After numerous relationship failures and wrong guys, finding the right guy may seem as mission impossible. But when he eventually comes, this man will make you realize why none of your previous relationships didn’t work, because he will show you what true love really means and what a committed relationship should look like. You will understand why all of your heartbreaks happened—it was because they all led you to him. He will improve your life and mental health in more than one way, but what is most important, he will teach you some valuable life lessons. Even if it happens that you breakup with this guy after some time, the things he’ll make you understand will be permanently marked in you.
Self-Love and Self-Respect
The most important lesson you will learn while in a relationship with the right guy is to love and respect yourself. The right guy will improve your self-esteem because he will only see the best in you and, therefore, will help you see yourself in the same light. The right guy will always push you forward and inspire you to shine, without trying to change you. Next to him, you will become the best possible version of yourself—someone you never knew you could be. He will show you your true value and you will learn the importance of self-care. Him believing in you at all times will make you stronger and braver and will help you see how much you are capable of.
What You Deserve
When you finally meet the right guy, it will be clear for you how wrong your past relationships actually were. You will see that you deserve to be treated with love and respect. Even if you breakup with this guy, you will learn to never be with someone who doesn’t deserve you and who doesn’t fit your standards. You will always know how to recognize true love. What is even more important, you will be able to recognize guys who are not worth fighting for. Once you have a guy who loves and appreciates you in every sense, you will never allow yourself to settle for anything less.
How To Be Happy
Although the perception of happiness is different for everyone and you shouldn’t allow a man to complete you, when you enter a relationship with the right guy, you will learn how to be happy. A healthy relationship should bring you comfort and satisfaction. When you love and are loved by the right person, every worry seems as less important and easy to handle. When you know there is someone who has your back, no matter what, you feel more relaxed and your stress level gets reduced. The right guy will teach you how to enjoy little things and will help you live your life to the fullest.
Action is what matters
The wrong guy can tell you all the right things, but will rarely confirm his words with deeds. Although we all enjoy hearing compliments and beautiful words, they actually don’t mean much. Sometimes we believe in those words and wait for them to come to life, but it never happens. With the right guy, everything is different. In contrast to the wrong guy, the right guy will never say what he doesn’t mean and will always do his best to keep his promises. With him, you will learn that there are no excuses. When someone truly wants to be with you, he will prove it with his actions and will do even the impossible just to be with you. He will teach you not to believe in empty words.
The type of guys you like
When you are in a relationship with the right guy, you will finally get a chance to see the type of guy you like, are comfortable around, and are compatible with. While you date the wrong guys, you realize what you don’t want from a man, and what type to avoid—but when you find the right one, you will know what kind of guy suits you the best. You get a better idea of how a mature and caring man behaves like and you know exactly what to look for.