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Are You Unlucky In Love? Find Out 7 Ways To Change Your Luck

Are You Unlucky In Love? Find Out 7 Ways To Change Your Luck
Written by Deborah Carbone

I have always been lucky at cards but unlucky in love but instead of testing my luck in Vegas, I decided to put my best efforts into improving my love life. Bad luck has to stop eventually, but you can make it stop right now. So if you are unlucky in love, keep reading and I will tell you how to put a stop to bad relationships and change your dating life forever.

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    Bad relationships happen to everyone, and all single women have experienced heartbreak but if you have been unlucky for a while now, it’s time for you to meet a good guy who will be your Mr. Right. However, one bad date doesn’t mean that you have bad luck when it comes to your dating life. All single women struggle to find their Mr. Right.

    Before you meet someone else and hook up, work on your self-esteem. And find out how to end the cycle of being unlucky in love in order to avoid another heartbreak. You deserve to find true love and create your own love story. Maybe there’s even a good guy among your single friends who you never considered before but by the first time you ask yourself why you are so unlucky in love, the change has already begun. It’s time for you to be lucky in love.

    3 signs that you are unlucky in love and 7 ways to fix it (plus 10 quotes)

    Are you asking yourself why you are so unlucky in love? If you have always been lucky at cards but unlucky in love, it’s time to change that. Sometimes you will find yourself on a bad date, despite your best efforts but have you considered that maybe you are just choosing the wrong guys? In any case, check out these signs to see if you are really unlucky in love and I will later tell you how to improve your love life by improving your self-esteem.

    1. You pretend that you don’t care when it’s clear that you do

    Are you involved with a guy who you regularly hook up with but it is not clear what exactly you two are? You two are avoiding defining your relationship and even though you pretend that you like things casual, in reality, you are dying of heartache. And there is no way this could end in anything but heartache if the guy doesn’t want to be in a serious relationship with you. Don’t lie about your intentions when you are with a guy. If you are hoping to have a serious relationship, talk to him about it… or find someone else who wants the same love story as you do.

    2. You keep chasing that which you cannot have

    Are you still stalking your ex on social media and reading their old texts? So maybe you still believe that he was your one true love, but deep inside, you know that that’s not true and if you keep chasing him, you might lose your chance of finding true love because of it. When you reminisce about the first time you kissed, try remembering the last time you fought and make sure that that’s the last time you look back on that relationship because it’s time for you to test your luck with someone else. Maybe you haven’t been unlucky after all, you are just stuck in the past when you should be looking to the future.

    3. You bash guys and don’t look at your own behavior

    There are a lot of girls who expect a fairy tale when they are far away from being princesses. So, if you are one of those girls who says things like, “All men are after one thing,” that could be the reason why you haven’t had luck in your dating life. Do you just assume from the first date that a guy is a player just because he is a guy? But have you stopped to look at your own behavior? Often those who bash guys are the ones who are dating a few of them at the same time so don’t be a hypocrite and make sure that you give the same things that you want to get.

    Your love story is about to begin and maybe it will be with one of your single friends, or you will meet someone through online dating but before you create a profile on an online dating website, be sure to keep reading because I am now going to tell you how to put an end to being unlucky in love.

    1. Stop feeling sorry for yourself

    It’s time to get off the pity train and walk with your head held high. You have to understand that your self-defeating thoughts can only hold you back. If you keep putting yourself down, no one will enjoy hanging out with you. Maybe the reason why you have been unlucky in love is that men can see how you see yourself from the first date. How long will it take for you to finally realize that you are beautiful just the way you are? Attractive people are actually those who are confident. Stop complaining about yourself and fake the confidence until you can really feel it.

    2. Stop crying about a guy

    The next time you want to cry about a guy, get mad instead! It’s time for you to stand up for yourself and realize that no man is worth your tears. You must stop allowing people to treat you badly. Start working on your confidence and assertiveness and it will get you a guy who will respect you. How long will it take you to get over a relationship if you keep crying about the guy? Don’t do it, even in front of your best friends.

    3. Stop sharing too much

    It is important to keep an air of mystery in order to keep a guy’s attention so stop sharing too much about yourself from the start. Long-term relationships are made for people to get to know each other so there will plenty of time for opening up. Maybe the reason that you aren’t lucky in love is that you make the same mistake many of us ladies make; you are so used to sharing your thoughts and feelings with your best friends that you do it with the men that you meet. And remember that even a potentially long-term relationship tends to fail if you say how you feel about him too soon in the relationship.

