Love isn’t supposed to be tricky. But most relationships are full of mind games and manipulation. One person is put in a position of power and turn the other into a victim.
It’s messed up, it’s crazy but it happens all the time.
It’s hard to see your partner’s motives for what they are. They are buried deep in excuses and made-up reasons for they act the way they do.
Your relationship isn’t worth all the insanity you’re putting up with.
A lot of manipulation techniques are hard to decipher. But if your partner ever threatens to leave the relationship, you better show them the effing door. This raises the red flag high.
You want from relationship to grow and become a better people. You deserve someone who is willing to work because a relationship requires work if you want to make it last.
When people threaten to leave, they aren’t serious, they just use it as a test to see will you fight for them. But when you are with the mature person in a relationship no games are needed to test their affections, no pop quizzes to measure their love for you. When you are in a real relationship you know how the other person feels.
A sign of immaturity is using threats, also you might be stuck in a potentially toxic relationship.
It’s the best to exit if you find yourself in that situation. Because you don’t deserve someone who threatens you that way.
A man who threatens to leave is manipulating you, let him go.
You deserve someone better. You deserve someone who is willing to fight for you. And for who you’re willing to fight.
You deserve someone who would work on your problems and talk it out.
That is someone who is worth waiting for.