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35 Flirty Questions To Ask a Guy You Like

flirty questions to ask a guy
Written by Nela Baricevic

Let’s be honest, it is not just guys who think of flirty questions to ask a girl they like. Women are thinking about it too. There is nothing wrong with flirty questions to ask a guy you like. This can be so much fun! And it is also a great way to get to know each other better without being too serious. So, here’s a list of 35 flirty questions that you can ask someone you like.

  1. Have I seen you here before? You look so familiar to me. I could swear I have seen you before… but wait, maybe it was in my dreams?
  2. Do you have a girlfriend? Okay, now I may be too curious, but you don’t have to answer me on this one, or you can. It’s all up to you, of course.
  3. How is it that someone like you is still single? Please, don’t look at me like this… just askin’!
  4. How many hearts have you broken already? I w0uld bet hundreds of them, right?
  5. How do you imagine your perfect date? I’m just checking because if you want me to be your valentine, I must know what I can expect. I’m not saying that you’re going to ask me out. I just love to be prepared. NOTE: This one is definitely one of the best flirty questions to ask a guy you like.
  6. What did you think of me when we first met? I wanna know how you felt about me when you first saw me.
  7. Do you believe in fate? (’cause I believe in you… so then, can I call you my fate?) Among all flirty questions to ask a guy this one may be the most romantic, so don’t be shy and use it!
  8. Who is your favorite singer… besides me? LOL, okay. We all know you can’t sing, but it’s not what it’s important at the moment. The point is to make him laugh at your jokes. Also, the point is to make the two of you get to know each other better.
  9. Do you believe in love at first sight? (…just wondering) Don’t tell him if you believe or not. Make him ask you if he wants to know the answer!
  10. What do you think of me? This one is direct, but don’t be afraid to use it. Of course, flirty questions to ask a guy have to be tricky, but they also can be, and sometimes they need to be direct.
  11. What is your favorite part of a day? The answer for which we’re looking for is – the part that I spend with you. Seeing or texting you.
  12. Do I make you smile? Sweet one, but also tells a lot. It tells about him, just as much as about you.
  13. Where would you like us to go? If you don’t ask, you’ll never know. And the answer might surprise you. Positively or negatively, doesn’t matter.
  14. Who would you like to travel the world with? Sure, the right answer is – with you. He knows it too. It’s obvious. But if he answers something else… then you might have a problem.
  15. Am I a good kisser? If you kissed, this answer might tell you a lot. Is he going to be honest? Believe me, you’ll know if he’s telling you the truth.
  16. Am I the kind of girl you take home? This doesn’t mean you want him to take you home! This just means you want to check his thoughts.
  17. Your place or my place? Besides the previous one, this one is more direct! But flirty questions to ask a guy sometimes must be direct.
  18. Do you like the right or left side of the bed? Okay, I’m sure there’s no need to explain this one.
  19. Do you prefer keeping the lights on or off? Sometimes you must ask questions to make him think, “Wow, this girl is so brave!” Because you are, and he needs to know that in time.
  20. If you could ask one celebrity to go on a date with you, who would it be? (Don’t say me… please.) Sure, you’re kidding and he knows it.
  21. What could make you the happiest person in the world? The answer for which we are looking for is – to make you stay with me from now on.
  22. What is the nicest thing someone else has done for you? This one is a bit romantic, but not too much. By using this kind of question, you’ll get to know him better for who he really is.
  23. What is the nicest thing you have done for someone? The same as for previous.
  24. How would you feel if your girlfriend had a guy best friend? This is one of the flirty questions to ask a guy that could help you realize if he is the one.
  25. How would you describe yourself in three words? If he uses the regular adjective like nice, good, and handsome, ask him to be more creative. We are looking for creativity, right?
  26. What kind of music do you like? I know you want to know his taste in music. You don’t wanna end up in a relationship in which you’ll have to listen to music that you don’t like.
  27. Do you prefer a day or a night? No explanation needed.
  28. Why don’t you tell me more about yourself? Interesting one. Asking someone to describe himself is one of the tops between all the flirty questions to ask a guy you like.
  29. Do you prefer going out with friends or staying at home watching movies? By asking this one you’ll get to know if he is ready for a serious relationship or he just wants to have some fun. Serious boys would rather spend time with their girls than with their male friends… Okay, at least most of them.
  30. What is your biggest secret? Ready to ask him to open up for you? I think you are. So, don’t be afraid of the possible rejection.
  31. Who would you want to be tied to for a whole day? Do we have to emphasize that the right answer is – you?
  32. How do you imagine your life in 10 years from now? Sure, he’s probably not going to tell you that he would like to marry you and have a couple of kids, but he might tell that he wants you to be a part of his future, and that’s what we are looking for by asking this question.
  33. What is your biggest turn on? Tricky one, isn’t it? Come on, use it!
  34. What do you wear to bed? You’re just curious. There’s no secret plan besides this.
  35. Do you find me in your dreams? Don’t be surprised if he asks you this one in return. You asked for it and I warned you! Don’t say I didn’t… but let’s get back to the question. If he says, “Yes,” you know you are in right hands! 😉

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Nela Baricevic