    4. Stop running to him

    You should make him come to you, especially in the beginning. If he doesn’t come to pick you up, but you go to his house, it sounds a lot like a booty call. Does he want you to always go to his house instead of planning a date night? You get the point. Someone who really cares about you will put in the effort. So to be lucky in love, you have to stop running to him and make him come to you instead.

    5. Stop putting in more effort than him

    Actually, the less effort you put in, the more he will have to come to you and this way, you will get to see how invested he is in your relationship. If it happens that he doesn’t come to you, it’s time for you to run away and I do mean run, not walk because if it’s too hard for him to put in the effort now that you are only dating, what will happen later once he gets comfortable? Don’t call him unless you are returning a call and avoid returning calls and texts immediately.

    6. Stop avoiding taking the initiative

    The funny thing is… women often tend to complain about how they didn’t find love through online dating because they weren’t contacted by quality men but what was stopping them from contacting the men they considered to be the right fit for them? Why do you just sit and wait for love to find you when you can get up from that chair and find your own happiness? The same as the fear of being alone is making you stay in a wrong relationship, the fear of rejection is making you miss out on chances for real love. In order to fix this problem and stop being unlucky in love, work on your self-worth and address your fears.

    7. Stop dating losers

    Something that could help you is making a list of your best attributes, personality traits, the compliments people give you and your skills. Carry that list with you and read it when you need extra courage to make your move. And if the guy you are with doesn’t reaffirm your list, you are with the wrong guy again. Put an end to your pattern of dating losers. Remember that your happiness depends on you, and only you can change your luck and don’t expect anything to be different if you keep dating losers who don’t see how amazing you really are. The right guy will make you feel good about yourself and will only have things to add to your list, not take them off it.

    Quotes about being unlucky in love

    If you are unlucky in love, these quotes about being unlucky in love could be just the thing you need. If you want to stop being unlucky in love, read my advice on becoming lucky in love. With a little effort, you can change your life and become a more confident person and confidence is the key to having a successful dating life. But until you can be really lucky in love, read these quotes about being unlucky in love. At least you will know that it is something that happens to everyone.

    1.”I don’t feel unlucky in love anymore, and it’s not all emo. It’s a scary place to be in when you’re like: ‘What am I supposed to write about now? I don’t feel heartbroken, so now what?'”

    Jenny Lewis

    2. “It sucks when you know that you need to let go, but you can’t because you’re still waiting for the impossible to happen.”

    Unknown

    3. “Once, when I was young and true. Someone left me sad – Broke my brittle heart in two; And that is very bad. Love is for unlucky folk, love is but a curse. Once there was a heart I broke; And that, I think, is worse.”

    Dorothy Parker

    4. “Some people are so lucky that even after hurting, they get so much love. And some are unlucky that even after giving so much love, they always get hurt.”

    Unknown

    5. “Finding someone to love for the rest of your life should be the easiest thing in the world. I guess the easiest things are the hardest for me.”

    Julian Aguilar

    6. “My characters are always unlucky in love. It’s annoying, but perhaps there is something in me that is suited to characters that have darkness. Maybe it’s why I play such damaged people when I’m not particularly damaged myself, I would say.”

    Vanessa Kirby

    7. “True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen.”

    François de La Rochefoucauld

    8.”I must have been born under an unlucky star. You know I have filled out entry blanks for every single drawing in the supermarket for the last twelve years, and the only thing I ever won was a coupon for a small little jar of tomato paste. But they were out of tomato paste, and by the time they got more in, my coupon had expired. And now I have venereal disease.”

    Louise Lasser as Mary Hartman

    9. “A person with a remarkable ability for horse riding.

    People: You are so lucky and blessed to have this.

    One fine day he falls off his horse & breaks his leg.

    People: You are so unlucky. You ruined your career.

    Then war breaks out, and all the young men are sent to battle.

    People: You’re so lucky; at least, you’re here with your family.

    …and the story continued as ‘lucky’ and ‘unlucky’ until he died.”

    Mohammed Israil

    10.”I’m kind of unlucky in love, and I have, for some reason, always fallen for the straight guy.”

    Calum Scott

    3 Signs You Are Unlucky In Love And 7 Ways To Fix It

    About the author

    Deborah Carbone

    Hi!
    I'm a Life and Relationship Coach with 5 years experience of coaching and training. I work with overwhelmed women guiding them through all kinds of life and career transitions so that they can make big changes in their lives.
    Writing is my passion and I am here to help you through every phase of your life. I hope you'll enjoy.

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