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Date A Person You Don’t Have To Impress

date a person you don't have to impress
Written by Peggysue

You need to date someone you don’t have to impress, because why you should be with someone who you have to impress constantly?

The best relationships are the ones where neither partner feels like they need to impress each other. Date a person with whom you can be yourself, that is the most important thing. Date a person you don’t have to impress.

You should date a person who will understand you and with whom you can be honest. Someone who doesn’t make you want to lie or something like that. Date someone who will understand you completely, who will not laugh at your secrets, fears, and flaws. You should date someone with whom you can talk about everything, someone who will listen to you without judging. Someone who understands your mistakes, and who understands that everyone make mistakes.

Date a person who will understand that you have bad days, that you are in a bad mood, someone who will still be there for you.

Someone who supports you through everything, in the good and bad times. You should date someone who will not ask you to change, because they will love you just the way you are. Date someone who will think that you are still an amazing person even when you have bad days and when you are in a bad mood.

Person with whom you can be silly is the person you should date. Date someone who is making you happy, and who understand your jokes. Someone who embraces your silly side. You should date someone with whom you can laugh and laugh, someone who makes you cry with laughter. And definitely date someone who can put a smile on your face even when you are in a bad mood.

Date a person who will not care about your reputation, a person that doesn’t worry about what others think.

Date someone who doesn’t care about anything but you, someone who is grateful to have you, and who doesn’t care about your status. You should date someone who will not look at you like you are a trophy, and who doesn’t think of people as trophies.

Date someone who will always think that you look beautiful, even when you don’t find yourself beautiful. Someone who tell you that you are the most beautiful person in the entire world. You should date someone who will not expect you to make an effort with your appearance. Someone who will tell you on a daily basis that you look beautiful. And definitely date someone who will not compare you to others, just to make you feel less attractive.

Date someone who will accept you for who you are, who accepts you just the way you are.

Someone who will love every part of you, even your flaws. You should date someone who doesn’t want to change you, someone who will tell you that you are perfect as you are.

Date a person who understands you, who will not judge you, someone who is ready to love you because of you. Someone who will not try to make you different. You should date someone who makes you a better person. And you should date someone who you will not have to impress ever. Date someone who doesn’t play games with you, who knows what real love looks like, someone with whom you can be yourself.

“Try to please or impress everyone and you’ll fail the person that’s most important; YOU. Everyone won’t think you’re funny, smart or that you deserve that promotion. Some will say you are not a good parent, sibling, spouse, partner, friend or child. Just be the best person possible. If you truly love who you are other’s opinions won’t even matter.”

― Carlos Wallace, Life Is Not Complicated-You Are

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