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If You Care About Someone, Show Up For Them

If You Care About Someone, Show Up For Them
Written by Deborah Carbone

If you care about someone, you will always show up for them. They will be your priority, and you will be there for them when they need you the most. It doesn’t matter whether it’s the happiest moment of their life or the saddest; when they need you, you need to be there for them and go through it all together, side by side. Even if you think they don’t deserve it, love is something that everybody deserves to have in their life, so you should be there for them no matter what.

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    You know that they aren’t perfect, but neither are you, and you need to love them with all their flaws and for who they really are. Loving someone means the most when they are not perfect, when they are hurting and need love more than anything in order to be able to pull themselves together again. You need to be there for the person you care about, and not only because they need you to, but because you want to help them carry the heavy burden on their shoulders.

    If you care about someone, you have to prove it by being there for them when they need you. Everybody dreams of having someone in their life who they can call in the middle of the night when they have a problem, so why not be that person for someone you care about? And don’t just be someone who will always answer the phone but be there in person to have a deep conversation about what is bothering them.

    Don’t settle for small talk but open up and talk about your feelings and what really matters. Let them open up to you and tell you about their deepest hopes and fears because they need it more than anything. Be there when they need you.

    Only the people who show up count anyway. It doesn’t matter whether they are acting in a play, moving furniture, or dealing with a loss, you need to show up for them and be there when they need your support because that is what caring about someone is all about.

    If you care about someone, let them know that you appreciate them and everything they do. Protect them and keep their secrets to yourself. And don’t just say kind words but mean what you say and stand up for what you believe in. They need you to take action and prove that you mean what you say.

    They need to know that they matter to you, and you have to make them feel loved and appreciated. You have to convince them that you will always be there for them no matter what because you care that much about them. Just be good to them and treat them with kindness to make them believe that they are worthy of good things and good enough for you.

    If you care about someone, their mistakes won’t make you angry and stop you from showing up for them because your mind can get angry, but your heart will still care. Too many people take their loved ones for granted, so don’t be one of them and prove to them every day that you care about them and want them to be happy. Be honest with them and show them that they can trust you with everything. Surprise them with little things like a spontaneous hug, an honest compliment, or simply by saying, “I love you,” because it will make their day better.

    If you care about someone, you will never let them stand alone and look across the room trying to find a familiar face because you will be there in the first row applauding their success or comforting them in their moment of weakness.

    They will never have to deal with problems alone because you will be there to lend them a helping hand in whatever it is they need at that moment. And they will be grateful to you for the rest of their life because they have been dreaming about someone they could rely on in sickness and in health.

    So be there with them in the bad times as well as the good times, because that is what love is all about, and your efforts will pay off because they will do the same thing for you. You will never again have to worry about being alone because they will be there for you the same way that you were there for them in their times of need.

    If you care about someone, show it to them every day by listening to them when they need to offload and helping them realize that they are amazing and can deal with anything because they are strong enough and will always have you by their side to assist them when they need you to.

    Take an interest in what they are saying even if the subject isn’t interesting to you because you need to show them that you care and they need someone who will listen to what they have to say.

    Remember the dates that are important to them and always show up for their birthday with the best present because you are their most important guest. Give them compliments and make them see how amazing they are.

    If you care about someone, show up for them when they need you, even if they don’t ask you to. You will know when they need someone to be by their side, and you should be proud to have that role because you will become the most important person in their life since they will be able to rely on you no matter what.

    Support them with their mission to become the best version of themselves by going through it with them. There shouldn’t be a doubt in your mind when they need you to show up for them because that is what you do when you love someone, and they will love you with all their heart if you are just there and stay by their side forever.

    If You Care About Someone, Show Up For Them

    About the author

    Deborah Carbone

    Hi!
    I'm a Life and Relationship Coach with 5 years experience of coaching and training. I work with overwhelmed women guiding them through all kinds of life and career transitions so that they can make big changes in their lives.
    Writing is my passion and I am here to help you through every phase of your life. I hope you'll enjoy.

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