Cheating is one of the worst things that can happen in one relationship. For me, there is no way to stay in a relationship after cheating. Because he chose to cheat. It’s his decision. And I’m not the girl who will forgive something like that, no matter how much I love him. And if you are one of the girls who was cheated on, keep reading.
Don’t ever wish to be like those women. You are much more than that. They don’t need love, they need fun. And you are not like them, at all. You deserve to be loved and you deserve real love.
After all that drama, after your leaving, don’t look for him in other guys. I know you loved him, but you don’t need someone like him. There are a lot of men who are better than him in every sense.
Maybe you lost many things that you had with him, but that’s no reason to be sad. You need to be happy because there are many, many things in this world that will make you happy. It’s his loss, not your darling. He did it because he wanted it. There’s no excuse for cheating. He wasn’t ready to love and live with a woman who is smart and beautiful. Yes, you are all of it. You are smart, beautiful, independent, and everything he will never be. Just smile, and enjoy in your life. You don’t need that piece of shit to be happy.
There are a lot of people who love you. They will be there for you no matter what. Just allow them to be there with you. Remember, you are not alone in this. You have your friends, your family.
Keep doing things that make you happy, have fun, go out. Do whatever you want. Just please, don’t cry over that dumbass. Instead of crying, write your feelings on the paper. Write your emotional journal, it’s much better than crying. Or just punch your pillow, throw out the anger and sorrow from yourself.
Don’t blame yourself for what happened. It’s all his fault, he chose to cheat on you. You couldn’t do anything to prevent it. Remeber, he chose to cheat. Nobody forced him. It was his decision.
Maybe he broke your wings, but you will fix them by the time, you will be able to fly again. I promise you will.
Don’t allow his infidelity to kill you, to put a point on your life. Maybe you loved him, and you still love him, but he never loved you. Because you don’t cheat on the one you love. As soon as you agree with this, it will be easier for you. Say aloud ‘he never loved me, it’s his loss, not mine, I will be fine’. Keep saying it, until you believe it. And I promise you will be fine. You will find another love, you will find the one. And he will not look like that piece of shit, not at all. He will be the perfect for you. Just be patient, one broken heart doesn’t mean the end of the world. I know it hurt, but it will pass. Everything will pass. I promise.
Please, be happy, smile, enjoy, let love to find you. After days of rain, the sun will come. You will see. Just wait.