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17 Signs That Tell You It’s The Right Time For You To Get Married

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Written by Peggysue

It’s The Right Time For You To Get Married

You are not holding grudges against him.

You know that you are going to be together for many, many years. So you understand that you have to be able to let things go. Whenever something is bothering you, you know that you can tell him, even if some of those things sound silly or not funny at all. Actually, you know that he is there for you and that he understands you.

There is nothing that you are missing out because you are sure that you already have all in him.

All your friends’ stories about dating don’t make you feel like you are missing out on something. You are happy about your relationship, and there is nothing that is bothering you.

Both of you have other close people in your lives.

You have other friends you can count on, and he has other close people in his life as well. Both of you understand that you need an outside support system. So this is a clear sign that you are ready to get married.

Now is not all about you, you understand it, and you are okay with that.

You understand the real meaning of compromise. And also you understand that you are not alone and that there is him in your life. Because he is already a big part of your life, you understand that you have to take his ideas, tastes, etc. into consideration. And he understands all of it too.

You often think about engagement rings and notice them on other people.

You are not obsessed with engagement rings, but they just catch your eye more often than usually.

Whenever you think about the future, you see yourself with him.

You know that you want him to be a part of your future, and you are looking forward to it. Actually, because of this you know it is the right time for you to get married. And you just can’t imagine your life without him.

You know what you are looking for in him.

You know all values and traits that are important to you. He is just the type of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with, and there is no doubt about that. You can be sure that it is the right time to get married, because you already found your “the right one.”

You feel good about yourself, not just in relation to your partner.

Before him you were just fine and okay on your own. But you would just prefer to have him on your side.

You can talk openly with him about money.

When it is about money, you can be totally honest with him. Your finances are not a taboo topic. Both of you trust each other, and it is a really good sign.

You would still marry him, even if you could not have the wedding of your dreams.

You just want to be with him. The wedding dress, flowers, and dance floor are irrelevant only because of him. He is more important than the wedding of your dreams.

More than one time you talked about getting married.

You already had conversations with him about a wedding, and it not a foreign subject. Both of you understand the fact that you want to be together forever.

When you get good news, you call him first.

You don’t even call your mom first, you call him. That says a lot.

Your emotions are tied to his.

Whenever he is upset, you become upset, and vice versa. Also, when he is happy you are happy, when you are happy he is happy too.

You can talk with him about your fears and insecurities.

He already knows all your flaws, all your fears and insecurities. And he still loves you, even when you are a total mess. And you are sure that he will be beside you no matter what.

You are on the same page when it is about children.

You are not planning kids yet, but you have talked about it. And you know that you are on the same page when it is about children.

You don’t think about your past relationships.

There is no desire to go back to any of your past relationships. There is no place for them in your present, and you are actually much happier now than then.

You trust him, and you are not worried what is he doing when you are not around.

There is no need for jealousy because you trust him completely. You are not worried when he is hanging out with his friends because of trust.

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