Confidence has become a crucial part of all types of healthy relationships.
Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities in men and women alike, because we never actively search for an insecure partner.
Women who know what they deserve in a relationship will never settle for less and they will let you know that.
Confident women are sometimes hard to understand as they can quite easily confuse a man with their attitude and their charm.
Because of that, there are a few things every man should know before dating a confident woman.
1. She is very communicative
Confident women don’t like the silent treatment, nor do they like to hide things from you.
A confident woman will always be very straightforward with you and you won’t ever have to overthink what might be going on in her head.
She will tell you. You will have a lot of amazing discussions with her and conversations deep into the night.
There won’t be a time when you will think of her as boring because she has so many stories to tell and her humor is on point.
2. She will admit her faults
If you have ever been in a relationship where your partner would do anything except admit that she was the one at fault, you won’t have that same fear when you’re with a confident woman.
A confident woman knows that we’re all human and we all make mistakes. She will probably make a mistake by accident but she will let you know.
She will apologize and show you how sorry she actually is about what she did, and she will never blame someone else.
There simply isn’t a reason for her to lie to you and she’s confident in her ability to do better next time.
Taking responsibility for her own mistakes is a huge sign you’re dealing with a strong woman.
3. She will be authentic
A confident woman loves herself and is proud of the woman she has become, so she won’t be anything else but herself.
If you ask her to change for you, she will decline the suggestion.
If you don’t like her for who she is, then you’re simply not the one for her. She will be authentically herself throughout everything that happens.
If she’s sad, mad, or happy, that is how she truly feels at that time.
Even the way she dresses will show you how confident she is, because she won’t ever wear something that doesn’t show her personality.
4. She is loyal
When a confident woman chooses to be in a relationship with you, she won’t ever cheat on you.
Why? Well, people cheat because they need validation and attention from someone else.
Those people don’t respect themselves just as much as they don’t respect their partner.
A confident woman will never cheat on you. She doesn’t need validation from someone else and she respects herself enough.
She made the conscious decision to be in a relationship with you, so she doesn’t need someone outside of the relationship to give her attention.
Even if she does start thinking about someone else, she will sit you down and have a conversation with you, instead of going behind your back.
Because of that, you will never have to question her loyalty.
5. She wants to be with you
You really don’t have to be insecure about whether or not you deserve her in your life.
A confident woman won’t be with someone she doesn’t find to be worthy of her.
She actually wants to be with you and she will choose you every single day.
If at any moment she sees that you’re not treating her right, she won’t hesitate to leave you.
Confident women are not afraid to be on their own, so the fact that she’s in a relationship with you means that she wants to be next to you.
She wants to spend her time with you and dedicate all her love and attention to you.
You really don’t have a reason to doubt her.
6. She has a life outside of the relationship
A woman who’s confident in herself always has her own thing going on. She draws inspiration from the things around her.
She probably has a job, hobbies, her own group of friends, and everything else she needs to keep her happy.
A confident woman knows that she can’t get all the satisfaction she can from just one type of relationship.
She needs her friends and she needs to work on her dreams to know that she is fulfilled.
For her, happiness doesn’t just come from a romantic relationship.
She will always think of interesting stories to tell you from her workplace or a story her friends told her.
You will still be a huge part of her life, but she knows that it’s not healthy to make you her entire life.
7. She will confront you when you mess up
A confident woman doesn’t have to play it cool when you insult her or do something that hurts her.
She will confront you right away if you mess something up.
You should believe that you can’t really work on your relationship unless you know what’s wrong to begin with.
There won’t be a time where you will see her throwing a tantrum or giving you the silent treatment.
She is a grown woman, a confident woman, and she knows what she wants from the relationship so she won’t hold back when it comes to getting it.
So why would she want to overlook your mistakes? She will forgive you, but she will also ask you to work on yourself.
8. She will support you
If anything, a confident woman is supportive of her partner.
She wants a partner with his own goals and dreams, so believe me when I tell you that she will support you.
She will be your number one fan and cheerleader, because she knows how hard it is to go through life without one.
You will see her support in the form of text messages before a job interview or a full-on motivational speech before you go to do something else important.
She will support all your dreams and she will do whatever is in her power to help you achieve them.
9. She knows how to make you feel loved and appreciated
The more you give to the relationship, the more you will receive. If you make her feel loved, she will do whatever it takes to do the same for you.
However, if you make her feel unloved, she will walk away before you even notice.
She will listen to you about all the things you love and she will make little mental notes to always surprise you with something.
Whatever it is that you might need in the relationship, she will be there to provide.
10. She won’t stay in an unhealthy relationship
As said before, a strong, independent and confident woman knows her own worth and she would never stay in an unhealthy relationship.
If a confident woman sees that you’re toxic for her or that you’re trying to manipulate her, she won’t hesitate to walk away from you.
She loves herself and her life enough to not let anyone (not even the man she loves) mess that up for her.
It will hurt and she knows that.
It will hurt to walk away from someone she’s spent so much time with, but she knows that it will hurt even more to lose herself for someone else.