Did you ever wonder if your man is cheating on you? But how can you find out? There are some signs that can indicate he is cheating on you. However, every relationship is unique, but some sign are undeniable.
He is always hiding his phone.
He used to use his phone in front of you often, but suddenly he started to leave the room whenever his phone rings. Also, he started to get some late night texts, and started deleting his messages. It may be a sign, but not necessarily. Maybe it is work related or it simply doesn’t concern you.
He is taking care of his look but not for your eyes.
You’ve been together for years and he never paid too much attention to his look. Suddenly he started to dress nicely, put more perfume, shave every morning just to go out without you. But when he does go out with you, he is the same old guy you’ve been dating for years. Ask yourself, does he want to impress you or someone else?
He is going out a lot more without you.
His nights out are very frequent, and he never invites you. Maybe he is seeing someone else or he needs the space. He keeps working late. His work is a priority and that’s okay, but he is spending way too much time at work, more than he used to. Maybe he is not just working…
He is avoiding you.
You may have noticed that your man is suddenly avoiding you when it comes to being intimate or have an accomplice moment. Some men are unfaithful just to prove that they have power over their sex life and others cheat because they like change and prefer someone new. When nothing is going on in the bedroom, something is going on in the relationship.
Your partner is selfish.
If everything is about him and your emotions don’t matter, why would it be weird for him to cheat on you? Selfish people don’t have a problem with infidelity. After all, cheating is a selfish act. If your partner is selfish and doesn’t care about your feelings… well, there is a high probability that he wouldn’t have a problem with cheating.
He is spending a lot of time on social media.
I’m not saying you should start stalking your boyfriend on social media, but just pay a little attention to his behavior on the internet. If he only has sexy girls on Instagram profile and he keeps commenting and liking their photos, he might be looking for your replacement.
He is ashamed of you.
He deleted all your photos, he doesn’t talk about the fact that he is in a relationship with you, and nobody would imagine that he is taken. It might be a sign that he is seeing other women and he doesn’t want to be seen with you.
The two of you are always fighting.
If he is constantly starting a fight even for meaningless reasons, maybe he is trying to get some distance between you. It doesn’t necessarily mean that he is cheating on you, maybe he just doesn’t love you and he wants to break up.
He became a stranger.
After all this time together, you have the feeling that the person you are sharing your life with is nothing less that a stranger. You are no longer in love and sometimes it is hard to admit.
There is nothing more hurtful than infidelity in a relationship. If you are doubting and suspecting that your partner is cheating on you, please don’t lose your dignity. Don’t become the paranoid lady who is stalking her boyfriend. If he is cheating on you, it is not your fault. It’s on him and only him. Walk away from a guy who is a cheater—you deserve so much better than this.
If a guy can’t be faithful, he is not worth fighting for. Also, always remember, love is about trust and respect. If you don’t trust your man, your relationship isn’t healthy, and it takes a lot of hard work to gain trust back and most of the time it isn’t worthy. So be humble, be loved, and don’t let anybody make a fool out of you. You deserve a faithful guy.