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You Don’t Walk Away When Things Get Hard When You’re In Love

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Written by Naida

When you want to be in a relationship, it demands from you and your partner honesty and carefulness. People don’t choose to get into a relationship so that they break it up right after arguing with a partner. No one who loves partner should leave him, only because he couldn’t stand the drama at the moment. It is not fair if you decide to give up on something meaningful just because your partner didn’t agree with you about something that is not even that important. If you are sad for few days, you don’t have a right to abandon your partner or to give up on your love. How could anyone throw away those things that he put so much effort into creating, only because of one shitty day?

To have a healthy relationship means that you are ready to talk through any problem without blaming your partner. It is not important who made a mistake. It is the love that is important. Both of you are on the same side. So, conversation is the main part of maintaining the best possible connection. You need to listen to your partner and to be able to solve problems which appear in your relationship. You will need to find the compromise in order to save your relationship. Your partner has to explain you his issues or what bothers him, you have to be able to open up yourself to one another. That way you will find a method to improve your relationship, and you will not feel like you are misunderstood. When you know that it’s the time to communicate to your partner, your relationship will be stronger than you can imagine.

Loving someone is not just telling them that occasionally. At the beginning of the relationship, you decide whether it is going to be something meaningful or something temporary. However, real a relationship is possible if you are ready to put an effort in it. You need to sacrifice yourself sometimes. You need to abandon several things in exchange for the love of your partner. There should not be giving up on one another until you tried everything in your power. One mistake doesn’t mean that your relationship is going to end. If both of you make an effort, you will be able to solve whatever you need to make your relationship better and stronger.

It is normal to face many different situations in a relationship. But you shouldn’t accept your partner only when he is happy and satisfied. Partners are supposed to be there for each other in the worst possible situations. Every person needs a support from a close person. It wouldn’t be fair if you decide to leave every time your partner gets sick. People don’t leave those who rely on them.

You are in a relationship. It means that you have someone to share everything with. You two work as a team which includes supporting each other’s wishes and ideas. Neither of you choose what things you are going to support, because you decide at the beginning: either you are in this completely or not at all.

A serious relationship doesn’t have certain rules. How good a relationship is going to be depends on the people who are in it. If they are willing to put in an effort and to be there for each other, they will succeed. But there is one thing for sure: love is not easy. And if you have a tough period in your relationship, don’t give up on your great love. There is definitely a chance to overcome everything that stands in your way. Find the strength from that amount of love that you have for your partner and get through everything together.

Don’t be selfish or uninterested when your partner is low. Show him how great a person he has by his side. Fight against everything that could ruin your beautiful connection. Whatever happens to you, make sure that you are on the same side and that you fight for the exact same thing.

Show your partner that you are his best friend, his passionate lover, and the closest person in his life. Show your partner your love. Don’t abandon him when things get hard. Don’t choose to run away whenever you see that something is threatening you, but show your partner how powerful you are. Show him how hard you try to fix that mess. Be a team; give your best to put your relationship on an enviable level. And never stop believing that you and your partner can make it happen. You can survive no matter what problem comes to you. As time passes by, you will only be stronger and wiser.

 

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