They say that the New Year means a new beginning.
I completely share that thought and want to tell you that you can use this New Year as a meaningful new start.
In 2021, give yourself a promise that you will stop doing all the things that are keeping you from having a loving and caring relationship.
Yes, there are things that you are doing that are actually sabotaging your own happiness.
Finding true love doesn’t just mean that you can sit around and wait for it to happen. It’s so much more than that!
This New Year, you can choose to become a better version of yourself in order to attract the man of your dreams.
Finding true love will seem easy once you know the things that need to change.
If you are wondering what you’re doing wrong, here is a list of things you need to stop doing in order to find true love in 2021.
1. Stop doubting yourself
This is the first thing that every person in this world needs to stop doing.
No one wants a partner who doesn’t know what they want from their life.
You need to be sure of the things you want and not expect your future partner to figure those things out for you.
This also means that you need to stop doubting whether you’re worthy of love. You are worthy of all the love and affection in this world!
You deserve to be treated with respect and you deserve to be cared for!
Things like this aren’t debatable, because you truly do deserve love in your life.
In order to find true love in 2021, please stop doubting yourself.
2. Stop playing hard to get
I know that we shouldn’t make it easy for men.
Accepting the bare minimum from them is a huge issue and it can translate into a very loveless relationship.
However, playing hard to get is still playing games.
There is someone out there who will do anything to love you just the way you have always wished to be loved.
Will that person really want to stick around if you keep on ignoring all of their advances?
You should give them a chance to prove that they can and will treat you right. Otherwise, it just looks like you’re being mean.
3. Stop hiding your emotions
If you think that vulnerability is a weakness, that’s exactly what it’ll become.
You need to realize that emotions don’t exist just to make you fragile, they’re a part of you and they make you human.
If you keep hiding your emotions, you’ll never find true love. In 2021, you need to stop hiding them.
When you have feelings for someone, be honest about them.
When you have a problem with something someone said and they hurt you or made you mad, be honest about it.
Hiding your emotions only makes you miserable because you’re bottling them up inside. At some point, they will burst out of you.
What if your true love is out there and you’re too scared to admit to them or yourself that you love them?
Romantic relationships can’t exist without vulnerability, so you have to let all those emotions out.
4. Stop being stuck in your comfort zone
No one has ever grown as a person inside of their own comfort zone.
Your comfort zone is something that you’re accustomed to, a place that makes you feel safe.
It’s nice to have a comfort zone, but if you’re stuck in your own little bubble, how are you going to find true love?
If you haven’t found your true love inside your comfort zone by now, why do you believe that you’ll find them in the future?
You have to get yourself out there. Explore new things, meet new people, start new hobbies.
Comfort is nice, but it doesn’t let you grow. You can’t meet your soulmate and expect to be loved and cared for if you’re not ready to let go of that.
5. Stop searching for perfection
No one in this world is perfect. You’re not perfect, I’m not perfect, the love of your life won’t be perfect.
Being picky about your partner is a good thing, because that means you won’t be stuck with a toxic manipulator.
On the other hand, it can also be bad. Searching for perfection can lead you to a life filled with loneliness.
All you have to do is give someone a chance to treat you right and love you.
There will be some hardships along the way, of course.
You will argue and you will be anxious at times but that doesn’t mean that your love for each other isn’t the real deal.
Relationships require a lot of work and you have to be willing to put in the effort as well.
6. Stop trying to be someone else
You are good enough just the way you are. You have done so much in your life to get to where you are right now and everyone should know that.
Just because someone else has the life you want for yourself, it doesn’t mean that you need to forgo your own authenticity.
Like every other human being on this planet, you have your own path in life.
Stop pretending to like things just because you think that you will impress someone.
Stop telling people white lies just to make sure that they won’t walk out of your life.
If you need to change for someone, they are not worthy of your time.
The love of your life will see you for who you truly are and they will love you for all your flaws and imperfections.
That is what finding your true love is all about!