You’ve all heard that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. Even if you don’t understand this statement, the bottom line is that we differ in many ways. One of the ways we are different is that we don’t consider the same stuff as equally important. While there are things that are of crucial importance for women, those things can be totally irrelevant and even foolish for men. Many women tend to invade their boyfriend’s privacy and ask questions that have obvious answers, which annoys their partners and make them want to run away. Here are the questions you should never ask your boyfriend if you want a calm, healthy relationship and if you don’t want to appear boring.
Do you love me?
We all have the tendency to ask this question of our boyfriends a little too often and I think this is the question that annoys men the most. He probably wouldn’t be with you if he didn’t love you. You will probably always get the same answer, so why do you repeat this question constantly? Besides, what is the point of asking? If you don’t feel that he is showing you enough love and affection, what can one “I love you” resolve?
How much do you love me?
This is similar to the previous question. The only difference here is you know he loves you but you need his constant approval. You are expecting him to make a romantic declaration of his love towards you, but are forgetting that many men don’t like to and don’t know how to verbalize their emotions. The only thing you will accomplish with this question is that he feels annoyed by the fact that you constantly need him to tell you how much he loves you.
When are we going to marry?
The moment you ask this question, your boyfriend will feel pressured and will have the urge to run away, even if he planned on proposing to you. Besides, it only makes you appear desperate. It’s okay if you want to settle down and think it’s time for you two to marry, but then you can have an adult conversation regarding this topic. If you feel he is not ready for the next step, accept it or leave him, just don’t pressure him. You don’t want to know that somebody proposed to you just because you insisted on it, do you?
Do you watch porn?
Yes, he does. Every man does and you will just have to deal with it. You are probably jealous because he is watching other girls, even if you know those are paid actresses, but watching porn is in their blood and you can’t do anything about it. He may try to lie to you and tell you that he doesn’t watch it, but trust me, he is lying. It doesn’t mean that you don’t please him in bed and it shouldn’t effect on your self-esteem.
Did you love your ex-girlfriend more than me?
He is in a relationship with you now and that is the only thing that should matter. Don’t go through his past relationships. There is no need for you to be masochistic and ask him about his previous girlfriends. If it was meant to last, it would have lasted. He chose to leave that in the past, so why should you bring it up? You wouldn’t like him asking you the same question, would you? Focus on your relationship and don’t tackle other irrelevant issues.
If you have to choose between me and your mother, what would you do?
Okay, no woman wants to be involved with a mamma’s boy. But you can’t be jealous of his mother, and by asking this question, jealousy is exactly what you are showing. What do you expect him to tell you? He loves you and he loves his mother. The emotions he has towards both of you are completely different and have nothing in common. Remember, she was there for him his entire life and you can never make him choose between the two of you, even hypothetically. The only thing you can cause with this question is an unnecessary argument.