Heartbreak Life

To The Girl Who’s Trying So Hard

Written by Chloe M.

I know you are trying. But no matter how much you try, it seems like nothing’s going right. I know your mind is racing even when your physical body may stop. I know. You are trying so hard.

I know you gave your all. You gave your heart and soul, but it seems the universe doesn’t reciprocate with you. You are baffled and you can’t understand. And even if you’re trying so hard, you can’t find an explanation.

You are not in trouble. It’s not about anything bad.

I want to talk with you and be by your side holding your hands tightly. Because you are a beautiful and strong person. I want you to be inspired and I want you to be strong as you already are.

I want you to rest. You are too exhausted. You are doing your best day after day and you’re giving it your all. I know you want to change the world and you’re trying to make a difference. You don’t waste any bit of your life.

But it’s not your fault. You care about the people you love and the people who love you because you have a big, warm heart. And you just want to make them happy.

You need to understand that every human makes mistakes. That’s normal. I’m pretty sure that you will ever find someone who is perfect, someone who hasn’t made any mistakes. You need to understand there isn’t a perfect person who doesn’t mess up.

It’s okay to stop and look around you. It’s okay to admit defeat. You are too strong to surrender, but you need to read this:

You are too exhausted because you overthink and analyze everything. It gets too hard to live day after day giving your best, and it’s not only physical exhaustion you feel but it’s also exhaustion of your mind. You can’t stop worrying.

What makes you even more exhausted is that you doubt yourself every single day. You don’t even know what you’re doing. But let me make it clear: doing something is better than nothing. Am I right?

Buzzing around is not getting you anywhere, because it’s making you tired. It won’t get you to where you want to be and you will burn out.

You need to find joy for yourself, you can’t always make plans for the future.

You’re trying to make everyone happy. And you’re trying to live happily and wisely. But I want you to know that you’re already doing great and I’m very proud of you. You don’t have to do it all now. You have so much time.

I would love to see you slow down and relax. You need to take a break, just to catch your breath, just to clear your head. You need to love yourself first.

I would love to see you live by yourself, not by patterns. You need to balance your life, you can’t work all the time and have no fun. Don’t be hard on yourself. Don’t ever let the world turn your heart bitter and cold. And don’t ever stop caring.

Darling, you are going to do great things. I know it. Celebrate your life, your victories, and your accomplishments. Learn from mistakes, don’t think about them as a failure. You’re going to make progress, it just needs some time.

Love wholly, truly, and honestly. The universe will love you the same back.

Everything will be okay, trust me.

I’m praying for you, always.


About the author

Chloe M.