You stare at your reflection in the mirror, wondering if you are worthy of love. Do you deserve love?
You ask yourself that question constantly and tell yourself that you are not good enough. How come you’re such a mess when everyone else seems to be doing so great?
You ask yourself that, and all you see are your flaws. It’s like you’re searching for reasons why you aren’t worthy of love.
Maybe at first, you just noticed a few little imperfections, but now you can’t seem to see anything great about yourself.
When was the last time you looked at that reflection in the mirror and told yourself that you’re beautiful? You haven’t said to yourself that you’re doing great for a while either.
All you tell yourself is that you’re lost and a mess. But so what?
It’s not a permanent state, so you won’t be a mess or lost forever.
You feel like you can’t get yourself back together and that everyone’s better than you so you end up feeling like a lost cause…
But I’m here to tell you that you’re not.
Every one of us has felt the way you feel now. I also thought I didn’t deserve to be loved and that no one would ever love me for who I was… A mess.
However, someone will look beyond that mess and see the real you. Don’t fool yourself that no one will ever see the bright future ahead of you or that you can be much better than you are now.
Right now, you’re only able to see yourself as a mess, because you’re so focused on your flaws. You’re convincing yourself that everyone else is doing great, but that won’t get you anywhere.
Let me let you in on a little secret. All of us are a mess, and we have all been messed up as well.
Nevertheless, it’s in our destiny to find true love despite it.
Someone will come along and want to hear all about what’s going on inside your head. That someone will want to know the reasons behind you being a mess and will listen carefully to all your stories.
While you see yourself as a mess, they’ll see you as the person that they have been looking for. I promise you that, and you can hold me to my word.
You stare at that mirror, wondering who could ever fall for you, but someone will fall so hard you won’t be able to believe it.
How come you have always had to fight for everything while others seem to get things so easily?
You sometimes feel like you can’t take it anymore, and you have had enough. Are you a quitter?
I don’t think so; in fact, I believe that you’re a fighter. You got this far in life, and it’s not by being a quitter.
Sure, there were times when you wanted to give up. You thought you’d lose it and wouldn’t be able to go on.
But here you are now, alive and well. You’re a mess, but you’re here, and you aren’t ready to give up.
Someone will notice that and love you for it. They’ll see how many times you’ve fallen, but they’ll also know that you got up every single time.
That someone will see you as a fighter who stayed strong no matter the hardships and they will admire you because of it.
Everything you hate when you look in the mirror, someone will love. They’ll see your pain and want to help you heal.
This is a man who won’t want to change you. He won’t come to save you, but to hold your hand and prove to you that you deserve to be loved.
Despite the stuff you tell yourself, you’re an amazing person, and he’ll make you believe it.
He’ll see that you’re a mess, but he will stay by your side. This man will be grateful for getting the opportunity to meet you, no matter how much of a mess you think you are.
There are people who love your perfections, but this is a person who will love your mess even more.
He will patiently wait for you to unmess yourself and will love you even if you don’t because he will love your bad sides as much as your good ones, if not more.
He will love you for being a mess and won’t mind if it takes you a lifetime to stop being one. After all, it will be the reason he fell for you.
Someone will come along who will love you for everything that you are. He’ll love you, all of you.
He will love the parts of you that you don’t love and will help you see that you should. All of your scars and flaws will be loved, and he’ll admire you for the battles you have gone through.
This is what everyone deserves, so why should you be any different? Maybe it’s hard for you to believe right now, but it will happen.
As I said, I was just as big of a mess as you are now, if not even bigger. I was utterly lost and thought no one would ever love me for who I was… A mess.
Just like you, I would look in the mirror and hate what I saw. The only things I could see were my flaws and the reasons why I was so messed up.
But then a man came into my life and smiled at the face I hated seeing in the mirror. He said he loved me when I didn’t love myself.
The craziest thing is that he didn’t try to change me, he just accepted me for the mess I was and loved me for it. He listened to my stories and understood why I got so messed up.
Then he waited patiently by my side and simply showered me with love and affection. Whenever I would take a step forward, he would support me, but he never pressured me.
So, I just woke up one day, and I wasn’t a mess anymore. I looked in that mirror and smiled because I finally loved myself.
Don’t expect the reflection in the mirror to smile back if you frown at it.
Soon, your mess will be loved, and you’ll learn to love yourself again because you’ll be loved for everything that you are. Just don’t give up yet, and you’ll see that your luck will change.