Through the years, almost all of us have formed our own idea of love. Maybe it is because of movies, books, or relationships we had before. We are sure that we are able to recognize love the second it shows up. Maybe some of us actually can. But love is not always coming when we are wanting it to. And the truth is that love is not always explainable. We need to remember that love is not when you have to force him to stay with you. Love is when leaving is not even one of the options, through good and bad.
Each of us want a healthy and stable relationship. We know how our guy of imagination looks like, and we are waiting for him. But sometimes we are not lucky, and luck is not on our side. Almost all of us who want perfection end up disappointed. And there are many, many women who believe that their man is perfect and he would never break their heart. But unfortunately, sometimes that man is not even close to perfection, and they end up broken.
Men and women are different. Women have their interests, and men have different interests as compared to women. Sometimes they need their own time, their break from everything, and they just want to be alone. It is hard to understand, but sometimes this happens to men.
Truth is that women are more emotional than men. They are not afraid and ashamed to show their feelings. But men sometimes actually are ashamed and afraid, not all of them, of course. Women love drama, there is so much emotional drama, and men don’t like it. Sometimes they just want to escape from all that drama.
When a man wants a break in the relationship, it is probably better to let your man.
Because if you want to force him to stay, is there even word about love? Women may think that they are just tired of them and everything, that they actually got sick of her, sometimes it is true, and sometimes it is not true. If he wants to leave, maybe he is not just the right one. Throughout the relationship you may think that you are meant to be together, you both are compatible, but that compatibility with time has gone. Don’t force him to stay if he doesn’t want to be with you.
Why force him to stay, if he doesn’t want to be with you?
If your man asks you for a break, maybe he needs it, and maybe you should give it to him. Once when he leaves, you will realize that needed to happen, and that you are not meant to be together. If it happens, you should worry about yourself, and be there for yourself, because you are the most important person. Not him, not anyone else, but you. There is no need to lock yourself in room, get depressed, cry a river. Life isn’t ended, there is life after him too. Just give yourself a chance. You have to be realistic, and start living your life in the best way you know.
There are things that you can do for yourself after your traumatic experience. Remember that you are the only one who can help you, and who can take care of you, not him, not anyone else.
Start believing that everything happened for a reason, and for the best.
The universe has many plans for us. You might think that what happened to you is the biggest tragedy, but you don’t have to think that way. Make yourself believe that this happened for the best, and time will show it. Things are going to be much better, so there is no time to be sad. All that happened to you may be painful and emotionally torturous, but things that are coming are much better.
Do some relaxing exercises.
Try meditation, it will help you to relax and to forget all your sadness. It will help you to stay connected with your soul. And you will realize that you have bigger purpose than all that things that happened to you. You should try yoga, it will help you to have good muscles, but also it will fix your mood. And all relaxing exercises will make you emotionally and physically better.
Start doing things that you love and that make you happy.
You should keep busy yourself, just to distract yourself from everything that happened. Travel, go shopping, read as many books as you can. Actually, you are allowed to do all things that you love and that make you happy.
Spend time with your family and friends and laugh it all out.
You know that they say that laughter is the best medicine. So go out, spend some time with your friends, laugh it all out. And you will be better. Don’t cry, don’t be sad, this is your victory. So keep laughing and be happy. Everything will be okay. There is no need to be depressed. So, darling, hang out with your loved ones and laugh, laugh as much as you can.