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8 Signs He Is Giving Up On You And Your Relationship

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Written by Lauren Dover

Sometimes, relationships can be tough. You can feel really tired because sometimes there are so many things you have to think about. And also there are so many feelings, and sometimes you don’t really understand all of them. By that time, you can feel really overwhelming. But relationships are not easy, no one tells you that. You wanted to be in a relationship, but you didn’t know that things can be really tough. Sometimes, the price we need to pay for love is worth it, but sometimes it is not worth it at all. And you have a feeling that it is a perfect time to start giving up on your relationship.


    It is all on you, you need to decide if you want it in your life or not. If you really want to go through that, no one can say that you won’t feel tired and exhausted. You need to realize what you want from your relationship and your man, and what you definitely don’t want. When a bad time comes, you can stay in your relationship and try to fix it, or you can just leave. It depends on your feeling. Do you love him enough to fight for your love? Or you don’t like him that much to waste your time.

    But what happens when you choose to fight for your relationship, but the other side just gives up? Maybe he is just too tired and he doesn’t want to be with you anymore. You need to look for signs if your man is giving up on you and your relationship.

    So here are some signs that your man is giving up on you and your relationship.


    He is not emotionally available to you, and it is getting worse with time.


    Your man is not honest with you when it is about his feelings. Constantly you have the feeling that he is hiding something from you. You can’t recognize him anymore. He is not the same guy he was at the beginning of your relationship. It can be a sign that he is giving up on your relationship.


    He stops doing nice things for you, just to make you happy.


    At the beginning of your relationship, he was giving his best to make you happy. But now he is not trying to make you smile. Maybe your happiness is not important to him anymore. If he doesn’t run errands or do nice things for you anymore, maybe he is giving up on you.


    He is hurting you with his criticism.


    When your partner criticizes you it should be done with empathy, sensitivity, and love, of course. But your man just criticizes you to hurt you. This is a really clear sign that there is no love anymore, and that he is giving up on you and your relationship.


    You have a feeling like he doesn’t pay attention to you.


    He used to listen to you before, but now you have a feeling like he is not paying attention to you. Whatever you say it seems like he is not interested. Actually, it looks like all your words goes in through his one ear and they goes right out through the other.


    He stopped expressing his love.


    You can’t remember when was the last time when he said “I love you.” These days it seems like he doesn’t care about you. He is so cold and distant.


    He spends more time away from you, and it is getting worse every day.


    When it is time to be together he always finds something different to do away from you. When you are in the bedroom, he goes into the living room to watch TV.  It is an obvious sign that he is giving up on you and your relationship.


    He frustrates you often and it looks like he doesn’t care at all.


    Almost every day he frustrates you, and it looks like he is doing it on purpose. Maybe he just wants to make you sick of him, and make you to be the one who will leave. If your man is acting like this, then it is a sign that he is giving up on you.


    He needs space and privacy.


    You can’t remember when you two spent a night together or when you went out. Because he is trying to separate himself from you, and he does it very often. It looks like you are not in a relationship anymore, so it is a clear sign that he is giving up on you and your relationship.

    8 Signs He Is Giving Up On You And Your Relationship

    About the author

    Lauren Dover

    My name is Lauren. I am writer by day and hopeless romantic by night. I live my life with a simple motto. "What can I do for you?". I strive to help readers gain an understanding of intense emotions, like heartbreak and getting through it. I think together we have the ability to overcome the challenges life throws our way and even in those times you hit rock bottom, I see it as a wonderful platform to begin again.