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She Needs Someone To Accept Her As She Is

Written by Chloe M.

She has a lot of pain inside of her. She is scarred and she is emotional. She needs to be with someone who is not intimidated by the demons that she carries within her.

She is only looking to be with a person who knows to accept her in her entirety. She doesn’t want to be with someone who will treat her like a buffet; where he gets to pick and choose the parts of her that he likes the most. He can’t be the kind of guy who will just choose to ignore and disrespect the parts of her that he doesn’t care for.

He has to be able to accept her whole self without any reservations. She needs to be with someone who is appreciative of all of her little quirks and eccentricities. She knows that she isn’t going to be everyone’s cup of tea. She knows that there are parts of her that are difficult to accept. But again, she needs to be with that special person who will be accepting all those parts of her personality. She needs to be with someone who is going to be comfortable with all of her little quirks.

She is only looking to be with someone who will love all parts of who she is. She needs to be with the guy who isn’t afraid to call her out on all of her flaws and shortcomings. But he also needs to be someone who will be okay with the fact that there are some aspects of her personality that she will refuse to change.

She only wants to be with someone who won’t belittle or demean her for her imperfections. She wants to be with someone who strengthens her resolve and builds her confidence. She needs to be with a person who inspires her to become better, but also makes her feel okay if she ever comes up short of her goals. She needs to be with someone who lets her know that she doesn’t have to be perfect because she’s going to be loved regardless.

She needs to be with the guy who is going to be there for her whenever she needs him to be. He can’t be someone who is all talk. He needs to be able to back up his words with his actions. He can’t be the type of guy who is selfish. He can’t be the kind of guy who is always about himself. He can’t be self-centered. He can’t be narcissistic. He can’t be conceited. He has to be able to allot space in his mind and his heart for her. She needs to be with the guy who asks her about her day. She needs to be with someone who asks her if she’s feeling alright.

 

She needs to be with a man who isn’t afraid to listen to her whenever she’s feeling upset or vulnerable. He doesn’t have to solve all of her problems for her on her behalf. In fact, she doesn’t want that man. All she wants is a guy who is going to empathize with her and tell her that he understands why she feels the way that she feels. She needs to be with someone who is going to try his best to bring a smile to her face whenever she’s feeling down. She needs to be with a man who is going to help relieve her of her stress and anxiety.

She has a lot of pain inside of her. She is scarred and she is emotional. She needs to be with someone who is not intimidated by the demons that she carries within her. She needs someone who sees that she does have her share of baggage, but isn’t afraid to help her get past it.

She needs to be with a man who is able to reassure her that everything is going to turn out fine so as long as they stay together. She needs to be with someone who makes her sure of her own strength; a man who makes her believe in her own capabilities as a human being; a man who inspires her to become the best version of herself. She needs to be with a man of strength and sensitivity.

He should be strong enough to push her and tell her whenever she needs to step up her game. But he should also be sensitive enough to realize that she is just a human being and sometimes, she isn’t going to come through. He has to be someone who is always going to be honest to her about the state of life. He isn’t going to try to pamper her or shield her from the truth. He isn’t going to withhold anything from her. She needs to be with someone who will always tell her things as they are.

But lastly, she needs to be with a guy who is going to stay with her. She needs a man who is going to share in all of her joy and her victories. But he needs to also stick around for her failures and her low points. She needs consistency. She needs structure. She needs someone she can be sure of. She needs a man who loves her unconditionally.

By A for RelationshipRules

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Chloe M.

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