You taught her that she can’t rely on you because you never show up when she needs you. So, don’t be surprised now that you aren’t the first person she calls anymore. You are the one who showed her that she can’t count on you, so don’t act surprised now that she doesn’t anymore. She will find someone else whom she can rely on, and she will soon find someone who will love her the way you didn’t. You have never been there for her, so don’t be surprised when she doesn’t want you to be anymore. When you don’t answer her call next time, be prepared that she won’t call you again. There are plenty of other people out there who will gladly pick up the phone when she needs them.
You taught her that you aren’t going to be present. You neither listen to her, nor do you remember a thing she says so don’t be surprised now that she is spending more time with her friends than with you. She has seen that you will never care for her the way her friends do. Now, when she needs someone to talk to, she will turn to them. They will tell her that she should leave you because even though it’s not hard for them to listen to her, she should have a man in her life who will do that too. You have shown her that you aren’t that man. Her words don’t mean anything to you, and you don’t listen to her when she talks. Soon, she will stop talking to you for good. So, don’t wonder how come that happened once it does.
You taught her that you will always say no to her plans so she has started to plan the future without you. I do mean that she is planning without you and that future is without you. She has seen that you would rather lose her than put effort into making plans for the future with her. It’s now obvious that you two don’t have a future together so don’t be surprised when her plans don’t involve you. You were never willing to make any plans with her anyway.
You taught her how to not miss you because you never miss her. She is certain that you won’t miss her once she leaves, and that is exactly why she will leave you. You never told her how much she means to you and that it hurts you when she’s away. There are plenty of guys out there who would gladly do that, so don’t be surprised when one of them shows up.
You taught her to ignore you because you have been ignoring her for a long time. She would always have to beg for your attention. You have ignored her and her needs for long enough. Now it’s time for you to get a taste of your own medicine so don’t be surprised now that she has started to ignore you. You taught her how to do it. She has learned from the best. She has been investing in this relationship for a long time but she has been the only one, and now she knows that it was a bad investment. She has been the only one who put effort into making the relationship work. Now she doesn’t have the will to do that anymore.
You taught her that with you, she is settling. She is starting to remember who she was before you, and she wants to be that person again. Everyone wants what they deserve, and she is no different. She has realized that she deserves more than what you are letting her have. You have been taking her for granted for a long time, so don’t be surprised now that she has realized it. She knows that with you, she is settling, and she has no intention of settling anymore. You have taught her that you will never treat her the way she deserves and she knows that there is someone out there who will so why should she keep sacrificing her happiness for you?
You taught her that she doesn’t have a reason to stay so don’t be surprised now that she has stopped caring. She isn’t as attentive as she was, and you know it. Maybe you are used to her being there for you, but now that has changed. You have never been there for her, so she doesn’t want to be there for you anymore. She has realized that you will never give her a reason to stay with you but she was still hoping for one. Now that hope is gone, and she knows that this relationship isn’t meant to last. You are the one who showed her that with your neglectful behavior.
You taught her to be alone, and she felt alone when she was with you. Now she has realized that it’s better to be alone than to feel alone with someone you love. That love is slowly fading away because you taught her how to be alone. You never supported her or believed in her, and she now knows that she needs that in her life. Don’t be surprised when she figures out that you’re just not right for her. This is because you are never going to change. She has hoped for long enough, and you haven’t made a single effort to improve.
You taught her to not have hopes about your relationship anymore. You would fail her every time she would hope that things would get better so don’t be surprised now that she has given up that hope and realized that you’re never going to change. She has tried hard enough and long enough. You taught her not to hope anymore, so now she knows that you will always disappoint her. She will never let herself go through that again. There’s only so much one person can take from someone they love… or at least used to love.
You taught her how to stop loving you, so don’t be surprised now that she has.