A person with a strong temperament has the immense capability to stand out of the crowd, portraying his singularity. Individualism gives birth to a powerful persona which gives him the potentiality needed to reach the highest point of success and transform himself into a greater human being from within.

A woman who has already built up a vigorous and tenacious personality for herself faces no trouble to forge ahead on the path of her life all alone.
She has secured and creatively maintained and balanced her own world, managing to shower herself with immense love and admiration. She never desires or craves for the love of the others. She hardly needs a life partner to support her throughout. She has accepted her own self and doesn’t take any time to realize that being in a relationship is tough. The reality of this issue is surprisingly serious since humans, nowadays, are so fickle-minded.

No two people can adjust and comprise for a longer time, leave alone promising to commit to each other for a lifetime. A strong, independent woman knows that the trials of being in such a relationship are numerous and she isn’t ready to invest her precious time in all those hassles.

A woman with an assertive individuality gives herself all the freedom and carefreeness. She channels her energy according to her own needs, therefore maintaining a sensible, realistic routine in her life. She has learned to take her own decisions, is determined on staying ‘her own self’ and refrains from comparing herself to the others. A woman who is used to being on her own depends on a life made of self-made rules and regulations while detecting the interference of another person.

For a man to change that, he would have to be someone special—someone real.
Can such a strong-minded woman fall in love with anyone? Yes. She can only fall in love with a man who has a similar, strong, independent personality of his own.

He needs to be special and unique in his own way and stand apart from everyone. He has to be unique in his own way and treat their relationship in the same way. Being a real man doesn’t simply mean promising never to make your woman cry or to flatter her with surprises all the time. Being a real man doesn’t mean that you have to have a strong, muscular body tearing out your shirt or you must look like a handsome hunk. It doesn’t mean that you have to pay her monetary share everytime you hang out, carry her bag or gift her roses daily.

Being a real man takes the courage to be able to cross the boundary of a narrow, confined and stereotypical set of guidelines that every society binds upon us.

To become a life-partner of an independent woman, he has to be brave to treat her specifically in this very conservative society of ours. A real man needs to be real and true in the deepest sense. He should be sensible. Firstly, he should be true to both himself and you. He shouldn’t agree to come in a relationship only because he wants a time passing fling. Because if the woman notices anything unusual, she will won’t think twice before breaking up with him. She is never willing to allow a bitter memory to persist in her life. She will never allow another man to manipulate her because she has already molded herself according to her own needs. A real man should be full of respect for his own girl and love her dearly.

It’s a real man who can withstand the hardest and toughest of circumstances. He has the capability to fight his way out of every hardship and battle, is able to withstand periods of loneliness and pain. At the same time, he is also not hesitant to seek help from others. But he doesn’t need another person to fill the gap in his life.

A real man doesn’t seek love out of boredom.
He is head over heels in love with his girl; that is why he pursues her.

He loves her however she is. He may be an introvert but he never refrains from expanding his own self before her. He is an open book, shares all his emotions, desires and ambitions with her; he lays bare his soul before her. He firmly believes that honesty is the best policy and that for any relationship to progress, the foundation of it should be based on trust and adjustment. He freely admits all his feelings, opinions and doubts before her. If he disagrees with something, he feels free to tell her that and if any argument follows, they collectively try to resolve it with proper reason and logic. But he never questions or doubts her motive. He is happy and content with whatever love and admiration she showers on him. He is also a great listener and can easily connect with her on a deeper level of understanding.

An independent woman with a strong personality is clear and firm on the way she wants to live her life and where she wants to end up in the future. A real man, in order to love her, should also hold a similar thought towards life. They should pledge to live an inseparable life, together with a concrete bond of oneness. Because the only way such a woman can easily accept and adjust to another person in her life is when she can relate to him and find happiness in their intimacy.

A man who has already reached this level of mentality and strength can easily match with a significant other who is equally strong and mature in life. Women who know how to live on their own are much stronger than you can ever imagine. She doesn’t sit for your love, flattery, pity or sympathy. She knows how to get on her own, win over all troubles and come out as a winner. She isn’t waiting for you to text her back; she isn’t waiting for you as usual when you never come to meet her own time. She is not concerned about your whereabouts. She is happy because she trusts you. She never thinks ill of you. But if she finds you indulging in infidelity, she will end this relationship and leave you then and there. Because she is not the one to tolerate an unfaithful man. Reading a book, watching a movie while sipping on hot coffee all alone is what she loves doing best rather than wasting her time with a man who lies, is unsteady and deceitful. So before you take a step ahead to commit to a woman who is resilient and staunchly uncompromising, learn to become a real man. Only then can you enjoy a worthy and long-lasting relationship.

  for TheMindsJournal