
And as I said before, if you’re one of the lucky few who knows a girl with a soft heart but an anxious mind, remember, don’t push her away. Instead, give her time and space so that she can feel relaxed and comfortable around you.
Don’t forget that patience is a virtue and I assure you, waiting for her will definitely be worth it.
She’s not like the rest of the girls you’ve met.
She searches for her peaceful spot as her head is constantly racing and she needs someone who’ll ease her anxious mind.
It can be tough to love a girl with a soft heart and anxious mind in this troublesome world.
When those two qualities combine, they make her vulnerable and overly sensitive. She worries more than the other girls you’ve met and she feels more intensely too.
So, before dating a girl with a soft heart and anxious mind there are a couple of things you should know.
1. She apologizes too much
As I said before, having a soft heart and an anxious mind makes her overly sensitive and aware of every little thing.
And if you do decide to date her, then you should know that she’ll notice even the slightest changes in you.
She’ll take note of those delays while she waits for you to text her back or call her, when you change your hairstyle, even the slightest tone change that you had while talking to her.
She’ll definitely notice those changes about you.
Why? Because she knows that most people don’t have the courage to speak out loud about what’s on their minds.
And the moment she realizes that something she said may have hurt you, she’ll apologize to you immediately without hesitation.
Even though most people are afraid to say they’re sorry, she’s not. What she is afraid of is that you won’t forgive her.
2. She’ll always forgive you, no matter what
No matter how hard you try, you’re bound to mess things up sometimes.
It’s quite normal for that to happen, but remember, you have a very rare girl by your side.
Even though she’s careful with her every word and cautious of her every step, she doesn’t expect you to behave the same way she does.
She won’t play any mind games with you or torture you just so that she could have her revenge. No, she won’t resort to that.
A simple “I’m sorry” will suffice and she’ll forgive you, no matter how big or little your mistake is.
And even then, she’ll probably be the one to apologize to you first, even if it wasn’t her mistake. That’s because she has a soft heart yet anxious mind.
3. She overthinks everything
Everyone who has an anxious mind analyzes everything to its tiniest detail.
She overthinks everything and she also tries to predict certain outcomes to situations based on her detailed observations.
Maybe you think she’s being paranoid or something, but that’s not the case. The reason she does this is that she worries too much.
She had bad experiences in her life, things that she didn’t believe could ever have happened to her, yet they did.
That’s why she overanalyzes and overthinks everything – to protect herself from being hurt once again.
4. She gets attached fairly easily
Due to her soft heart and anxious mind, it doesn’t take too long for her to let someone into her heart. And by someone, I mean you.
She’s an incredibly emotional and sensitive woman – a one-of-a-kind girl, you might say – and that’s why she’ll quickly let you in her heart.
She’ll lay all of her cards on the table because she won’t feel the need to hide anything from you.
That’s why you have to be put in extra effort to gain her trust and never do anything that would make her feel unhappy.
Should you break her heart, she’d have a hard time recovering from it.
Don’t ever take a girl for granted, especially the one with a soft heart and an anxious mind.
5. She’ll always fight for you
Once you gained her trust, she’ll never lose faith in you. She’ll always see the bright side of things even in moments that seem hopeless.
She might be scared that she’s not good enough for you, but deep down she’s a true fighter.
She’ll always fight for you, even though she has her share of insecurities.
She knows that she’s got an anxious mind, but that doesn’t stop her from fighting for you.
Once she lets you into her heart, she’ll do whatever it takes to make sure you stay there.
6. She’ll love you unconditionally
Anyone who has a good heart gives away their love so easily, and yet receives little in return.
However, a girl with a soft heart and anxious mind doesn’t know any other way to love you but unconditionally.
She’s the one who’ll always give more and expect less, but she’ll want you to feel the same way she does.
She won’t stay with you if you make a fool out of her because her heart would break if you do.
That’s why you should never make empty promises and tell her half-truths.
7. She follows her own set of rules
Trust me, a girl who overanalyzes everything knows the rules of dating better than anyone you know.
And even though she has this fear of doing something wrong and analyzing every move she makes, she follows her own set of rules.
She doesn’t play by anyone’s rules but lives according to her own agenda. A girl like this must be firm because she was hurt many times.
However, if you’re lucky enough to meet a soft-hearted yet anxious girl, protect her and hold her tight by your side, because this type of girl is truly a rare gem.
Guaranteed, you won’t meet a girl like her ever again!
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