I bet it happened to you more than once to find yourself in a relationship that turned out to be a disaster. Then you start to close up for people because you respect and love yourself. You don’t want to let anyone make a fool of you. You started to be cynical and skeptical about the relationship. There is a doubt in everyone and you can’t help yourself. You have some sort of boundary which is very hard to crash. But let me tell you that you need to stop acting like this. What happened to you is in the past, so try to give another chance. If you don’t try, you will never know. You will never have a chance to meet someone if you are closed to the world and people just because of your past. You were with the wrong people and it is not your fault.
If you find someone capable to love you, then try to let him love you. You can’t put a label on every person. Your past experiences were bad, but it’s not yours or your new partner’s fault. Try not to see all those man as the same kind, and give a chance to this guy. See him in a way he shows himself and let him know whether you can accept him and his feelings or you can’t.
Be sure that your thing is right if you can see him making an effort to make you happy and love you. You probably have your dream of a perfect man. If you just for a second see this one as the perfect match, then surely he is.
Try to stop thinking negatively about your love and relationships. Not everyone deserves your love. But this guy is maybe really worth it. You definitely deserve someone great in your life, because you are a great person. Try to figure out what makes you so insecure about love. Try to abandon this feeling because you found a guy who is able to show you all the beauty and great love.
No matter what way is he using, let him show you how beautiful love could be. Let him tell you how much you matter to him, how he is falling for you. Believe him when he is telling you how much you deserve. You are so worth loving. While time passes, make sure that you are not comparing him to your past relationship partners because this one is definitely not like anyone before. Don’t be afraid to fall in love again, make an effort to trust this man. If you see how much he is trying to protect you and to convince you in his love, then why should you be suspicious? There is no need for being worried at all.
He will want to buy you by taking you to many amazing places or buying you small beautiful gifts. Relax and don’t stop him. You both will be happier and more satisfied. When he buys you a present for no reason, he is not trying to buy your attention and love. He is trying to make you the happiest woman in the world. He could never see you as a materialistic person but he falls for you because of so many other reasons.
You can be vulnerable around him. You can definitely relax and have a real feeling. There are no insecurities, and I assure you that this man is not someone who is going to lie to you. He won’t hurt you, so feel free to open up your heart. He is spoiling you, that is for sure. But never let anyone to make you completely dependent on him. You should always be strong and independent.
So once again, don’t let your past failed relationship and experiences stop you from being happy. Your new partner wants to prove himself in the best light.
Never forget how great you are and how much love you deserve. For the first time in your life, you can really trust someone. This guy is absolutely capable to love you and if he wants to, then let him.