50 Little Reminders Every Woman Needs To Hear

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Written by Aveline

Women tend to forget their real worth a lot. We worry about wrong things and let others get to us. We get so immersed in our day-to-day life, in our relationships with others, in giving our best to them, that we fail to remember what we’re all about. And that is why it is important we are reminded of it.

Next time you are in need of something to jog your memory, here is a list of 50 little reminders all of us need to hear at least once in a while.

So listen up girls, whether you’re single or not.

  1. If you’re unhappy with something or someone in your life, don’t let it drag out. Do something about it.
  2. Sticking up for yourself and demanding what you deserve, even when it means putting others to the side sometimes, is not selfish.
  3. Never do anything because everyone else is doing it.
  4. Don’t forget that things can look scarier than they really are.
  5. Do not hesitate to ask for help.
  6. No person in this world can achieve everything, so don’t pressure yourself.
  7. Every now and then, take a break and gather yourself. Then keep going.
  8. Crying when you feel like you can’t go on is okay.
  9. Breaking under pressure is okay.
  10. Don’t always be so hard on yourself.
  11. What is meant to be yours will be yours.
  12. Believe that you are where you need to be in the moment.
  13. Also, there is no deadline on finding love.
  14. There is no right time to be in love.
  15. Finding true love is a process. Don’t rush it or you will make a wrong choice.
  16. So what if you’re still not married. There are other things to do with your life that might be more amazing than marriage.
  17. If you haven’t already, you will find the one for you. He just might not be there yet.
  18. It is hard to lose love. But it’s better to have it and lose it, than to never feel it at all.
  19. Never think of yourself as impossible to love. You might have issues and baggage, but everyone does. That doesn’t make you unlovable.
  20. Don’t regret lost friendships. If they were only there when it was good, they weren’t real friends.
  21. When you get rejected or fail once, don’t let it get to you or make you give up. Instead, try harder, out of spite.
  22. If others are bringing you down, it’s not because there is something wrong with you, it’s because there’s something wrong with them.
  23. Food is better than guys anyways.
  24. Everyone is not geting married. It just seems like it because you feel the pressure to get there yourself. Take your time.
  25. You are not required to have a partner, children, marriage or anything like that, before a certain age. You do it when and if you’re ready.
  26. Being on your own is not a sign there is something wrong with you, it’s a chance to experience more while only answering to yourself.
  27. It’s not a bad thing to be single.
  28. You have the right to choose anything you do with your body, especially to refuse something you don’t want to do.
  29. You have the right to sleep with whomever you want.
  30. Don’t let bad people bring you down. It’s not your fault. They will say bad things anyway.
  31. Owning up to your mistakes matters, it is what brings respect of others.
  32. You are allowed to make mistakes and wrong decisions.
  33. You are your best support, so give yourself some credit.
  34. You matter.
  35. You don’t have to prove your beauty to anyone, but at the same time you don’t have to justify when you try to make yourself more beautiful.
  36. You are beautiful.
  37. Don’t beat yourself up about things in life that you have no control over.
  38. You can’t force love to happen to you.
  39. It’s not wise to rush things that will be the defining points of your life.
  40. You might be getting impatient, but something important awaits for you. You will understand it when it happens.
  41. Don’t ever forget that you are loved, even if you haven’t found ”the love” yet.
  42. If you feel the connection with someone who is not your type, but seems amazing, don’t miss out. Can’t hurt to try.
  43. Don’t forget that, as amazing as they are, a partner and a relationship should not define you or be the sole source of your happiness.
  44. You are doing great as a single woman.
  45. And it’s actually great because, besides giving you time to enjoy your life by yourself, it gives you time to get yourself in shape for that wedding dress of your dreams.
  46. Don’t forget to congratulate yourself for being successfully self-sufficient all this time.
  47. Don’t always apologize. Sometimes you need to own it, if it was the right thing to do.
  48. Don’t let social media make you feel bad about your looks or your life. Nothing is ever as good as it is presented online.
  49. You don’t have to justify your beliefs. You don’t owe it to anyone.
  50. Finally, remember that bucket list of yours? Don’t let it go to waste, remind yourself to fulfill all the things possible from it. Things that you always dreamt about. Because taking care, and making yourself happy first, is the one thing you should never forget.

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