There is no relationship without love. Love is the most important thing in a relationship and you have to cherish it all the time in order to keep it alive. If you are sure that you want to spend the rest of your life with your significant one, then cherishing the love in your relationship shouldn’t be a problem. However, love is sometimes not easy. It takes a lot of effort and time in order to keep it alive.
Every relationship is made of physical and emotional components; therefore it can be a little hard to balance it all out sometimes. But it is important not to give up if you really love someone. Love is sometimes a paradox and hard to understand but it is the most valuable thing we can ever have in our life. Although sometimes it may seem like it will drive you crazy, it also has the power to make you the happiest person in the world. Love is rarely like they present it in the movies, so our expectations are too high sometimes.
Love can hurt a lot sometimes and maybe you will fall in love with someone that doesn’t share the same feelings. It is very normal if it hurts like hell, too. It may seem like your whole world is falling apart, but it is really not. Feelings come and feelings go, just like everything else in this life. It is very important not to give up on love. Never give up on love. This world is in desperate need of love, even if it hurts sometimes. You should always take a chance on love, you will either end up being really happy with someone you love or you will learn a new lesson. There is nothing wrong with learning something new here and there, right?
Sometimes, love will require a compromise. Here and there you will have to let go of something in order to get something even better. Compromise only happens when both of you let go of something you love in order to end up with something both of you will enjoy together. Everything else is not fair. Do not change who you are for anyone. If you think someone will fall in love with you if you change who you are and if you play by their rules – that is just wrong. Never do that, you will end up being miserable, and most importantly, alone. If someone wants to be with you, that person should love you for who you are. That person should love every single part of you and that goes both ways.
If you think love means you have to give up something, anything you really love, you couldn’t be more wrong. Love means finding someone who will make you genuinely happy and good you yourself. If you really like someone but you have to beg them for their attention, you should get out of that relationship. You should do that because nothing good will come out of that and you will be the one who will end up feeling miserable.
You should be able to be yourself in a relationship; a relationship should feel good. If someone treats you badly or wants you to change a certain part of who you are, then that person is not right for you. That person will never be right for you. There is nothing wrong if you find someone that wants you to change for the better and to become the best version of yourself. It is ok if someone wants to help you and if someone sees the potential in you. But it is never ever ok if someone wants you to become a whole other person.
If you ever reach that point that you have to beg someone to stay with you, you need to be the one who will walk away. If someone doesn’t want to be with you, let them go. You always have to love and respect yourself first. If you don’t do that, no one else will. It is very important for you to save your dignity. Never beg anyone for anything, especially not for love. Never beg for love. You can’t make someone love you and if that person wants you to change in order to be good for him or her, you need to be the bigger person and that person go. That is the only way you and that person will be happy. If it wasn’t meant to be, it wasn’t meant to be. Believe in love and true love will find you eventually.