When someone breaks your heart, it can really change you, especially when you have been cheated on or lied to. It makes you lose your faith in people and question their intentions. Your heart sometimes turns to stone just so it can avoid breaking again so you doubt everyone in the fear that you are going to get hurt again. After all, you already gave someone your heart, but they stepped on it and walked away. You were left bleeding, and now your wounds hurt every time you wish to love again.
Essentially, after one thorn hurts you, you start being more careful when picking up roses so you might try dating again, but you get hurt once again. I know how it can make you lose hope. You start feeling like you are never going to find that special someone. It hurts so much to even try again. After all, you started believing that all guys are the same, that every one of them will break your heart if you let them have it.
That’s not true.
Even though I know it seems to you that you are never going to find true love, you have to be strong. Every one of us who is now happily in love suffered some harsh heartbreaks before we got to where we are now. I myself almost gave up on love altogether after a huge heartbreak and a lot of bad experiences. But I didn’t. The truth is, you can’t give up on love. Love is what makes the world go round. It is the point of our existence. And there is someone for everyone.
It might not seem like that to you now, but all that heartbreak is leading you to something amazing. After all, if you had met the man of your dreams when you first started dating, would you be together now? Probably not, because you would be thirsty for new experiences. There is a right time for everything. The reason you haven’t yet met your Mr. Right is that you aren’t ready for him yet. You have valuable lessons to learn from your bad relationships.
Every heartbreak is actually leading you to your future where you will meet your destiny. Your destiny is to be with your soulmate, and he is out there. But you can’t just get him whenever you decide is right. You have to be ready for it. Maybe your entire life is actually preparing you for that moment. All of the pain will suddenly make sense once it all falls into place. And trust me, it will. You just need to be patient and wait for the right guy before you give your heart away.
Don’t let this heartbreak change who you are. Your Mr. Right deserves to get the amazing you who you were before someone tried to ruin it. You owe it to him and to yourself to be stronger than that. Someone will love you the way you deserve, I can guarantee you that. So, don’t let a bad heartbreak make you doubt that. In a world without heartbreaks, everyone would be with the first person they choose to date for the rest of their lives. Accept that not everyone is right for you and that you have to go through a few wrong relationships to get to the right one.
After all, you are not left without anything after a break-up; it taught you something, and it is an experience that you needed to have at that time. One day, you will be grateful for all the wrong men you dated, because they lead you to the right one. That man will love you the way you deserve to be loved… the way you have always dreamed of being loved. So, don’t give up on love just yet. Don’t stop picking up roses just because one thorn hurt you. Love hurts, but real love heals all the wounds of the loves we had before.
I was once where you are now. The truth is, I thought that I was in love, and once he broke my heart, I was certain that I would never love again. It took me more than a year to recover from that break-up. I thought that I would never meet the right man. But I never gave up hope, and when I least expected it, he showed up. The man of my dreams simply walked into my life… and it was like nothing before that moment really mattered. The thing is, it was all worth it.
All of the troubles I went through were wiped away with one smile on his face. I knew right then that everything from then on would be fine. The funny thing is, it really was. I suddenly understood that I had to go through everything I did. Otherwise, I would have never found myself at that place, at that time… ready to meet the love of my life. Just a few years ago, I thought that I would never meet my Mr. Right. And now I am married to him.
I don’t blame you for not believing me, I wouldn’t have believed me either but just wait and see for yourself. All I am asking from you is to not give up on love. Don’t close your heart off from the opportunity to be truly happy. Keep trusting people even if you get hurt more than once. One day, it will all be worth it because it will get you to show up at the right time, in the right place… and your Mr. Right will be there waiting for you at the end of the road. Once you see that smile on his face, all of your wounds will heal.
I promise not to say, “I told you so,” if you promise to have faith. After all, it may take a while, but what’s meant for you will always come to you. All the heartbreak is leading you to the person who will love you.