It is like some kind of torture if you can’t find a way to get over your partner even though you are trying. You keep asking yourself could you do anything to save your relationship which is not something healthy or possible to save. The thing is, when it comes to a situation where you think about breaking up, something is seriously wrong. Then you think about destiny. You know that if it was meant to be with him, it would have been.
YOU CAN’T FORCE A PERSON TO FEEL SOMETHING FOR YOU.
There is no chance to force anyone to love you. You can try to win their attention by showing yourself in your best light. But don’t expect or wish to be with someone for whom you don’t feel as much love as you deserve.
IT IS TERRIBLE IF YOU BECOME AWARE LATE.
When you first met your partner, you fall in love. He was gorgeous, funny, and smart. He knew how to make you happy. Your relationship seemed to be the one that has no end. There was no one but him you could imagine by your side. But, suddenly you realized whole new light of your relationship. Something went wrong and made you think completely different. You became aware of how important you are for yourself. He doesn’t respect you and you felt it.
YOU HEAR ALL THOSE WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT.
After a break up, you need to face friends and people who will tell you exactly the same sentences. You hear that you are much better than him, that your pain will pass, and that time will heal you. To be honest, all of these usual phrases are actually truth.
YOU GAVE YOUR BEST.
You really did try everything in your power to save your connection. Yet, every night you start to think about break up all over again. Don’t be suspicious about your actions in the past, because it was not up to you. You gave your best and that is the only truth.
DON’T BELIEVE IN SECOND CHANCES.
They don’t either exist or if they do, they are very rare. Don’t even think of sending him a lovely message in order to get him back in your life. You are already a little screwed up; don’t make your life even more complicated.
TRY TO REMEMBER SOME TIMES THAT HAVE NO VALUE.
After any break up, you start thinking about those lovely moments that you two had together. You remember all those kisses and late night cuddling. On the other side, there were a lot of crappy things in your relationship. After all you two broke up not because sweet things you loved about each other, but because these problems that you had. The point is, don’t deceive yourself. Think about your broken relationship wisely and get over him.
YOU HAVE YOUR FRIENDS WHO ARE SUPPOSED TO BE HONEST.
You need to hear the truth about your ex-boyfriend. Your friends are welcome in these situations because in that way you will open up your eyes. They need to convince you that he is not good enough to date you. Let them help you with getting over it, because that is what friends do.
YOU DON’T NEED SO MANY COMPLICATIONS.
Relationships and dating should be easy and nice. If you need to have your partner one day, but you don’t like his presence another day, isn’t it complicated? You don’t need that in your life. Have a rest for a while and be aware that you deserve a better man.
YOU HAVE MANY QUESTIONS AND THAT IS FINE.
Don’t blame yourself if you have many questions and if you don’t have answers or solutions. You don’t understand why you are happier alone apropos without him. Maybe you need to fall in love again in order to get answers. Just wait and the right one will show up.
YOU ARE OUT OF OPTIONS.
Once you survived a break up, don’t get back. Don’t send him messages or cry for him. Break up was the best option. Move on with your life and accept that you will find someone when the time comes.