How to Emotionally Bond With a Man

Written by Deborah Carbone

Men are often hard to read, and it can be difficult knowing how to approach them emotionally. Are you being too clingy, or too distant? What do they want from you? Are they looking for something long term? Whatever your questions are, the most important thing is that you establish an emotional connection with the man in question. So how do you do this? Here are some good ways of how to emotionally bond with a man.

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    Be serious with your guy

    If you want your man to form an emotional bond, you have to let him know you’re not messing around. If they do something you don’t like, and you laugh it off, they’ll never respect you. You must be willing to talk about the things that matter, and if he won’t do the same back, then it’s likely he’s not looking for anything deeper than a fling. Never patronize your man, but make sure he understands your entire point of view and vice versa.

    But don’t forget to be playful with him too

    Being serious when it matters doesn’t mean you can’t also have a great time together. If you want to know how to emotionally bond with a man, find out how to amuse him. If you can laugh together, you’ve already got one vital thing in your relationship. Being playful also means you should flirt and keep up pretenses, whether you’ve been dating for a week or a year. Never neglect the fun side of the relationship, or you’ll lose the essence of your bond with your man.

    Let him know you care in a range of ways

    It’s not just about telling him you love him over and over again. Be his cheerleader when he plays football with his friends. Support him and help him prepare for a big presentation he has at work. Let him cry on your shoulder, and keep his secrets between the two of you. These acts build trust, and he’ll know he can count on you when his world is upside down. He’ll also know you love him without having to utter a word (though of course, it’s good to hear those three little words from time to time.)

    Don’t be a pushover or allow yourself to be taken for granted

    This may seem like a strange one, but a man often doesn’t know what he has until it’s gone. Make it clear that you’re one of the best things he’s ever had, and never allow him to stray from that thought. Once he sees your worth, the emotional bond will follow, so long as he understands the preciousness of your relationship.

    Give him what he wants in the bedroom

    This doesn’t mean you have to do anything and everything. It simply means that trying your best to please him will show that you care. Physicality is one of the best ways to learn how to emotionally bond with a man. The two come hand in hand, and once you understand his bodily needs, you’ll understand his heart. Rekindle the heat between you in any way you can and make sure the flame stays flickering.

    You’ll never know how to emotionally bond with a man until you know him

    You can dive head first into a relationship and expect to be loved unconditionally, but if you don’t know your partner well enough, it’ll never work. You must make it your mission to know them inside out, and let them get to know you too. The path to a man’s heart is paved via the little things – knowing how he takes his tea, cooking his favourite meal, taking him to his favourite city for his birthday…you name it. Once you know a man, you know his heart, and then you’ll know how to emotionally bond with a man important to you.

    About the author

    Deborah Carbone

    Hi!
    I'm a Life and Relationship Coach with 5 years experience of coaching and training. I work with overwhelmed women guiding them through all kinds of life and career transitions so that they can make big changes in their lives.
    Writing is my passion and I am here to help you through every phase of your life. I hope you'll enjoy.

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