He Doesn’t Love You Enough If He Doesn’t Give You These 10 Things

He doesn't love you enough

At the beginning of the relationship, you ask yourself does your partner love you and how much? That is what most women ask themselves. If your boyfriend is able to give you that amount of love and honesty that you need and if he supports you in any way, that is what makes him different from others. The more love you have from him, the more secure you are.

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    Many girls think that there are some things which man definitely should do for them. Otherwise, he doesn’t love you enough if he doesn’t give you these things, and perhaps you need to consider finding someone who will. So, here are 10 things man should do.

    He calls you the prettiest girl

    If he finds you attractive and if you are beautiful in his eyes, you need to hear that. He should keep telling you how beautiful you are in any way. He could tell you that you are sexy or amazing, no matter. The point is that your self-respect grows anytime he tells you something sweet. Also, in that way, you know how much you mean to him. It’s obvious that he has a need to assure you in his love for you.

    There is, however, no need that he tells you every day of how beautiful you are because it may be boring for you. But, if he means it, he would tell you regularly.

    The more mystified you are, the more he is interested

    Men have a need to get to know girls who are kind of mystified. They continuously search for answers from mysterious girls.

    He acts like a real gentleman

    He opens the door for you and he doesn’t find that as something that you should be thankful for. You are proud of your gentleman and his behavior no matter where you two show up. It is very nice if a woman has a guy who shows her that he is putting an effort in their relationship by doing these simple sweet gestures.

    Again, this nice gesture he does sometimes doesn’t have to mean that he needs to do that every day. Don’t expect him to open up the door for you every time you get out or in the house.

    He believes in you and he is your support

    Your partner should be your support in any decision you make about your future, job, or life. If he doesn’t agree with some of your ideas, he would tell you but with good explanation. He is the one who you talk to, whenever you are insecure in your decisions.

    If he is not interested in your life or your future plans, in other words, you don’t feel like having him by your side, probably it’s time to either talk to him or let him go.

    He likes to hang out with you and your important people

    Maybe he doesn’t like all of them, but he doesn’t ignore you when you want him to go out with you and your squad. That is not bad, people are different and perhaps you don’t like his friends either. It is not fair if he looks at that night out like something he has to do, because it turns out like you forced him. It is nice if he respects your narrow circle of friends and family and you know how to value that gesture.

    You need to expect that he would want from you to meet his folks and if you are not ready, don’t be the mad one.

    He is trying to have good communication with your family

    If he doesn’t want to have a dinner at your house with your parents or siblings, he is not ready for something more serious. It is not cool if he avoids your family every time you ask him to join you. A serious relationship is when both of you are ready to meet each other’s family or important people.

    If he doesn’t have a problem at birthday parties where every family member shows up, you need to value that. His willingness to meet them is proof of how much he loves you. He will make an effort to show himself in front of your family in order to make them like him.

    He leaves you to make a decision of places to go to

    No matter what comes to your mind, he will try to make your wish come true. He wants to visit new restaurants with you, he loves when you come to him all excited about new coffee shop or pub you want to show him.

    The point is that he likes you happy and satisfied by being in a relationship with him.

    He is intimate with you and loves cuddling

    Could you be happier for having a man like this? He likes to hug you every minute, he loves when you are smiling because he kissed you, so he does it often. Your love is growing and flourishes. He couldn’t get enough of you and that is very important. If he can be around you without physical contact for days, he doesn’t love you enough or you have some problems. Try to find out what it is before it’s too late.

    You argue with him almost every day

    That is very normal. It means that you care that much that you need to argue all over again. If you don’t want to have a fight, it probably means you would likely stay calm in order to avoid any conversation or arguing.

    Tough conversations are fine and they help you in maintaining a healthy relationship.

    Respect as the most important part

    Don’t ever let your partner to be abusive or disrespectful. Those guys are assholes and they value neither you nor your feelings. It is not love and it is never going to be one.

    Try to let him go instead of trying to fix the unfixable.

    Loving someone means having respect for him and his decisions. Disrespectful people are hard to connect to.

    These simple gestures, as we said, will only straighten your bond. Man would like to make happy a woman who loves him. If he constantly wants to prove his love, better be thankful for having such a great man in your life.

     

    About the author

    Kirsten Blackwood

    A mental health writer and advocate. Currently I write about depression. My work has always been centered around health as I previously worked at a variety of healthcare-focused agencies. I wanted to help people who were struggling with an illness or disability, but often times didn’t feel the work I was doing was providing the right voice to the people I was trying to help. Here, I can connect to you in your journey by encouraging you to share the good, the bad, and moments in-between.

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