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To The Girl Who Settles For A Man Who Doesn’t Deserve Her

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Written by Chloe M.

I totally understand that you are head over heels for him. I do understand how much do you like him. He is handsome, pretty and seems kind when he is with you. It is completely normal how badly you want to spend time with him.

And I don’t blame you for that.

You are the happiest girl in the world in those moments you spend together. But, please, slow down.

All of that shine in your eyes won’t last forever. And don’t tell me he is amazing. Maybe he is. But, I think you are even more.

The thing is, you settle for someone who doesn’t deserve you. The man who can’t make up his mind for you really doesn’t deserve you. The man who doesn’t even know what he wants doesn’t deserve you. If he wants to be with you, he would be. Because like this, it doesn’t make sense.

I know how overwhelmed you feel about this because I have been there. And now, I’m trying to prevent you from being a dummy who will make everything for a man who doesn’t deserve her.

He is pretending he has a tough time to make a decision. Really? Is choosing someone you want to be that difficult? No, it’s not! He is just a liar who is trying to blind you. He is just using you. Because if he likes you, choosing you would be as easy as breathing. He doesn’t have to make such a difficult decision.

He is just leading you on and taking the advantage of you. Don’t fall for his sweet little stories. Please, don’t.

Stop wasting your precious time on him. Stop waiting for him. You see, he already made his mind. His indecision is a decision. You should know by now. But, he was pretending that well. He sold you stories. And he lost you the day he didn’t have the courage to choose you. But, it’s not too late, yet.

You still can prevent yourself from a river of tears. By letting him go, you will get a better opportunity. Because you have so much to offer someone who will try to be the right one. Someone who will come out of nowhere and make you feel happy. Someone who will choose you.

By sticking around you will make yourself feel even more miserable than you feel right now. You are hurting yourself by thinking he is going to change.

Your love can’t change him. The thing is he doesn’t even see your love, because what matters to him the most is himself. There is nothing you can do to change that. He is not ready for a change.

So, why would you change for him? He doesn’t deserve that. You are perfect as you are and you shouldn’t change for anyone but yourself.

You deserve so much more than he can give to you. 

He is the man who doesn’t know what he wants. One moment seems like he would really spend the rest of his life with you, but the next one he gets distracted by something else and you don’t even exist for him. And you don’t need to put up with that.

You deserve so much more. Love is not that complicated. He loves you or doesn’t love you. It’s that simple.

Save yourself from a miserable life with a man like him. You really need to realize that you deserve way better man than he is. A man who makes you deceive by playing hot and cold doesn’t deserve you at all.

So, kick him out of your life. Go out and celebrate life and love, because you will be way better without a man like him. Don’t be the girl who settles for a wrong man.

About the author

Chloe M.